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me & snow_white were talking about having an orgy, but have only vague (though filthy) ideas about how to do it... we reckon we have a few friends who'd be up for it, so that side's covered, but we could do with a little expert advice on how to make it go with a, erm, swing?
so, any ideas? how do we get everyone in the mood? do we just get people to strip on the door & dive in, or have party games and canapes first? any pitfalls to avoid? obviously there's not necessarily any hard & fast rules, but i've found it's always best to learn from other people's experiences before leaping in head first...
We have a friend who, should things not be 'kicking off' at a party, has an agreement to suck and be sucked, with my husband. (Oooh, first timeI've called him that, in here- we got married on Monday).
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We have a friend who, should things not be 'kicking off' at a party, has an agreement to suck and be sucked, with my husband. (Oooh, first timeI've called him that, in here- we got married on Monday).

congrats. just been looking through your pics - you must be very happy. smile
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so, any ideas? how do we get everyone in the mood?

Play the blow job game... that works wink
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congrats. just been looking through your pics - you must be very happy. smile

Annoyingly so, medearie.
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Play the blow job game... that works wink

what's the blowjob game? as i say, we're pretty green when it comes to this sort of stuff...
i suppose it doesn't require that much explaination... lol
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so, any ideas? how do we get everyone in the mood?

Play the blow job game... that works wink
The blow job game? There has to be more to it than just randomly giving head surely?
Perhaps 'spin the bottle' with the questions and dares pre written could be a good ice breaker? Good or bad idea?
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what's the blowjob game?

There is more than one variation, but the simplest way is to tie one geezer to a chair and blindfold him. Next, get your guests to blow him for 1 min each, in turn. Then he has to guess who each blower was and whether they were male or female. You can also have a female guesser if don't want to be sexist cool
Not a bad idea, at all. Depends on the age and whatever of your guests, I spose.
I believe the BJ game involvers blindfolds. Two versions (tha I know)... one- the chap is blindfolded and has to say whether the giver is male or female. The other is where the 'sucker' is blindfolded and has to guess who it is they're sucking.
I am still interested in what goes on behind closed doors
Blue Have you done the above trick at your parties ??
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Blue Have you done the above trick at your parties ??

Yes, many users of this forum have played that game lol
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Yes, many users of this forum have played that game lol

i was just thinking something to do with bears, shitting and woods... has he not read your party thread? :lol:
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Yes, many users of this forum have played that game lol

i was just thinking something to do with bears, shitting and woods... has he not read your party thread? :lol:
Well, I would have thought the pictures speak for themselves anyway :twisted:
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Well, I would have thought the pictures speak for themselves anyway :twisted:

pictures? where are they? i may need to see 'em for... instruction purposes... :twisted:
The blowjob game sounds interesting but i guess everyone has to be open minded and pretty pissed to enjoy it. I have not withnessed one but i guess it would be fun provided only the ladies give me a blow and not male although you never know what happens when blindfolded confused
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The blowjob game sounds interesting but i guess everyone has to be open minded and pretty pissed to enjoy it. I have not withnessed one but i guess it would be fun provided only the ladies give me a blow and not male although you never know what happens when blindfolded confused

Pissed? No!
The idea of notr wanting same sex games kinda defeats the BJ game, doesn't it? A mouth is a mouth, babe.
i would have thought pissed would be a big no-no for a (successful) orgy... drunk people tend to forget rather about their (and other people's) limits. not a good thing in this situation?
Haven’t really be doing much reading up on the party section, or personal profiles
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i would have thought pissed would be a big no-no for a (successful) orgy... drunk people tend to forget rather about their (and other people's) limits. not a good thing in this situation?

Well considering the reason you banned yourself from drinking, copious amounts of alcohol doesn't seem like the best way to go. I don't want it to turn into a pile of snoring men and the sisters doing it for themselves (and each other).
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The blowjob game sounds interesting but i guess everyone has to be open minded and pretty pissed to enjoy it. I have not withnessed one but i guess it would be fun provided only the ladies give me a blow and not male although you never know what happens when blindfolded confused

uuuummmmm yeah. but then at blues parties that's kinda the point! in a crowded room how you gonna tell which bits necessarily belong to which bods, let alone with blindfolds on! course the alternative would be to tie one of the girls to the chair instead! or even both. :twisted: biggrin
n x x x :P
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The blowjob game sounds interesting but i guess everyone has to be open minded and pretty pissed to enjoy it. I have not withnessed one but i guess it would be fun provided only the ladies give me a blow and not male although you never know what happens when blindfolded confused

No, no, no... it is not good to go to a swingers party and get too pissed.... you'd remember nothing afterwards :?
Seriously, if you need to get very pissed to enjoy swinging, don't swing.
Pictures from one blow job game can be seen here (first 8 pics):
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/personal/silkies/Blue's%
Now then.... Im not gay..not even Bi.. but this game blue just mentioned....
When i read and saw the pics.... suddenly i did get a sudden twitch, A shot of heat to my cock if you will.. lol The thought of being blindfolded and not knowing i guess.
hmm.. curiosity
Magik
cheers blue... i like the idea of the blindfold & tying up too, if truth be told... redface
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Now then.... Im not gay..not even Bi.. but this game blue just mentioned....
When i read and saw the pics.... suddenly i did get a sudden twitch, A shot of heat to my cock if you will.. lol The thought of being blindfolded and not knowing i guess.
hmm.. curiosity
Magik

Like someone said, a mouth a is a mouth.
I see what its all about now lol
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Now then.... Im not gay..not even Bi.. but this game blue just mentioned....
When i read and saw the pics.... suddenly i did get a sudden twitch, A shot of heat to my cock if you will.. lol The thought of being blindfolded and not knowing i guess.
hmm.. curiosity
Magik

Like someone said, a mouth a is a mouth.
That would be me, then.
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Now then.... Im not gay..not even Bi.. but this game blue just mentioned....
When i read and saw the pics.... suddenly i did get a sudden twitch, A shot of heat to my cock if you will.. lol The thought of being blindfolded and not knowing i guess.
hmm.. curiosity
Magik

Like someone said, a mouth a is a mouth.
That would be me, then.
What would be you vix?
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Now then.... Im not gay..not even Bi.. but this game blue just mentioned....
When i read and saw the pics.... suddenly i did get a sudden twitch, A shot of heat to my cock if you will.. lol The thought of being blindfolded and not knowing i guess.
hmm.. curiosity
Magik

Like someone said, a mouth a is a mouth.
That would be me, then.
What would be you vix?
The someone.
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Now then.... Im not gay..not even Bi.. but this game blue just mentioned....
When i read and saw the pics.... suddenly i did get a sudden twitch, A shot of heat to my cock if you will.. lol The thought of being blindfolded and not knowing i guess.
hmm.. curiosity
Magik

Like someone said, a mouth a is a mouth.
That would be me, then.
Yes, sorry, I forgot who it was redface I totally agree with you though. I don't think it should matter at all, especially in games like that :twisted:
I tried that with Mrs Bilko. confused :? :?
I tied her up on a chair and said "I'm going to enjoy this more than you."
Then I put my coat on and went to the NW Munch!! :shock: :shock: :? :? :? lol :lol: :lol: :lol: