Its taken me a while to find my id in swinging!...and what are my needs!...............it has to be passtion!.....start off with snogging mmmmmmmmmm.. hugging looking into the eyes etc... etc. touching nibbling :twisted:
I think it because its something you loose when you are in a long turn relationship!
And i miss it!...it not with any attachment............... but i do not like at the end thank you mam that was good............friend ship has to come with it.....and if it happens again well thats a bonus!
so what about you out there!...i here that some peeps don't like the Passion bits!
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Sexlightened
You got to have some passion otherwise it becomes perfunctory, a bit like the everyday sex we are all trying to avoid, robotic even. The excitement of something/someone new should automatically instill an element of passion in anyone. It does not have to be the passion of a lover, it can be the passion of pure enjoyment. I think passion begets passion, so if I'm passionate that will rub itself off on my partner (and no clever double entendres on that line thank you!).
Ah yes, the passion. Looking into the eyes, smiling, laughing, hugging, cuddling, squeezing, stroking, kissing, nibbling, rubbing noses and sometimes even tickling! All of this adds to the excitement, helps to work up a sweat and is essential for me.
Drifter is now in need of a cold shower. (Shame I only have a bath!)
Drifter is now in need of a cold shower. (Shame I only have a bath!)
Sex God
Quote by brucers
You got to have some passion otherwise it becomes perfunctory, a bit like the everyday sex we are all trying to avoid, robotic even. The excitement of something/someone new should automatically instill an element of passion in anyone. It does not have to be the passion of a lover, it can be the passion of pure enjoyment. I think passion begets passion, so if I'm passionate that will rub itself off on my partner (and no clever double entendres on that line thank you!).
Aha! A bit like when you go out shopping and get home and unpack your new purchases?
That's not passion, that's just excitement, isn't it?
If I were passionate with people I meet I wouldn't have anything left for that very special person in my life.
:undecided:
Sex God
I like having sex with strangers cos it is exciting, novel and horny... nothing to do with passion in the way that Debs describes it. I couldn't kiss a stranger and feel comfortable about it. Strangers have tried to kiss me in the past and I have pushed them away cos it is gross. I can deal with a bear-like man-hug from a stranger, but not an intimate one - no way! Passion as Debs describes it is something I would very much reserve for an intimate partner, I couldn't and wouldn't do it with anyone else.... I guess people swing for different reasons and I don't swing to be "passionate". If I swing with people who have become friends I guess there may be a level of affection, but that would be there in non sexual situations too..... but even that is certainly a different kind of affection than one I would have with a partner.
Sexlightened
In a roundabout way we are agreeing........there are different passions for different situations. Passion is a more intense version of excitement but I can assure you I do not get excited about shopping the same way as I do about meeting a new partner!
Aha! A bit like when you go out shopping and get home and unpack your new purchases?
That's not passion, that's just excitement, isn't it?
If I were passionate with people I meet I wouldn't have anything left for that very special person in my life.
:undecided:
Quote by EagerSlut
You got to have some passion otherwise it becomes perfunctory, a bit like the everyday sex we are all trying to avoid, robotic even. The excitement of something/someone new should automatically instill an element of passion in anyone. It does not have to be the passion of a lover, it can be the passion of pure enjoyment. I think passion begets passion, so if I'm passionate that will rub itself off on my partner (and no clever double entendres on that line thank you!).
Aha! A bit like when you go out shopping and get home and unpack your new purchases?
That's not passion, that's just excitement, isn't it?
If I were passionate with people I meet I wouldn't have anything left for that very special person in my life.
:undecided:
Quote by brucers
You got to have some passion otherwise it becomes perfunctory, a bit like the everyday sex we are all trying to avoid, robotic even. The excitement of something/someone new should automatically instill an element of passion in anyone. It does not have to be the passion of a lover, it can be the passion of pure enjoyment. I think passion begets passion, so if I'm passionate that will rub itself off on my partner (and no clever double entendres on that line thank you!).
ooo i totally agree...........................i understand that swingers have different turn ons like blue.............yes i do like other ways.. too.............. but Passion beats it for me!.it doesn't for blue!............... one day i will like to experience it though .like out dogging!........But there some time maybe i am mixing the word up and meaning that feeling of electricity
I am not really into meeting strangers unless i have chatted to them on the phone for a few days as i like to understand there needs as well as them understanding mine!
Even when you have met the peep had sex thats just a first for stage for me .......the second time you feel more relaxed ... and still learning ............... some peeps cannot cum on there first meets due to nerves!
I also had my first experience with a women on hol wow Passion with a women is just as good
I mean there you are snogging and being held tight next to the man and then you feel that hard cock in his trousers mmmmmmmmm
oooo i so much like snogging!......Debs goes of to pucker her lips up ready for the Notts Munch
Quote by Drifter
Ah yes, the passion. Looking into the eyes, smiling, laughing, hugging, cuddling, squeezing, stroking, kissing, nibbling, rubbing noses and sometimes even tickling! All of this adds to the excitement, helps to work up a sweat and is essential for me.
Drifter is now in need of a cold shower. (Shame I only have a bath!)
loads of tickling
wow im in :love:
Quote by Drifter
Ah yes, the passion. Looking into the eyes, smiling, laughing, hugging, cuddling, squeezing, stroking, kissing, nibbling, rubbing noses and sometimes even tickling! All of this adds to the excitement, helps to work up a sweat and is essential for me.
Drifter is now in need of a cold shower. (Shame I only have a bath!)
Debs wonders where Drifter lives :twisted: :twisted: upps barkshire where is that??
Quote by Debbiewebs
Ah yes, the passion. Looking into the eyes, smiling, laughing, hugging, cuddling, squeezing, stroking, kissing, nibbling, rubbing noses and sometimes even tickling! All of this adds to the excitement, helps to work up a sweat and is essential for me.
Drifter is now in need of a cold shower. (Shame I only have a bath!)
Debs wonders where Drifter lives :twisted: :twisted: upps barkshire where is that??
i seen him first
Quote by salt_n_pepper
Ah yes, the passion. Looking into the eyes, smiling, laughing, hugging, cuddling, squeezing, stroking, kissing, nibbling, rubbing noses and sometimes even tickling! All of this adds to the excitement, helps to work up a sweat and is essential for me.
Drifter is now in need of a cold shower. (Shame I only have a bath!)
Debs wonders where Drifter lives :twisted: :twisted: upps barkshire where is that??
i seen him first
ooo shoot that means i get the top half and you the bottom HUH!!! :D
Quote by Debbiewebs
Ah yes, the passion. Looking into the eyes, smiling, laughing, hugging, cuddling, squeezing, stroking, kissing, nibbling, rubbing noses and sometimes even tickling! All of this adds to the excitement, helps to work up a sweat and is essential for me.
Drifter is now in need of a cold shower. (Shame I only have a bath!)
Debs wonders where Drifter lives :twisted: :twisted: upps barkshire where is that??
i seen him first
ooo shoot that means i get the top half and you the bottom HUH!!! :D
ok your on i will settle for that :D
Quote by Debbiewebs
You got to have some passion otherwise it becomes perfunctory, a bit like the everyday sex we are all trying to avoid, robotic even. The excitement of something/someone new should automatically instill an element of passion in anyone. It does not have to be the passion of a lover, it can be the passion of pure enjoyment. I think passion begets passion, so if I'm passionate that will rub itself off on my partner (and no clever double entendres on that line thank you!).
ooo i totally agree...........................i understand that swingers have different turn ons like blue.............yes i do like other ways.. too.............. but Passion beats it for me!.it doesn't for blue!............... one day i will like to experience it though .like out dogging!........But there some time maybe i am mixing the word up and meaning that feeling of electricity
I am not really into meeting strangers unless i have chatted to them on the phone for a few days as i like to understand there needs as well as them understanding mine!
Even when you have met the peep had sex thats just a first for stage for me .......the second time you feel more relaxed ... and still learning ............... some peeps cannot cum on there first meets due to nerves!
I also had my first experience with a women on hol wow Passion with a women is just as good
I mean there you are snogging and being held tight next to the man and then you feel that hard cock in his trousers mmmmmmmmm
oooo i so much like snogging!......Debs goes of to pucker her lips up ready for the Notts Munch
As the woman who is into passion (given to Debs), depends on the person who I am with. I can turn it off any time I like. But if the person really turns me on they get passion up the wassi!!
This is a really interesting thread. From my experience (excluding my experience with someone from on here 
), the men that I a have had non committal sex with generally have problems engaging in any other level but just the physical. I think certain gestures are seen as affectionate and not appropriate for non committal sexual relationships. In comparison, the women that I have been with, there has been no issues with being affectionate or passionate.
I am with Debbiewebb on this. I like passion and I can't do sex without the kissing or the cuddling.
Is swinging just a physical function?
), the men that I a have had non committal sex with generally have problems engaging in any other level but just the physical. I think certain gestures are seen as affectionate and not appropriate for non committal sexual relationships. In comparison, the women that I have been with, there has been no issues with being affectionate or passionate. I am with Debbiewebb on this. I like passion and I can't do sex without the kissing or the cuddling.
Is swinging just a physical function?
Quote by Maia
I like passion and I can't do sex without the kissing or the cuddling.
someone after my own heart...
it's all part of the buildup....part of the exploration, finding each others sensitive spots, turning each other on....i suppose i'm saying, sex without passion is like strawberries without cream....nice, but could be better. Sexlightened
I trust you mean Brucers, Debiwebs is the one with the bouncers! heheI agree with debiwebs, bouncers and drifter- 
Passion is a must because without it there is no reason to have sex !! It just becomes a mechanical without excitement.
Passion is a must because without it there is no reason to have sex !! It just becomes a mechanical without excitement.
Sexlightened
Hey there was no need to apologise......appreciated all the same.
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Sorry brucers- Miss Read yer name- you have my sincere appologies
Quote by salt_n_pepper
Ah yes, the passion. Looking into the eyes, smiling, laughing, hugging, cuddling, squeezing, stroking, kissing, nibbling, rubbing noses and sometimes even tickling! All of this adds to the excitement, helps to work up a sweat and is essential for me.
Drifter is now in need of a cold shower. (Shame I only have a bath!)
Debs wonders where Drifter lives :twisted: :twisted: upps barkshire where is that??
i seen him first
ooo shoot that means i get the top half and you the bottom HUH!!! :D
ok your on i will settle for that :D
Ladies,
Feel free to change halves as you wish! :twisted: :grin:
Quote by Debbiewebs
Debs wonders where Drifter lives :twisted: :twisted: upps barkshire where is that??
It's dahn sarf, not too far from the Isle Of Dogs.
Sex God
Quote by Drifter
Debs wonders where Drifter lives :twisted: :twisted: upps barkshire where is that??
It's dahn sarf, not too far from the Isle Of Dogs.
Drifter, don't tell her what "Berkshire Hunt" is cockney rhyming slang for... :lol: :lol:
Quote by MikeNorth
Debs wonders where Drifter lives :twisted: :twisted: upps barkshire where is that??
It's dahn sarf, not too far from the Isle Of Dogs.
Drifter, don't tell her what "Berkshire Hunt" is cockney rhyming slang for... :lol: :lol:
:shock: Mike, go wash your mouth out :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
Quote by Kit
Debs wonders where Drifter lives :twisted: :twisted: upps barkshire where is that??
It's dahn sarf, not too far from the Isle Of Dogs.
Drifter, don't tell her what "Berkshire Hunt" is cockney rhyming slang for... :lol: :lol:
:shock: Mike, go wash your mouth out :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
you naughty man
everyone rushers off to look at Roger's site
ya but have you seen the underpants!
Sex God
Quote by EagerSlut
You got to have some passion otherwise it becomes perfunctory, a bit like the everyday sex we are all trying to avoid, robotic even. The excitement of something/someone new should automatically instill an element of passion in anyone. It does not have to be the passion of a lover, it can be the passion of pure enjoyment. I think passion begets passion, so if I'm passionate that will rub itself off on my partner (and no clever double entendres on that line thank you!).
Aha! A bit like when you go out shopping and get home and unpack your new purchases?
That's not passion, that's just excitement, isn't it?
If I were passionate with people I meet I wouldn't have anything left for that very special person in my life.
:undecided:
:thumbup: :thumbup:
Quote by salt_n_pepper
everyone rushers off to look at Roger's site
It's the sexiest site on the 'net, nyah. :twisted:
On the subject in hand, I may be a poor prudish non-swinger but I can't see the point in having sex if you're not going to snog until your lips bleed and rip each other's clothes off in a fit of passion. I mean, someone tell me - without that, what is the point?
