Not in any particular order, just the order they came out of my head:
- Any mention of bareback before
- Assuming I'll fancy them as they are a bi male
- Assuming I'll suck their cock as they are a bi male (see above)
- Appearing desperate
- Appearing 'cheap'
- Doing things in public that should be done behind closed doors (see above)
- Coming over as a dickhead and not being able to talk about anything other than sex
- The fact that I've seen them telling half of Chat who they've shagged already
- Telling me the usernames of everyone they've shagged
- Playing 'pass the parcel' with meets on the site (see above)
- Poor personal hygiene
- Bad breath
- Smoking (although I will concede 'defeat' on this one sometimes)
- Bad kissers, turns me on or off in an instant
- Playing 'poor me'
If I think of more, I'll add them later...
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women that want a pissing contest with a guy
women that hate other women`s looks and figures (if u want it lose the weight and take a little pride ffs )
men than think they can offer something they think your wife wants even though she doesn`t
lazy housewife`s
dirty houses see above
women with brown stained and hairy arse`s
Fake tits.
And stupid people.
And there was me thinking this was a thread following on from the bra-less one, about PE knickers :giggle:
Obviously threads meander all over the place - as conversations do - but what I was actually hinting at in my original post was not what would put you off a person/people in the first instance, but what could cancel/stop/de-rail a meet once that meet had already been initiated.
sarcasm
people up their own arses
ubber critical judgemental people
no sense of humour
selfish (personality and in the bedroom department)
poor personal hygiene, bad teeth/breath
yukky toes bad feet
probably loads more stuff, getting quite fussy in my old age lol
Workmate was telling me that they met a bloke at uni and did the whole dating thing, but when they got back to his place he was wearing bright purple Y-fronts with yellow piping and all she could do was piss herself laughing and every time he tried to get things serious, she kept seeing these purple pants and laughing harder
She said they made a mutual agreement not to date again after that. :lol2:
Falseness and desperation, especially the former. I try to be as honest as I can with people - there's no point trying to force friendships/relationships/encounters that simply won't work.
Smoke breath for me! If I meet and they taste of fags I cant enjoy kissing and without that it's ruined.
And smoking itself...i'd end up sitting in the garden instead.
Considerate smokers though, no problem. I dont mind you doing it as long as i dont have to taste it too!
And Marmite! (Not that that's ever happened but just in case!)Ewwwww No Way!
Arrogance, drunkeness and blokes that make that strange sucking air noise during foreplay. You know the same noise car mechanics and plumbers make before saying "it's repairable, but it wont be cheap".
if they were throwing alcohol down their necks
if they act like they are doing you a favour
and as most say poor hygiene
Dirty Teeth!!! haha oh yes. not just dirty teeth..
Even if they have gorgeous white teeth and yet somehow they manage to get a bit of food or something rammed inbetween. Now that for me is an awkward moment. Do you tell them?.. d you ignore it?. but its bothering you so much what do you do. Ultimately it kills any passion. I know i know, its not their fault, but hey it is what it is.... and thats a massive passion killer.
Other things for me are....
*Talking about "john" as if i know him and who ever else springs to mind. Why cant people just say "oh my friend did this yesterday, it was funny" and i have to be honest it seems to be the ladies that do this. Sorry :sad: ha ha its only a small thing but saying "my friend john has a car like that" is fine. But saying "ooohh john has a car like that" As if i know him?!!!.. small thing but never the less 'a thing' he he
*people who while having a convo during a meet, lie. Even the little white ones!.. after a few drinks they change the details of their story or situation anyway snd drop them selves in it. Liars = such a turn off.
bad hygiene
boasting
them saying to me while sitting in the pub when first there "can we get on with it (the shagging) cus il have to get home to the wife soon" !!!!!!
I hadn't trimmed my bits.
