perfect swinging

8 Mar 2007

Was just chatting to my fem friend who is also on here about us being the worse swingers on SH well we think we are and i can't seem to find the right men .
picture this we go to swingers clubs and are a bit shy :shock: we cant bring ourself to make the first move and end up swimming in the pool and get nowt
chat for ages to men that arnt really our type only to find out they are married attatched ie (cheating) go on tour to see a very nice man and his partner and end up going bowling rolleyes

Go to blackpool enter a swingers hotel on the night its couples and fems so no single men sad

oh the list goes on
so my question is what makes you a good or bad swinger
Debz xxxx

8 Mar 2007

Quote by debz4u
so my question is what makes you a good or bad swinger

What makes me a bad swinger is my lack of confidence that leads me to think that no one would want to shag me! This is not intended to initiate responses of 'I'd shag ya Wobbly'... just an honest answer to your question. I've been in a few circumstances where I'd have loved to have played but lacked the courage! Pathetic innit!

8 Mar 2007

Quote by debz4u
Was just chatting to my fem friend who is also on here about us being the worse swingers on SH well we think we are and i can't seem to find the right men .
picture this we go to swingers clubs and are a bit shy :shock: we cant bring ourself to make the first move and end up swimming in the pool and get nowt
chat for ages to men that arnt really our type only to find out they are married attatched ie (cheating) go on tour to see a very nice man and his partner and end up going bowling
Go to blackpool enter a swingers hotel on the night its couples and fems so no single men
oh the list goes on
so my question is what makes you a good or bad swinger
Debz xxxx

Im bad in the sense that someone may show an interest and i think that they are on a wind up. Im good ( i think) because i do take peoples feelings into consideration. I generally get on with most people and last but not least because im very good in bed wink

:shock: ( did i just say that).
Louise xx

8 Mar 2007

I know im to nice but think i'm to cynical now and think men will look at me and go ewwwww but i know its all in my head thats why i have a problem meeting nice men becouse i tend to be to negitive thats inside and sometimes im a real extrovert it so confusing to others never mind me .
:shock:
Debz xxxx

8 Mar 2007

just read your profile, you seem to very picky, over 6ft, most men are below 6ft, skinny, not many of them about either, large cock, most mens are around 6".
im not having a go at you but you do seem very picky.

8 Mar 2007

I know :cry: i am But they are out there not my fault i have strange taste in men either i like geeky intresting people but i would make some exeptions if they intrest me (going to change profile )lol :small-print: its to strickt
NOT THAT MANY READ IT ANYWAY rolleyes

Debz xxxx

8 Mar 2007

Do you browse lisings in your area?
I would be pretty sure that there are couples with bi-fems, kill two birds with one stone. biggrin

You can contact too smile

ATB

8 Mar 2007

Quote by debz4u
to see a very nice man and his partner and end up going bowling

And what is wrong with bowling???
lol

8 Mar 2007

Debz, dont ever compromise your wants, ideals and standards hun! it may be 'picky', but imo that doesnt make you a bad swinger!
and as for negativity :shock:, I've met you and you're stunning, and if your fem friend is who i think it is, you two together come across as far from ewwwwwww! in fact, you probably intimidate the life out of most single blokes lol

8 Mar 2007

so my question is what makes you a good or bad swinger
Debz xxxx
:idea: Debz and Co i think a very sensitive good natured/approach. cliche??/ OK a desire to be just a person first and foremost. An ability to let your most basic humane qualities out. To be caring of ones feelings and that of others in the scenario. To be as liberated as possible.............????
I guess there will always be more questions than answer. :high-smile:

8 Mar 2007

Quote by Sarah
to see a very nice man and his partner and end up going bowling

And what is wrong with bowling???
lol

Nothing chuck only i'm bloody crap at that to ..Huh tyring to play against a pro is harder than swinging confused

Debz xxxx

8 Mar 2007

Quote by Darkfire
Debz, dont ever compromise your wants, ideals and standards hun! it may be 'picky', but imo that doesnt make you a bad swinger!
and as for negativity :shock:, I've met you and you're stunning, and if your fem friend is who i think it is, you two together come across as far from ewwwwwww! in fact, you probably intimidate the life out of most single blokes

I know boo hoooooooo right shes sacked as my mate huh wink

Debz xxxx :wink:

8 Mar 2007

I'm a bit rubbish, 'cos I find it hard to hear about my lovely swinging partner's other dates.
So we agree now now that descretion is the better part of valour! lol

9 Mar 2007

i'm a crap swinger lol i had to chuckle when i red debz post cause i could see a lot of me in there, i go to clubs and have been for over 5 years and have never made the first move, tho i go a lot as a single fem so never takes to long b4 someone talks to me but then that leads me to my next problem......saying no thanx to someones face if i dont like them lol
dont ask me for swinging advice cause i'm crap lol

9 Mar 2007

Id shag ya NN wink

Debz

9 Mar 2007

Debz, I see you've changed your profile and its heading in the right direction.
My PM box is open if you want more tips to finding the right fella wink

9 Mar 2007

Quote by Liaisons
Debz, I see you've changed your profile and its heading in the right direction.
My PM box is open if you want more tips to finding the right fella

I don't agree Liasons, at all. If she ('scuse that Debz) alters it any more to be all fluffy and non-specific about who & what she's looking for she'll be bloody innundated by all the other chancers, latcher-onners and muppets she's trying not to meet!
I'd be very interested to read your advice on meeting the right fellas too, btw :thumbup:

9 Mar 2007

Quote by Darkfire
Debz, I see you've changed your profile and its heading in the right direction.
My PM box is open if you want more tips to finding the right fella

I don't agree Liasons, at all. If she ('scuse that Debz) alters it any more to be all fluffy and non-specific about who & what she's looking for she'll be bloody innundated by all the other chancers, latcher-onners and muppets she's trying not to meet!
I'd be very interested to read your advice on meeting the right fellas too, btw :thumbup:
Well from memory, Debz has removed the condition of being 6foot + tall and VWE. So she is being more flexable, so that is a step in the right direction. I didn't want to slag Debz off in a forum, so if she PMs me I will give her a man's point of view of what I like to see on a woman's profile, what harm can come of that? :wink:
And to the second point Darkfire, I will be in touch with you in due course :thumbup: But I notice on your profile Darkfire you are not looking for fellas, so whats going on here? dunno

9 Mar 2007

i look foward to it :bounce: :bounce:

9 Mar 2007

Quote by Liaisons
Debz, I see you've changed your profile and its heading in the right direction.

I appeal for the height restriction to be re-introduced!

9 Mar 2007

Quote by Liaisons
Debz, I see you've changed your profile and its heading in the right direction.
My PM box is open if you want more tips to finding the right fella

I don't agree Liasons, at all. If she ('scuse that Debz) alters it any more to be all fluffy and non-specific about who & what she's looking for she'll be bloody innundated by all the other chancers, latcher-onners and muppets she's trying not to meet!
I'd be very interested to read your advice on meeting the right fellas too, btw :thumbup:
Well from memory, Debz has removed the condition of being 6foot + tall and VWE. So she is being more flexable, so that is a step in the right direction. I didn't want to slag Debz off in a forum, so if she PMs me I will give her a man's point of view of what I like to see on a woman's profile, what harm can come of that? :wink:
And to the second point Darkfire, I will be in touch with you in due course :thumbup: But I notice on your profile Darkfire you are not looking for fellas, so whats going on here? dunno

but if thats what debz finds attractive then why should she loosen her criteria? IMO that just leaves her open to contact from men she isnt going to find attractive..... a waste of her time and theirs.
personally, if i was looking, my profile would be as specific as i wanted it to be in order to find what i wanted and avoid sifting through the crap!
also, just because darkfire or i (or many other members of the forum who arent advertising for anything) arent looking for fella, it doesnt mean we cant have an opinion, aferall, you have an opinion on what debz should do with her profile, so can we :thumbup:

9 Mar 2007

Quote by blueis
Debz, I see you've changed your profile and its heading in the right direction.

I appeal for the height restriction to be re-introduced!
debz! grab him! :twisted:
rotflmao

9 Mar 2007

sexkittenhfx,
Debz complaint was she didn't meet anyone and she herself said her profile was too picky, so why are you being so picky with me? wink

9 Mar 2007

Quote by Liaisons
And to the second point Darkfire, I will be in touch with you in due course :thumbup: But I notice on your profile Darkfire you are not looking for fellas, so whats going on here?

I dont meet single blokes hun, but that doesnt mean i'm not interested in hearing your advice (as a single bloke) on how to meet one, from your perspective :dunno:

9 Mar 2007

Quote by Darkfire

And to the second point Darkfire, I will be in touch with you in due course :thumbup: But I notice on your profile Darkfire you are not looking for fellas, so whats going on here?

I dont meet single blokes hun, but that doesnt mean i'm not interested in hearing your advice (as a single bloke) on how to meet one, from your perspective :dunno:
its easy, go in the chat room and say, anyone want a shag,
cant guarantee you'll get what would be your 'type' but you'd get lots of volunteers lol

9 Mar 2007

Quote by Liaisons
sexkittenhfx,
Debz complaint was she didn't meet anyone and she herself said her profile was too picky, so why are you being so picky with me?

i didnt mean to come accross as picking at you, it was just my opinion that specifics in a profile/ad are down to personal choice :thumbup:

9 Mar 2007

Still waiting for Debz's PM wink

9 Mar 2007

still waiting for yours wink

9 Mar 2007

Quote by earthchild

And to the second point Darkfire, I will be in touch with you in due course :thumbup: But I notice on your profile Darkfire you are not looking for fellas, so whats going on here?

I dont meet single blokes hun, but that doesnt mean i'm not interested in hearing your advice (as a single bloke) on how to meet one, from your perspective :dunno:
its easy, go in the chat room and say, anyone want a shag,
cant guarantee you'll get what would be your 'type' but you'd get lots of volunteers lol

Oh
There is an idea for a chatroom name 'shag room'
:lol: :lol: :lol:

9 Mar 2007

liasons, are you some kind of single mans swinging guru?
come on, tell all! theres plenty of guys out there that need the advice lol