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ORAL..... BAREBACK
Can i have a Mc Donalds instead of a big mac ls lol ???
Hows ya tongue now ??
This thread is a bit like olden days when peeps ar'nt well informed on stuff...good example is "can i catch aids/HIV" from sitting on a toilet seat... or drinkin from same cup etc"
Its all down to the persons own preference i suppose...wheather they do or dont...tis their live and their choice
Hows ya tongue now ??
This thread is a bit like olden days when peeps ar'nt well informed on stuff...good example is "can i catch aids/HIV" from sitting on a toilet seat... or drinkin from same cup etc"
Its all down to the persons own preference i suppose...wheather they do or dont...tis their live and their choice
Sex God
denise don't slap me it's here ok!
must say i was always led to believe ( by the official govt line etc ) that the risks from oral either way were minimal? unless you were cut/ulcered etc? or am i just impossibly naive again ffs?
neil x x x x
must say i was always led to believe ( by the official govt line etc ) that the risks from oral either way were minimal? unless you were cut/ulcered etc? or am i just impossibly naive again ffs?
neil x x x x
Sex God
i am actually to tired to think of anything to say on this.. but upon threat of pain from denise.... i had to reply anyway! am sure it will make sense in the morning!!!!!
Sex God
I don't use condoms for BJ's, and would not swallow bodily fluids of a stranger. Guys we know well on the other hand may be luckier :twisted:
I always use an antibacterial/antiviral mouthwash after giving oral anyway just as a precaution.
Tracy-Jayne
I always use an antibacterial/antiviral mouthwash after giving oral anyway just as a precaution.
Tracy-Jayne
Sex God
Quote by DeniseBabe
I think men need to realise this before they start the demands of being swallowed, wake up people..... life is life!!!!
If I ever met a guy who demanded that I swallow, I would soon tell him to f**k off. Maybe you're meeting the wrong sort of guys Denise?
Tracy-Jayne xx
Sex God
Can we have a bit of balance here please? How many women would agree to being licked through a piece of rubber, and how many would not be offended if he ran to the bathroom to spit you out?
Sex God
WBB is now awake so is actually able to give her opinion on this. 
personally I don’t feel the need to use condoms for the purpose or oral sex, like I have indicated in a previous thread I am NOT a sallower and so I am not in the situation where I am ingesting copious amounts of other peoples bodily fluids however I would like to point out that the risks in oral sex are more to do with the penis being in your mouth in the first place than anything to do with if you chose to swallow or not! It is a fact that gastric juices in the stomach will immediately destroy or debilitate the HIV virus.
I am not however saying that oral sex does not carry risks.
it is possible to transmit HIV through genital to mouth contact, but this is NOT very common. - the lining of the mouth is much tougher than the lining of either the vagina or any other place u may wish to put it!
.also chemicals in saliva have an destructive effect on anything that maybe in the semen . I don’t believe that oral sex in this case is much riskier than say kissing someone when you are considering the risks of HIV infection......... and you cant use a condom for THAT!
This is all assuming that you do not have a recent tongue piercing or cut etc in your mouth. In witch case you are actually at great risk on infection. Also Any infection already present will also have the effect of making you much more susceptible to catching something else too as your immune system will be under more strain.
We also have to remember that there are many other things that we are at risk from, not just HIV.
And it is true the herpes virus is passed on in this way, but again it is MUCH more commonly passed on through mouth-to-mouth contact. And it goes without saying that if someone was showing outward symptoms of this I would not be going near him or her anyway!
it is true that there ARE sexually transmitted infections that are commonly passed on through oral contact, i.e. syphalis (sp?) and gohnoreah (sp???), however.. like in any activity that we do in life, you have to make a risk assessment and decide if the activity is worth while.
personally I don’t feel the need to use condoms for the purpose or oral sex, like I have indicated in a previous thread I am NOT a sallower and so I am not in the situation where I am ingesting copious amounts of other peoples bodily fluids however I would like to point out that the risks in oral sex are more to do with the penis being in your mouth in the first place than anything to do with if you chose to swallow or not! It is a fact that gastric juices in the stomach will immediately destroy or debilitate the HIV virus.
I am not however saying that oral sex does not carry risks.
it is possible to transmit HIV through genital to mouth contact, but this is NOT very common. - the lining of the mouth is much tougher than the lining of either the vagina or any other place u may wish to put it!
.also chemicals in saliva have an destructive effect on anything that maybe in the semen . I don’t believe that oral sex in this case is much riskier than say kissing someone when you are considering the risks of HIV infection......... and you cant use a condom for THAT!This is all assuming that you do not have a recent tongue piercing or cut etc in your mouth. In witch case you are actually at great risk on infection. Also Any infection already present will also have the effect of making you much more susceptible to catching something else too as your immune system will be under more strain.
We also have to remember that there are many other things that we are at risk from, not just HIV.
And it is true the herpes virus is passed on in this way, but again it is MUCH more commonly passed on through mouth-to-mouth contact. And it goes without saying that if someone was showing outward symptoms of this I would not be going near him or her anyway!
it is true that there ARE sexually transmitted infections that are commonly passed on through oral contact, i.e. syphalis (sp?) and gohnoreah (sp???), however.. like in any activity that we do in life, you have to make a risk assessment and decide if the activity is worth while.
Quote by Ice Pie
Can we have a bit of balance here please? How many women would agree to being licked through a piece of rubber, and how many would not be offended if he ran to the bathroom to spit you out?
It would be interesting to know the percentage of diseases caught from BJs as opposed to going down on a woman. Maybe I'm being arcaic in my thinking, but i'm sure it can't be compared. It is rare for a lesbian to catch aids, but it does happen. Whereas gay men have to be more careful. (Maybe I'm wrong.)
I think protected oral is a must. Loads of disease can be caught by doing bareback... Not so much for the recipient. There is a small chance of HIV, gonnorea (spell check me someone..), herpes, blah, blah, blah...
The mouth is a good point for HIV to be contracted.
Apart from the obvious risk if there are any wounds (bitten tongue, mouth ulcer/s or any pierced areas) the mouth, throat and nasal passage are also mucous membranes, which are good areas for hiv transmission to occur.
The risk is greatly increased by any other infections that a person may have, including a cold.
I'm getting depressed with this theme, can't we change to something else ?
Apart from the obvious risk if there are any wounds (bitten tongue, mouth ulcer/s or any pierced areas) the mouth, throat and nasal passage are also mucous membranes, which are good areas for hiv transmission to occur.
The risk is greatly increased by any other infections that a person may have, including a cold.
I'm getting depressed with this theme, can't we change to something else ?
I have to confess to never using condoms for blow jobs... My own guidelines are that the BIG no no is going anywhere near cuts or open wounds or any other situation where blood contamination is likely.
I do use them for penetrative sex as it's quite possible, during the heat of battle ( :twisted: ) for intimate skin to be broken.
But let us not get carried away here.... the HIV virus is well known to be weak. Simple precautions and a bit of common sense are all you need.
Hxx
I do use them for penetrative sex as it's quite possible, during the heat of battle ( :twisted: ) for intimate skin to be broken.
But let us not get carried away here.... the HIV virus is well known to be weak. Simple precautions and a bit of common sense are all you need.
Hxx
Sex God
i am a bit embarrased to admit this.. but i have no idea what a dental dam actually is! i know it is some sort of berrier method of protection, but woul dnot recognise one of it hit me in the face. i dont even know how they work!
Quote by well_busty_babe
i am a bit embarrased to admit this.. but i have no idea what a dental dam actually is! i know it is some sort of berrier method of protection, but woul dnot recognise one of it hit me in the face. i dont even know how they work!
I saw one on a sexual health film once... it's a sort of square of latex that the man holds against your sensitive bits while licking it. I read somewhere you can make one yourself by snipping the end of a condom, then cutting it down its side.
Warming the Bed
There's no way i would want to use a dental dam whilst going down on a woman, i love the taste of pussy juice so a dam would just ruin that pleasure.. 
Not an expert but , there is a thread on the BBCi BBS about AIDs HIV written by someone who is.
re swallowing , once you get it down , its safe the virus is killed by stomach acid, it is possible to get infected in the mouth nose or eyes ! So no more facials . These all qualify as "mucous membranes .along with the head of a dick .
Chance of getting HIV in a hetero vaginal sex ancounter is 0.3%.
All the above from memory , so you can see how indelible this stuff is. If anyone wants I will find the URL again and post it here
Have fun , stay safe.
re swallowing , once you get it down , its safe the virus is killed by stomach acid, it is possible to get infected in the mouth nose or eyes ! So no more facials . These all qualify as "mucous membranes .along with the head of a dick .
Chance of getting HIV in a hetero vaginal sex ancounter is 0.3%.
All the above from memory , so you can see how indelible this stuff is. If anyone wants I will find the URL again and post it here
Have fun , stay safe.
Sex God
Quote by Heather
I have to confess to never using condoms for blow jobs...
I always wear a flavoured condom for blowjobs as well as sex (Mrs. Easys favorite flavour is chocolate) and if you shop around the web you can find some amazing deals on them
. I have to use condoms as my partner has some very nasty reactions to the pill and we both agree that other methods don't suit us.And on the infection note, have you noticed that whenever you get a cold (a type of infection) you always get a sore throat first. This is because the infection imbeds itself in the warm. moist area and happily starts to multiply and that's after it possibly being filtered by the nose and mucas membrane.
Quote by well_busty_babe
It is a fact that gastric juices in the stomach will immediately destroy or debilitate the HIV virus
Absolutely correct. Swallowing or not has no relevance to contracting the HIV virus, and as you rightly point out it's the mouth that could cause the problem. -bleeding gums, sores etc.
Personally speaking, I think that performing oral with a condom is so totally and utterly pointless, that one wonders why we don't just all stay at home and masterbate instead
If any guy insisted on wering a condow whilst I was sucking him off I would leave imediately!! I would not suck rebber regardless of its flavour, at the end of the day they all taste of rubber. Ulk!!!
I love sucking cock but it has to be naked cock!!
There is a risk in anything and everything, after all you could get run over the minute you step outside your own front door or your computer could explode!!
I love sucking cock but it has to be naked cock!!
There is a risk in anything and everything, after all you could get run over the minute you step outside your own front door or your computer could explode!!
Quote by foxylady 123
There is a risk in anything and everything, after all you could get run over the minute you step outside your own front door or your computer could explode!!
Well said Foxy.
It's all about having a correct sense of proportion, you can be a responsible person yet get runover by a truck tomorrow....
Ooooooooooo....If you read WBB post a little more carefuly Loco, you will find she said "destroy or debilitate " that is a far cry from "having no relevance to contracting the HIV virus"...and is a misquote....It certainly does NOT mean you definitely can not be infected this way. I think perhaps a little responsibility may be called for here. This is a very powerful virus and whilst it was once thought that nothing could live in the extreme acidity of the stomach juices it has since been shown that bacteria such as "Helico" and others can live quite easily in the stomach, and only by being prescribed a cocktail of medication can this particular bug be destroyed. I think there is a need for extreme care when dishing out statements depicting “No relevance†with regard to HIV.
JudyTV
A good and informative post Judy, and of course one should exercise caution, but the proof is in the pudding so to speak. You name me one case of HIV that has directly been linked to swallowing, and maybe I'll change my opinion slightly.
Until I get proof, I do think it is fair to say that swallowing does not necessarily increase the risk of contracting HIV.
Quote by JudyTV
Loco,
I can’t prove to you that a forty ton truck will kill you if it hits you at seventy miles an hour on the M6. But I sure as hell wouldn’t want to find out by letting one hit me. JudyTV.
To be fair, I would say that currently it is a well known fact that if you did perform the practice of standing in front of a lorry and tried to swallow it's front bumper at seventy miles an hour, you would die.
The two practices are quite clearly miles apart in terms of risk. As I mentioned earlier, the moment the medical profession prove that swallowing kills, then it's simply a matter of personal choice.
we are not just talking about HIV here, we are talking about vast types of infections that can be passed on orally, vaginally, and anally.
the most common are
Genital warts
Chlamydia
Non-Specific urethritis (NSU)
Genital Herpes
Gonorrhoea (the clap)
the less common
Trichomonas vaginalis (TV)
Syphilis (The pox)
HIV (Human Immunodeficiency Virus)
Hepatitus B and C
Infestations, including scabies and pubic lice (crabs)
Sexual Transmitted Diseases are usually spread when infected blood, semen or vaginal fluid come into contact with another person during sex.....lets suck eggs for a minute
but some infections such as HIV and Hepatitus B and C can be spread in other ways ie dirty needles......
1. Chlamydia, NSU, Gonorrhoea, Hep B, and HIV infections are usually spread through penetractive vaginal, anal or oral sex (when the penis enters the vagina, anus or mouth)
2. TV is spread by vaginal sex, and though men carry it, they usually do not show symptoms. it can be passed on by sex between woman if fluid from the vagina is exchanged...by sharing sex toys
warts, Herpes and Syphilis can be spread through body contact between partners genital areas. because these infections can occur on or in the mouth, they can also be spread by ORAL SEX
4 Scabies, crabs and other infestations can be spread by any of these sexual practices and also by skin contact.
Remember people be clean be safe.............use the green cross code
nige..........drug councillor (soph n nige)
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sing..............3 is the magic number
the most common are
Genital warts
Chlamydia
Non-Specific urethritis (NSU)
Genital Herpes
Gonorrhoea (the clap)
the less common
Trichomonas vaginalis (TV)
Syphilis (The pox)
HIV (Human Immunodeficiency Virus)
Hepatitus B and C
Infestations, including scabies and pubic lice (crabs)
Sexual Transmitted Diseases are usually spread when infected blood, semen or vaginal fluid come into contact with another person during sex.....lets suck eggs for a minute
but some infections such as HIV and Hepatitus B and C can be spread in other ways ie dirty needles......
1. Chlamydia, NSU, Gonorrhoea, Hep B, and HIV infections are usually spread through penetractive vaginal, anal or oral sex (when the penis enters the vagina, anus or mouth)
2. TV is spread by vaginal sex, and though men carry it, they usually do not show symptoms. it can be passed on by sex between woman if fluid from the vagina is exchanged...by sharing sex toys
warts, Herpes and Syphilis can be spread through body contact between partners genital areas. because these infections can occur on or in the mouth, they can also be spread by ORAL SEX
4 Scabies, crabs and other infestations can be spread by any of these sexual practices and also by skin contact.
Remember people be clean be safe.............use the green cross code
nige..........drug councillor (soph n nige)
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sing..............3 is the magic number
Okies i never swallow but love giving a BJ i just could not give a guy a BJ with a comdom on i understand the for and against but at the end of the day its down to ourselves if i noticed a cut or a scab of any sort i would not go ahead with the BJ thankfully ive never come across anything like that and hopefully i wont .
