The elusive female orgasm! Men learn to orgasm (cum) from an early age usually around 13. Women are sexually mature before men but from what ive heard dont usually learn to orgasm till well after this if ever! It can be really hard to make some women reach orgasm especially if they dont masturbate by themselves on occasion. Is this because in the past female masturbation has been a subject and there for not practiced as much men?
(If this question has been asked before i appologise in advance but i couldnt find anything using the search button)
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well i've took some horse tranquilisers now so i'm calm, but the link between a woman not masturbating and not being able to orgasm i just made the straight link. i think these theories are made up by guys who couldn't manage to get their missus off and so made it up to absolve themselves of blame. (and i think i've shagged him!)
but hey no problems here with my orgasm tally :happy:
but hey no problems here with my orgasm tally :happy:
Sex God
I don't wank anymore cos I don't need to. The sex I have (and the amount of orgasms I have) more than keeps me satisfied until the next time we have sex.
Women who do masterbate maybe a little more clued into what they do and don't like and so might be more able to guide/help the guy out but you can't beat trying things out and asking her whats good and what isnt.
Communication is the key to great orgasms, not laying blame with either male or female.
Gem. x
Women who do masterbate maybe a little more clued into what they do and don't like and so might be more able to guide/help the guy out but you can't beat trying things out and asking her whats good and what isnt.
Communication is the key to great orgasms, not laying blame with either male or female.
Gem. x
Sex God
Quote by bisto kid
Old enough to know better! No guy would ever admit to not being able to give his partner an orgasm...... some women trickle thru life never having 1 obviously thats a problem for the women on here.
How the fuck do you know what we need when you come on here make broad sweeping statements without having the knowledge to back it up.
You don't and will NEVER know what I, as a female, will want and need so how dare you guess at anything without having sound knowledge to back it all up.
Why have you come to this site you blatently know nothing about swinging or swingers and seem far too pig headed to open you mind and learn.... you seem way more satisfied by blaming everybody else for your shortfalls and lack of sexual performance.
:x :x :x :x :x
Not every male comes easily either but you don't hear me as a female complaining about that and saying that he is crap cos he doesn't masterbate and doesnt know what he likes therefore if he doesnt know then it's not my problem. :x :x :x
Am I annoyed??? you bet your life I am.
:x Gem.
Casanova
Hi bisto kid
Welcome along !!
You certainly have managed to put yourself in the spotlight very early !!
Does your sig refer to you practising a lot yourself then ???
Oooops :doh: I mean on your own !!!
Have fun here I am sure you will !! :grin:
Regards
Dan
P.S. Little word of advice. Do not upset the lady members !! :jagsatwork:
Welcome along !!
You certainly have managed to put yourself in the spotlight very early !!
Does your sig refer to you practising a lot yourself then ???
Oooops :doh: I mean on your own !!!
Have fun here I am sure you will !! :grin:
Regards
Dan
P.S. Little word of advice. Do not upset the lady members !! :jagsatwork:
Sex God
Quote by little gem
I don't wank anymore cos I don't need to. The sex I have (and the amount of orgasms I have) more than keeps me satisfied until the next time we have sex.
:shock: :shock: OMG I'm either really pervy or you're getting a helluva lot more sex than I am Gem (and I think we're at least on a par at the moment!) I still masturbate at least once a day though (usually twice) and for the record, no problems orgasming with other people or on my own ;)
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Sex God
Quote by bisto kid
I meant to say NOT a problem lol sorry
Just thought I'd repeat this for him. I had a feeling that was what he meant anyway ;)
Orgasminator
Quote by bisto kid
The elusive female orgasm! Men learn to orgasm (cum) from an early age usually around 13. Women are sexually mature before men but from what ive heard dont usually learn to orgasm till well after this if ever! It can be really hard to make some women reach orgasm especially if they dont masturbate by themselves on occasion. Is this because in the past female masturbation has been a subject and there for not practiced as much men?
(If this question has been asked before i appologise in advance but i couldnt find anything using the search button)
Have got to agree with this....
I find/found it really difficult to fully relax enough and orgasm..... Purely because I never did self service for years... but... and this is the bit that makes me die with embarressment... Some people... and not everyone has the ability patience to bring me to completion... just because I get wet.. moist and sometimes gush... does not mean i have orgasmed
ops:Having found one person who has been able to take the time and patience with me.. it has encouraged me to relax with others... and actually allow myself to orgasm.....
/me goes off to hide from the pointing from the masses
Sex God
Quote by Angel Chat
I don't wank anymore cos I don't need to. The sex I have (and the amount of orgasms I have) more than keeps me satisfied until the next time we have sex.
:shock: :shock: OMG I'm either really pervy or you're getting a helluva lot more sex than I am Gem (and I think we're at least on a par at the moment!) I still masturbate at least once a day though (usually twice) and for the record, no problems orgasming with other people or on my own ;)
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it's not the quantity Angel it's the quality! If the quality is there then I don't find I have to masterbate as much (same for him too cos we talked about it) cos we know that the next time is going to be so much better than whatever we do on our own anyway.
Gem. x
ps. Apologies for flying off on one at you.
I suggest you check your posts before you submit cos I can't do with my blood boiling too often like that at this time of the month! :lol:
