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The only suggestion I have, is talk it though with each other properly and be very aware of all the risks !!
Sometimes fantasies are best left as that fantasies ...
Sometimes fantasies are best left as that fantasies ...
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Quote by kentswingers777
I think to give out advice or links to something which could end up killing someone, is a bit distasteful.
It is dangerous and quite frankly weird to want to go down the strangulation route.
There is no sensible way of going about strangling someone to the point of passing out or worse.
i dont know i could have strangled my ex wife a few times and would like nothing else but to stuff an orange in her gob
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Quote by kentswingers777
I think to give out advice or links to something which could end up killing someone, is a bit distasteful.
It is dangerous and quite frankly weird to want to go down the strangulation route.
There is no sensible way of going about strangling someone to the point of passing out or worse.
Oh like barebacking you mean :lol2: (oh my what did i say)
breath control can quite the most amazing thing but fuck me you gotta trust and be trusted. I think starting with gags and the like has to be the way forward then maybe small steps from there but always always be realistic and remember that at all times you have to be in control in some fashion and set boundaries and never exceed those boundaries at that session.
Sex God
Quote by kentswingers777
I think to give out advice or links to something which could end up killing someone, is a bit distasteful.
It is dangerous and quite frankly weird to want to go down the strangulation route.
There is no sensible way of going about strangling someone to the point of passing out or worse.
For goodness' sake - swinging is considered too dangerous to discuss in many situations. Remember you are simply applying your own opinions to this. You don't get to berate others for discussing something you personally don't like.
Quote by Kaznkev
I think to give out advice or links to something which could end up killing someone, is a bit distasteful.
It is dangerous and quite frankly weird to want to go down the strangulation route.
There is no sensible way of going about strangling someone to the point of passing out or worse.
Many things humans do is considered wierd,dangerous,distastestful
but them if i hadnt posted the link you wouldnt have commented,which is wierd in its own sad little way.
:gagged:
Sex God
Quote by kentswingers777
I think to give out advice or links to something which could end up killing someone, is a bit distasteful.
It is dangerous and quite frankly weird to want to go down the strangulation route.
There is no sensible way of going about strangling someone to the point of passing out or worse.
Many things humans do is considered wierd,dangerous,distastestful
but them if i hadnt posted the link you wouldnt have commented,which is wierd in its own sad little way.
:gagged:
Easy on that ducktape Kenty :giggle:
Quote by foxylady2209
I think to give out advice or links to something which could end up killing someone, is a bit distasteful.
It is dangerous and quite frankly weird to want to go down the strangulation route.
There is no sensible way of going about strangling someone to the point of passing out or worse.
For goodness' sake - swinging is considered too dangerous to discuss in many situations. Remember you are simply applying your own opinions to this. You don't get to berate others for discussing something you personally don't like.
In what situations exactly is swinging dangerous?
Many people have died ffs experimenting with this.
Are games ok too now then?
We are not talking about darts here, we are talking about a person who wants to strangle someone to unconsciousness, or as close as possible.
Each to their own like Gagmaster who wants to feed someone cooking oil....but suffocation is another thing completely!
" Deaths often occur when the loss of consciousness caused by partial asphyxia leads to loss of control over the means of strangulation, resulting in continued asphyxia and death ".
Sex God
I wonder if Vodafone and overdose would have the same effect as Orange and strangulation?
Sex God
Not my cup of tea, but consenting adults and all that....
Sex God
Quote by kentswingers777
I think to give out advice or links to something which could end up killing someone, is a bit distasteful.
It is dangerous and quite frankly weird to want to go down the strangulation route.
There is no sensible way of going about strangling someone to the point of passing out or worse.
I think that this is exactly the kind of place where people could ask for advice on such a subject. We are all adults and informed consent is a site where bondage and the likes are discussed openly.
We have conversations here about unprotected sex. That could end up killing someone. This is an adult site where adults come for help and opinions from like minded people. I don't think there's anything wrong with that at all.
There are many things that aren't my cup of tea but each to their own and all that. Surely it's better to have all the facts you possibly can before you embark on a new pursuit? Just because it's not something you would consider, don't be so quick to judge other people who wish to investigate and then make an informed choice.
Sex God
It IS a dangerous thing.. but so is anal and I'm sure there are plenty of people who partake in that 
. It is something myself and my partner do, BUT we are very in tune with each other and know how far we can take things so we are still comfortable. I found having my head held back is usually sufficient restriction of the airways enough without actual choking, but when we do take it that step further we have to have alternative ways of communicating if we want the other to stop whatever they are doing because obviously it is impossible to say the safe word.
. It is something myself and my partner do, BUT we are very in tune with each other and know how far we can take things so we are still comfortable. I found having my head held back is usually sufficient restriction of the airways enough without actual choking, but when we do take it that step further we have to have alternative ways of communicating if we want the other to stop whatever they are doing because obviously it is impossible to say the safe word. Sex God
Quote by kentswingers777
I think to give out advice or links to something which could end up killing someone, is a bit distasteful.
It is dangerous and quite frankly weird to want to go down the strangulation route.
There is no sensible way of going about strangling someone to the point of passing out or worse.
For goodness' sake - swinging is considered too dangerous to discuss in many situations. Remember you are simply applying your own opinions to this. You don't get to berate others for discussing something you personally don't like.
In what situations exactly is swinging dangerous?
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Have you actually heard of AIDS? Just cos you don't die on the spot doesn't make some of the activities in Swinging (as well as vanilla sex) dangerous.
Sex God
Quote by kentswingers777
Why am I bothering?
Carry on...it won't affect me in the slightest if it goes terribly wrong.
Because dear boy you like to
It doesn't effect you but its a topic that's interesting and not a happy sodding birthday one and it gets people challenging their ideas and perceptions and maybe allowing some freedom of expression with people who do things that maybe of a similar or equally diverse nature to get their sexual kicks. You don't like the idea that's fine you've said your bit people have reacted to it enough said your point has been made.
I love reading about the weirder stuff, and it is weird some of it. The pint of cooking oil type thing I just think is piss taking but hey its still entertainment of sorts. all goes to enriching my life and leading me to greater acceptance of people and their predilections
Sex God
Quote by Freckledbird
I wonder if Vodafone and overdose would have the same effect as Orange and strangulation?
I was going for the mobile phone themed thread too and nearly didn't bother looking FB but i'm glad I did Risky sex = yummy reading
Sex God
If you are going to try erotic asphyxia with a partner, maybe the partner should consider some CPR training, just in case. ;)
Sex God
^^^^^^^
Very good post. :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup:
I think this is what the o/p was looking for. Someone to be informative, to draw on their own life-experience and just some advice and support, not someone judging them.
As I said, a very good post.
@ Kaznkev: What were the arguments put forward for not knowing CPR? Was it about the increase in danger/risk, or was it concerns that they wouldn't be able to do CPR correctly?
Very good post. :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup:
I think this is what the o/p was looking for. Someone to be informative, to draw on their own life-experience and just some advice and support, not someone judging them.
As I said, a very good post.
@ Kaznkev: What were the arguments put forward for not knowing CPR? Was it about the increase in danger/risk, or was it concerns that they wouldn't be able to do CPR correctly?
Sex God
Quote by easy
If you are going to try erotic asphyxia with a partner, maybe the partner should consider some CPR training, just in case. ;)
Might be good to read up on manslaughter laws as well or just keep the number of a good barrister :thumbup:
Quote by AtomCom2001
The only suggestion I have, is talk it though with each other properly and be very aware of all the risks !!
Sometimes fantasies are best left as that fantasies ...
Completely agree with your last line. This whole point is based on the premise that sex drive increases (out of desparation)being driven by lower (animal) brain just before the point of death. This is an absolute NO to my mind.
Plim :twisted:
Sex God
Quote by Kaznkev
i bothered because i dont judge and it seems better to try things from an informed standpoint.i care about others,i dont pillory them.
And play,sounds fab to me.
On very rare occasions the wife can love to pretend she is being forced by a stranger, just one of the thousands of fantasies we often act out
Quote by Bluefish2009
On very rare occasions the wife can love to pretend she is being forced by a stranger, just one of the thousands of fantasies we often act out
Yes Blue to you and even to me that is a game that many act out and enjoy... play but...this site will not allow rooms in the chat.
So does that make the people on here wrong to judge others, as was said to me over the strangulation debate?
That was my point in the first place but was vilified for my comments. Maybe the next person that does a room can argue to admin that surely it is all about live and let live?
Just a thought matey.
Sex God
Quote by Kaznkev
^^^^^^^
Very good post. :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup:
I think this is what the o/p was looking for. Someone to be informative, to draw on their own life-experience and just some advice and support, not someone judging them.
As I said, a very good post.
@ Kaznkev: What were the arguments put forward for not knowing CPR? Was it about the increase in danger/risk, or was it concerns that they wouldn't be able to do CPR correctly?
Generally that people may do it incorrectly,there was a strong arguement from some that basic first aid is vital for some aspects of S&M.i am too inexperienced to really comment ,but it doesnt seem a bad idea if u are doing stuff like knives,breath play
if you watch cleaver knife play kas they keep the knifes in the freezer then use the blunt side after showing the submissive other sharp knifes before being blind folded
the effect of the blunt side of the iced knife actually feels like its really cutting so no danger involved unless your talking medical play which is a different thing all together
