Do you get turned on when you interact with people online, or is it only in person? By this I guess I mean when you chat with people in the chat rooms, or maybe via text or PM. Can what someone says turn you on via the written word only?
I am incredibly aroused by a bit of well-written smut. By that I don't mean perfectly spelt or punctuated smut, but just the right amount of filth before it borders on the crude. Sometimes text messages or PMs on here can really get me going. But then I love written erotica too; written rather than visual porn is my preference. I like using my imagination.
Just wondering if it's just me?
How about a shag then lol
I would so like to be able to talk or write dirty but i cant, I just end up feeling silly. I have written the odd piece of lit-erotica an think i get away with not doing so bad with that, but that's not person to person which is the big difference I guess.
I agree totally and firmly believe that the brain is the most important sexual organ.
It is the centre for imagination, all the senses, esteem and mental power.
So no wonder that people can "think/imagine" themselves to orgasm, without any touch what so ever.
I get turned on when I interact with people online, It's not just the words, but the feeling that there is something between us, or that there could be.
I Knew a lady on here and I never meet her, but we did have something.
Profile pics and watching cams on here was a big turn on when I first started, I now find them less arousing unless they are someone I have either met or am hopefully going to meet (Nice avatar Nola ;)).
Certain members seem to get me really hot in chat, usually by telling me something personal, unexpected and dirty I would not get from their profile or ads. I suppose it is the intimate connection over something filthy I find very arousing.
Oh good god, yes! I've been reduced to a simmering, quivering wreck many times by a couple of rather lovely men from here either via e mail, pm or text. The imagination is a wonderful thing.
I love it!
*Her*
I agree with those who have commented that the brain is the greatest stimulant of all. Perhaps some of you might recall, in the dim and distant past, the use of voicemail messages for recording responses to advertisers. In my experience, nothing compares to the dizzy anticipation of listening to someone using their voice to say a little about themselves. They may have left the most mundane of messages, but the erotic thrill of hearing a person describe who they are and what they are looking for, and the vivid unspoken detail that is conveyed to the listener regarding social class, regional accent and the personal nuances of speech itself, is simply unparalleled in conjuring up an impression, in my case, of an interested couple and the mutual pleasures that could potentially follow as a consequence, and often did. The memory of those messages, often simply conveyed, remains strongly imprinted.
The internet may be a valuable tool for meeting like-minded people, but I preferred it when the voice was the only necessary tool for social engagement. Maybe i'm alone in thinking this way?
Ahhh... the voice.
I have actually been put off meeting people after hearing their voices at the phonecall stage. I have a real 'thing' for voices. For me it's not about accent or dialect but usually the tone/pitch that puts me off.
Ahem...
May I experiment?
This one's for the ladies:
Imagine my mouth close to your ear, so close you can feel the warmth of my skin, but not my touch...
I growl a long low, soft growl deep in my throat, then take a nibble of the soft tender skin just behind your earlobe.
I tell you I am going to take my tongue and trace the line of your collarbone from your shoulder to the base of your throat. I tell you I will take my time and savour the taste of your skin. I ask you feel the tingle on your skin before I start.
Then I hesitate for a heartbeat, just about to make contact with your skin, watching the goosebumps run down your arms.
Then I slowly, gently, softly drag the very tip of my tongue along your collar bone making a long slow gentle curving circle at the hollow of your throat before moving directly along your thoat to your lips...
Any good?
See, gets me every time!
I need woman with tits and fannys and stuff 
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