Party advice

17 Nov 2009

We're hosting a party for my birthday this weekend. Its our first time we have hosted a party and are hoping for some advice.
Firstly, we dont want it to be a social event, we want people to play so were thinking of doing something to break the ice a bit .... any suggestions??
Also, we dont really want people playing in the kids rooms (they wont be here of course) so we were thinking of putting mattresses, cushions, etc on the living room floor so that people can play either in the living room or our bedroom .... do you think this would be a little too forward??? We are very happy to play in front of lots people or with lots of people but dont want others to feel that they have to do the same.

17 Nov 2009

make plenty of jelly...oh wrong kind of party...hmmm but then again if you have a paddling pool??? biggrin

if everyone who is attending is happy playing with everyone then setting the living room up would be a good idea, i guess its talking to everyone invited and see what they would want and expect..tbh i've no idea what i'm talking about i've never been to a party nor a club i'm just replying because i'm bored and wanted an excuse to use the following emoticon . sorry bolt

17 Nov 2009

Make it clear to all that is coming that it is defo a play party as some are shy!
You could play old fashioned spin the bottle for an icebreaker. x

17 Nov 2009

Indeed....
Make it known that play is postively encouraged and put some little no entry signs on the rooms you dont want used

17 Nov 2009

Quote by leatherednperky
make plenty of jelly...oh wrong kind of party...hmmm but then again if you have a paddling pool???
if everyone who is attending is happy playing with everyone then setting the living room up would be a good idea, i guess its talking to everyone invited and see what they would want and expect..tbh i've no idea what i'm talking about i've never been to a party nor a club i'm just replying because i'm bored and wanted an excuse to use the following emoticon . sorry

oi jelly is good fun !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! xx

17 Nov 2009

Invite one couple with the specific intention of getting the party going. Tell them that at a given time ( or whatever) they start fucking.
As they start to play with each other things should warm up a little. Plenty of people would do that - and if you cant find anyone - PM us !!

17 Nov 2009

Oh - just looked at the date - this week-end. cant do that - but maybe some other time.

17 Nov 2009

Stick a notice on the doors of the rooms you dont want people in, 'no playing in here' or no entry in here'
Remove all valuable items out of the way.
Tell those you invite there will be playing in the front room / your bedroom only, the kitchen / bathroom etc are chill out areas, (or what ever). Tell them what time to arrive / leave by, what to wear if there is a theme. If they are staying over night what time they have to be gone by the next morning (saves any problems with granny bringing the kids back and walking into naked couples etc.
Ask your guests to bring with them, food / drink/ condoms / toys etc
Do you allow smoking in your house, if not ask people to smoke in the garden or what ever.
Above all have fun

17 Nov 2009

I was at a party 2 weeks a go and the eve just flowed wink

:wink:
the host just put on lots of sexy music to get us all in the mood :wink:
coupled with lots of sexy lighting you can guess the rest :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink:
trav..

17 Nov 2009

I cant wait for chrimbo biggrin

:D :D :D :D
hopefully lots of chrimbo swinger partys :shock: :shock: :shock:
then again there is a recession on will there be any
????????? humbug humbug humbug..............
ok mega chrimbo party at ?????????????????????????
awaits invites :shock: :shock: :shock:
trav..

17 Nov 2009

Quote by Steve
Indeed....
Make it known that play is postively encouraged and put some little no entry signs on the rooms you dont want used

love this xxxxxxx
maybe i should put this on my A......E when in a group situation wink

:wink: :wink:
trav..

17 Nov 2009

Quote by travlinmanukok
Indeed....
Make it known that play is postively encouraged and put some little no entry signs on the rooms you dont want used

love this xxxxxxx
maybe i should put this on my A......E when in a group situation wink

:wink: :wink:
trav..
rotflmao

17 Nov 2009

Thanks for all the advice so far ..... We'll let you know how it goes (without the fine details) redface

If it goes well .... we might have to do it again .... and again !!!

17 Nov 2009

travlinmanukok wrote:

I was at a party 2 weeks a go and the eve just flowed

you get invited to partys travlinmanukok ... rotflmao