I have an account on another site. This site is better! Fat more friendly and lots of chat and fun here.
I have noticed that others have accounts on that site. In fact I have contacted at least one couple from this site there. Rather embarrassing really, I should have known, I even did a name search for them and failed.
Now at this stage I stress I spend most time here and my voyage to the other site was due to an e-mail from a friend.
So who has accounts else where?
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We have accounts on quite a few other sites but I haven't logged into the in ages. One account on a large site and two on smaller ones.
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We have two more accounts though both others are more rarely, although on the one to which some of SH have migrated to, yes, even an op and mod or two, does have a somewhat easier and superior search for meets facility and of course its free although in my mind the rest of the site is crap. SH has for the most part been the better site although this inexorable move to a more facebookian type of format has taken a lot of the social interaction away from the site in so far as multi-room entry available, means no one talk in most of the rooms anymore. A lot of the people are in 3 or 4 rooms so the chances of any discourse is diminished. The individual group forums if they work to any degree just take people away from the main contact arena's and now with the instant messaging contact has been reduced further.
I can see thec reasoning that the site is trying to be all things to all people but on the other hand for a community site such as it is what is happening is the general social aspect of the site is being fractured and diminished through having these multitude of facilities available. Admirable thinking by the site owners but the over develop[ement of the site is smothering it.
The biggy for me personally is for christs sake get rid of multi-room occupation its fucked all but a few rooms totally - Admin take a walk through the servers every now and then, find out yourselves
I can see thec reasoning that the site is trying to be all things to all people but on the other hand for a community site such as it is what is happening is the general social aspect of the site is being fractured and diminished through having these multitude of facilities available. Admirable thinking by the site owners but the over develop[ement of the site is smothering it.
The biggy for me personally is for christs sake get rid of multi-room occupation its fucked all but a few rooms totally - Admin take a walk through the servers every now and then, find out yourselves
I have been on this site..and for my sins...since 2004. I have been members of a few other sites over the years, but cancelled them as didn't think they lived up to swinging heaven. I am currently on one other free site, that i think alot of us off here know about and use.
what I find is the other site...is good for instant or quick meets. Your ad gets refreshed everytime you log in..or log in to your mail. Now this is okay, but equally does lead to couples and lone females, getting a mail box full, every time they log on !!! So in conclusion..its a quick meet site....
Swinging heaven I feel has developed into a sexually open social community site. This personally I love. There are lots of socials and chances to meet each other at clubs. Great for putting names to faces. great for getting to know, if you would actually like to swing with that person !! We have camping trips and such like in the summer.
Each to there own really. If you just want a quick meet site....then this probably isn't the best for you. If you want a site, with a community feel to it; where you make sexy freinds; gain an exciting social side to your life.....and then choose who you want to meet.....then there is no other better site in my opinion.
As I say..I been here since 2004..and for me the site has just got better and better.
what I find is the other site...is good for instant or quick meets. Your ad gets refreshed everytime you log in..or log in to your mail. Now this is okay, but equally does lead to couples and lone females, getting a mail box full, every time they log on !!! So in conclusion..its a quick meet site....
Swinging heaven I feel has developed into a sexually open social community site. This personally I love. There are lots of socials and chances to meet each other at clubs. Great for putting names to faces. great for getting to know, if you would actually like to swing with that person !! We have camping trips and such like in the summer.
Each to there own really. If you just want a quick meet site....then this probably isn't the best for you. If you want a site, with a community feel to it; where you make sexy freinds; gain an exciting social side to your life.....and then choose who you want to meet.....then there is no other better site in my opinion.
As I say..I been here since 2004..and for me the site has just got better and better.
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We are on two more sites ... one is a free one which we only use to arrange meets as the facility for this seems better but the chat and forum are no good.
The other one is very new and is associated with the club which we go to a lot ... we never log in and only joined to support the club.
This site is much better for chat and the forum but not great for arranging anything. I spend half my life on here!! :twisted:
The other one is very new and is associated with the club which we go to a lot ... we never log in and only joined to support the club.
This site is much better for chat and the forum but not great for arranging anything. I spend half my life on here!! :twisted:
We are on other sites as I think most " genuine " swingers would be.
It just increases our chances of more meets.
This site is better run and has more options than the others but....we have had more meets off of a much smaller site.
I think this site attracts a lot more people for many reasons,meeting people for sex is not one of them for many.
Still this site is FREE for us so on that basis it is fantastic value for no money.
It does not get any better than free.
It just increases our chances of more meets.
This site is better run and has more options than the others but....we have had more meets off of a much smaller site.
I think this site attracts a lot more people for many reasons,meeting people for sex is not one of them for many.
Still this site is FREE for us so on that basis it is fantastic value for no money.
It does not get any better than free.
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I have an account on another site. This site is better! Fat more friendly and lots of chat and fun here.
I have noticed that others have accounts on that site. In fact I have contacted at least one couple from this site there. Rather embarrassing really, I should have known, I even did a name search for them and failed.
Now at this stage I stress I spend most time here and my voyage to the other site was due to an e-mail from a friend.
So who has accounts else where?
I dont have accounts on other sites ....I have enough contacts and friends from this gr8 site
Trav..
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We have 'accounts' on a number of other sites - purely in the interests of research :evil2:
Some we like for different reasons / functions but generally we like to spend the majority of out time here in the SH Community
Some we like for different reasons / functions but generally we like to spend the majority of out time here in the SH Community
i did have a profile on one other site. But found it was pretty much useless, unfriendly requests for meets of mainly men. Although it stated i was straight? I ended up deleting my account as i never used it and didnt want anybody nicking my pictures. Im interested to know about the other popular one people are also on. Hope that does not land me in the dungeon. But to be honest I like this site and the community alot. so doubt i will migrate any where else.
I'm a bit of a site, in fact Im a right state!
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We are on other sites as I think most " genuine " swingers would be.
I'm curious, why does a genuine swinger need to be on other sites?
Does me not being a member of another site mean that I am not a genuine swinger
We have/had accounts on most free sites (forgotten user name/password on lots and the sites have disappeared for others) and, although we rarely look at any but here and one other, that must make us 'genuine' swingers.
We've dabbled with munches, going to a few off here and elsewhere, including NW1 and NW2, but never look for meets off the net. We use the sites to keep in touch with people we meet at clubs and for light entertainment so the quality of forum or chat is more important than potential meets. However, every site has complaints about timewasters, dreamers, fakes and other non-genuine swingers like Dawnie and usually there are demands to make them pay sites to get rid of the problem. :lol:
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We are on other sites as I think most " genuine " swingers would be.
I'm curious, why does a genuine swinger need to be on other sites?
Does me not being a member of another site mean that I am not a genuine swinger
I used the word MOST.....if I would have said ALL I would understand your arguement.
People really need to read ALL of a reply and not just a part of it.
It's all in the 'implication' though Kenty.
It can confuse, and often does.
(not you specifically, that is very much a generalisation)
lp
It can confuse, and often does.
(not you specifically, that is very much a generalisation)
lp
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We are on other sites as I think most " genuine " swingers would be.
I'm curious, why does a genuine swinger need to be on other sites?
Does me not being a member of another site mean that I am not a genuine swinger
I used the word MOST.....if I would have said ALL I would understand your arguement.
People really need to read ALL of a reply and not just a part of it.
Well in your initial post you made emphasis on the word genuine by using " either side but made no such emphasis on the word most so it would be safe to assume that in fact the word most was not as important in the afore mentioned post as the word genuine was...
Sorry Steve obviously have to be a bit clearer.
Does it not say MOST in my reply then?
Does it not say MOST in my reply then?
Yes I have just rejoined a paying site set up for adultery. Its a very different feel from what it was 2-3 years ago. a lot more demanding and specific. but there aren't forums and chat rooms, only one to one set ups.
There will be some results soon. The women are up for a 'swing'/affair/cheat etc. But its full on stuff and almost like a day's work to maintain a profile and keep prising responses from women. They tend to forget that the men have a limited time in which to make contacts.
There will be some results soon. The women are up for a 'swing'/affair/cheat etc. But its full on stuff and almost like a day's work to maintain a profile and keep prising responses from women. They tend to forget that the men have a limited time in which to make contacts.
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Sorry Steve obviously have to be a bit clearer.
Does it not say MOST in my reply then?
It does indeed but then Dawnie was refering to your initial post which did not :-)
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Sorry Steve obviously have to be a bit clearer.
Does it not say MOST in my reply then?
It does indeed but then Dawnie was refering to your initial post which did not :-)
You have lost me completely.
What initial post? I only made one post which she replied too. In that Initial post I used the word most....cannot understand where you are coming from with this.
Sex God
In your first post you emphasised the word genuine
In your subsequent posts you emphasised the word most...
Although your first post did ,as you rightly pointed out, contain the word most it was over shadowed by your emphasis of the word genuine and it was your first post that Dawnie made reference to....
In your subsequent posts you emphasised the word most...
Although your first post did ,as you rightly pointed out, contain the word most it was over shadowed by your emphasis of the word genuine and it was your first post that Dawnie made reference to....
I'm just on this one.
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In your first post you emphasised the word genuine
In your subsequent posts you emphasised the word most...
Although your first post did ,as you rightly pointed out, contain the word most it was over shadowed by your emphasis of the word genuine and it was your first post that Dawnie made reference to....
That of course is how you saw it, but you just picked out a bit of my post, and really need to read all of it..........naughty boy.
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In your first post you emphasised the word genuine
In your subsequent posts you emphasised the word most...
Although your first post did ,as you rightly pointed out, contain the word most it was over shadowed by your emphasis of the word genuine and it was your first post that Dawnie made reference to....
That of course is how you saw it, but you just picked out a bit of my post, and really need to read all of it..........naughty boy.
As I read it in the same way Steve explains, you had better spank me too :lol2:
Now I don't understand what a 'genuie' swinger is
Sex God
Stop being so fucking picky everyone
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Stop being so fucking picky everyone
thank you........
and this is the reason why I haven't been around much... and have been "elsewhere
I have some great friends here... but between all the petty bickering, the "look at me" people, and just general squabbling I had had enough......
so decided to go elsewhere for a bit.... it for me wasn't fun being here anymore and I am here to escape from the real world and have a laugh....
so rather than flounce.. i just upped and left..... I hope that it changes.... do i actually think it will.... good bloody question!!!
I cannot remember in over four years when the forums were nothing but fluffy bunny topics, and everyone was so sweet to each other.
Poppycock...it has always gone on.
Poppycock...it has always gone on.
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I cannot remember in over four years when the forums were nothing but fluffy bunny topics, and everyone was so sweet to each other.
Poppycock...it has always gone on.
So there's been bickering on here all the time you've been a member? hmmmm that may be telling us a lot.
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