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hi all.... we r very new to this.(bet everyone comes out with that!) we have had a few ffm experiences and lots of cam fun but we r looking to take the next step... what would ppl suggest.. party or meeting another couple privatley? Any advise would be greatly appreciated.... thanks.. b+s ps... if you do go to a party and feel nervous or dont fancy any others what happens?....
:welcome: benhur999
Well done for taking your first step...
If i was you I would sit back a while join in, take your time...
Get yourself well known & have fun
Keep asking to go to meets... munches
Above all ALWAYS expect the outcome to be different from what YOU expect!!!
Hi benhur and welcome to SH forums. Hope you enjoy it here. I'm sure you'd really enjoy the munches/socials that are organised through the site so check them out. :welcome: :swingingchair:
They're all mad in here you know loon bolt
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hi all.... we r very new to this.(bet everyone comes out with that!) we have had a few ffm experiences and lots of cam fun but we r looking to take the next step... what would ppl suggest.. party or meeting another couple privatley? Any advise would be greatly appreciated.... thanks.. b+s ps... if you do go to a party and feel nervous or dont fancy any others what happens?....

I have never been to a party where I have HAD to get involved. Most hosts will put aside rooms that are purely for play and the rest would be social areas for chatting.
Again with private meets, if you meet up and it doesn't feel quite right you aren't obliged to do anything you don't want to.
As you've already played a bit you have an idea of what it is you are after so just take it steady and enjoy yourselves. biggrin
I can say munches are great fun and nice social environments to meet others as well.
Jas
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hi all.... we r very new to this.(bet everyone comes out with that!) we have had a few ffm experiences and lots of cam fun but we r looking to take the next step... what would ppl suggest.. party or meeting another couple privatley? Any advise would be greatly appreciated.... thanks.. b+s ps... if you do go to a party and feel nervous or dont fancy any others what happens?....

You leave or go to sleep on the sofa.
Personally I prefer clubs. Find a good club and you get the best of both worlds.