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Quote by goose35
Curious but scared to try, specialy bein newish here. Probably spend more time in the gay, bi currious room cos more men watch me on cam and for longer :shock: and men seem to chat more, to me anyway.

How true Steve. It somehow seems more "real" in the gay, bi rooms. You can have a good chat and actually get whispers sent which is nigh on never in the other rooms. I voted 7 but could be an 8 although never tried the full deal. I certainly don't or couldn't have a MM relationship but could suck (and perhaps even more) the right person.
I wish I wa a bi female willing to share as there seems to be a big demand. Single males are like pariahs sad
Quote by The-Ring

As for waking up with 3 in a bed, I'd be happy if it was just 2 at the moment ! redface

give it another couple of months and there might be passionkiss :rascal: :rascal:
mr and mrs dpg xxxx (MRS)
Do you know something I don't???? confused
I'm amazed that a lovely,playful and downright sexy couple like Shaz and Tony are struggling to find a bi-female! :shock:
Quote by niceandgentle
I'm amazed that a lovely,playful and downright sexy couple like Shaz and Tony are struggling to find a bi-female! :shock:

Were not struggling to find a bi female, were struggling to find a single bi female but then there like gold dust, we don't mind waiting though as were still haveing lots of fun in the mean time :twisted:
Its great to see option 8 doing so well, really surprised its beating option 2 though biggrin
And ain't the admins doing well, god help them if they ever decided to join the swinging scene lol :lol:
Shaz xx
Quote by Shaz_n_Tony
I'm amazed that a lovely,playful and downright sexy couple like Shaz and Tony are struggling to find a bi-female! :shock:

Were not struggling to find a bi female, were struggling to find a single bi female but then there like gold dust, we don't mind waiting though as were still haveing lots of fun in the mean time :twisted:
Its great to see option 8 doing so well, really surprised its beating option 2 though biggrin
And ain't the admins doing well, god help them if they ever decided to join the swinging scene lol :lol:
Shaz xx
Sorry Shaz,I did mean SINGLE bi-female.I thought it but I didn't type it in by mistake lol! wink
Wow! I'm feeling really weird this morning...
...and to top it all, for some strange unknown reason, I want Shaz's ass!
:shock:
Why is it most of the guys seem to be option 2. Being a happy option 8 guy is so much fun. Why miss out on 50% of the action. Also no I'm not one of the guys who says I am only to bed the spouse and not pay attention to the old fella, looking after the other half with the good lady's far more fun! wink
Quote by flidais-media
You havn't got the option for a straight man who pretends to be 'bi-curious or bi' to shag the fem half of a bi couple (there seems to be dozens of them in the swinging world if the messages we get are anything to go by rolleyes )

rotflmao so true....
Quote by da69ve
My wife and i are both straight!...............did you hear that Bloke2005....STRAIGHT! lol

Yeah, I heard :lol: But I've heard it all before..... :twisted:
Anway.... I'm torn between voting 1 & 2 or 10 ..... :rascal:
Great thread by the way Shaz - really like the wording in your options too - SO reflective of real life in my experience :P
With you Mr &Mrs Rabbit. Single bi guys married bi ladies. PS read your profile and loved it. Humour something you dont see a lot of.
Quote by Shaz_n_Tony

If i was single then I wouldn't have no problem at all with dating a female :twisted:
And as i'm married at the moment WE wouldn't have no problem at all dating a female
This is something we have talked about and had a little bit of experience in for a short time, we would both be very happy for a female to be part of our relationship as long as we both understood our marriage would always come first if you know what i meen biggrin
Shaz xx

Strangely enough we have both talked about this on a number of occasions
If the right bi female turned up and one we would feel comfortable around we would be happy to have a relationship with her but as you say as long as our relationship came first. Think it would feel quite natural having someone else with us.
Wouldn't it be great, we would be quite happy to go sleep at night with 3 in our bed :twisted:
shaz x
It would be great provided two of them aren't snorers! :shock:
Quote by raunchyrabbits
More to the point, how come most bi guys are single yet most bi girls are hooked up - with straight guys?

dunno Maybe because my sexuality is my own.
Her sexuality is her own.
We didn't hook up because she's a part time lesbian.
I didn't want to shag her because she likes men andwomen.
I wanted to shag her because she gave me a hard on.
We hooked up because we clicked.
Her being bisexual, very - or slightly - has absolutely nothing to do with the reason we are together.
Remembering of course, she's a parttimelesbian, therefore - she likes cock too (or two)
agreed dammie. and possibly one of the reasons many bi-fems are with straight guys is cos they didn't know they were bi when they got together, and only discovered they had the inclination and freedom to indulge it later on? dunno
i would generally be an 8, though sometimes i might revert to a 7 if i'm confronted with something that might just make my eyes water! lol ;)
neil x x x ;)
Haven't read the thread so forgive me if it's already been raised, Morbious is a straight guy and I'm bisexual, however we class Morbius as "bi-friendly" in that he has no objection if we team up with a bi-male, isn't scared of a little male touching (coz sometimes lets face it things can get close) but isn't interested in any form of sexual encounter personally with a male.
He's not ruled out ever exploring it but at this moment in time just doesn't want too.
Cx
Quote by Bloke2005
Great thread by the way Shaz - really like the wording in your options too - SO reflective of real life in my experience :P

Thankyou, I'm really surprised with the results though, didn't think for one minute option 8 would get so many votes, and at the moment its double of option 2 :shock:
Although i am proud of being bi when i walk down the street or go to a club or something i often think as i see some sexy assed woman wish she was bi but wow, after this she probably is lol
DOn't think i should approach them all though to ask if they like kebab as well as sausage, might gain me a few slaps :lol:
Maybe i might get a T-shirt printed with something like "i'm a part time carpet muncher" on it then i might get one approach me biggrin :twisted:
Quote by raunchyrabbits
More to the point, how come most bi guys are single yet most bi girls are hooked up - with straight guys?

Hello raunchyrabbits!
For us, its just as the other have said,
When we first got together i was ( well thought ) straight
Tony has never twisted my arm in to being bi, the only way i found out was because we played on cam in front of a female friend from America a couple of times and Tony noticed that it got me more excited and turned on when the female was giving me compliments and said i could be a little bi.. must admit him saying that shocked me to start with.
He told me at that point that whatever i am or whatever i choose to be he will always stand by me as its me he loves and not the fact that i might just like women also.
SO we just progressed from there and had lots of fun in the meantime :twisted:
And now... i a big big part of me likes women and i am well prepared with my strapon :lol:
Shaz x
I'm quite new to the world of swinging, and until recently hadn't been able to explore my bi side (long story) but it came as no surprise to me that it was there as it's always been the person I've found attractive not the gender, ie who they are not what they are.
Some of you know me as part of a couple (Nat) but it's a complicated relationship which I wan't go into here. By and large I'm single, but I'm not sure I'm ready to swing with a couple on my own yet. It's a very scary prospect going to meet two people who know each other intimately, when going to meet one person you are both in the same boat, but a couple you are instantly outnumbered and at a disadvantage should things not go right. Maybe I'm just paranoid - or chicken.
H.x
Quote by Shaz_n_Tony
Maybe i might get a T-shirt printed with something like "i'm a part time carpet muncher" on it then i might get one approach me biggrin :twisted:

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: I would love a t-shirt that said that.... Mind you I imagine you would get asked what it meant a lot :lol2:
Quote by Shireen_Mids
Maybe i might get a T-shirt printed with something like "i'm a part time carpet muncher" on it then i might get one approach me biggrin :twisted:

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: I would love a t-shirt that said that.... Mind you I imagine you would get asked what it meant a lot :lol2:
lol :lol: I would tell them what it ment as long as it wasn't my father asking :lol:
Tony has told me we can get the stuff to print our own T-shirts so when we get round to it i will post a picture of me wearing it in my profile :lol:
shaz x
Hm. We're both an 8)
Although with zero experience I guess some would argue we're a 6!
Can you be soo curious that you're sure you're an 8?!
(Oh, hi all. First post!)
No I don't think you need 'practical' experience to be an 8. You can, after all be gay and a virgin surely.
Hello, by the way, welcome to the forum.
H.x
Quote by loveh4s
Hm. We're both an 8)
Although with zero experience I guess some would argue we're a 6!
Can you be soo curious that you're sure you're an 8?!
(Oh, hi all. First post!)

Hi loveh4s wave
Welcome to Swinging Heaven biggrin
Hope you have loads of fun and find what your looking for :twisted:
Shaz x
Hi!
Thanks for the welcome (and H.x too).
I think we will...far too easy to spend all day on SH just searching and searching! Both keen to try a bit of everything (at least!), lol.
Wow, 1300 posts is very good going Shaz, esp in 2 months!
H & S
x.
Quote by Shaz_n_Tony
Hm. We're both an 8)
Although with zero experience I guess some would argue we're a 6!
Can you be soo curious that you're sure you're an 8?!
(Oh, hi all. First post!)

Hi loveh4s wave
Welcome to Swinging Heaven biggrin
Hope you have loads of fun and find what your looking for :twisted:
Shaz x
Hi loveh4s wave Hope you have fun here :welcome: kiss
Quote by loveh4s
Hi!
Thanks for the welcome (and H.x too).
I think we will...far too easy to spend all day on SH just searching and searching! Both keen to try a bit of everything (at least!), lol.
Wow, 1300 posts is very good going Shaz, esp in 2 months!
H & S
x.
Hm. We're both an 8)
Although with zero experience I guess some would argue we're a 6!
Can you be soo curious that you're sure you're an 8?!
(Oh, hi all. First post!)

Hi loveh4s wave
Welcome to Swinging Heaven biggrin
Hope you have loads of fun and find what your looking for :twisted:
Shaz x
LOL we didn't make all 1300 posts in 3 months, we had a brake for a while, think we have been on for around a year, not sure though :D
Sassy-Seren is the one that does the posting about the quickest i think lol
Shaz x
Quote by Shaz_n_Tony
Sassy-Seren is the one that does the posting about the quickest i think lol
Shaz x

That's because I have no life innocent
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Sassy-Seren is the one that does the posting about the quickest i think lol
Shaz x

That's because I have no life innocent
TUT!
Bet you have more leg overs than me with sexy legs like yours wink
Shaz x
Quote by Shaz_n_Tony

Sassy-Seren is the one that does the posting about the quickest i think lol
Shaz x

That's because I have no life innocent
TUT!
Bet you have more leg overs than me with sexy legs like yours wink
Shaz x
Yeah, that's why I'm sat at home on my own again :cry: