Yes i still am FUSSY just changed my profile in no way will i change my critera im not picky but fussy
and now profiles changed all sorts of crap why do men mail you if you dont have and ad im not really asking them to mail me i scoure the ads myself and try and find the right ones even then its hard when halk or more are married or attatched
Debz xxxx
Huh so I'm sacked am I you tart. Was going to come on and say how wonderful you are, not sure now Debz is a great friend a very attractive lady and a BJ Queen lol...Joolenxxxxxxxxxx
debz
well what can i say you certainly float my boat you are a genuine person who is very giving in all respects you have taught me some very good things and you have give me very nice feelings to go with ones i thought i could never experience with a female but you certainly hit my spot xxx I was honoured to go with you to the club that time we had a laugh and we pulled a couple of nice men remember!!!!! any way debz i think you are a perfect example of a swinger xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxgood lucking a charming lovely lady xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Interesting thread. Debz looking at it from a basic level you should never have to compromise on what you are looking for. There are far more guys than girls on the scene and because of that you as an attractive lady should be able to choose what you want. Its just a shame that non of this is simple.I think your always going to meet a percentage of guys who lie or try there luck and thats going to happen no mater what you request. It basically comes down to being very strict on your criteria and selecting from less people. or giving more people a chance and expecting to reject more. personally i think you should go for what you want and still expect some degree of disappointment.
Also its nice to know that there are other people insecure about how they fit into the scene. I've been on this site for a while now but I've yet to fully embrace the scene. I'm still building up to my first club visit. I'm sure once i make my first step I'll settle right in. likewise also i think you'll find your spot in the scene and feel happy with it sooner or later. Good luck Si
Debz,
there is a school of thought that says if you make yourself even more fussy it might make you more desirable with men. But you have to present your choosiness in away that looks right on your profile
For me this is the perfect swing....
See it's got a slide and another swing that made out of a tyre! Absolute genius! :happy: :happy: :happy:
AND there's a climbing frame thingy as well. :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
*easy runs off to have a go on the wibbly-wobbly slide, 'cos he's not really a swinger* :giggle:
Debz,about 10 minutes ago,I read a bit about you being shy,I've just managed to get up off the floor having broken several ribs laughing,SHY,SHY,you don't know the meaning of the word girl,who you trying to kid,I'm really gonna suffer for this one arn't I,bugger,mmmmmmwwwwwaaaahhhh,lol,john,xxxxxxxxx, prude maybe,but not shy,xxxx