At first I was going to leap in and say that performance anxiety was a male thing but with very little experience to go by I felt that I was insufficiently qualified to comment.
Having read previos contributions it would appear that it is more of a male thing than a female thing. Unlike women it is immediatly noticable that a male is having problems and if those he is with appear uncaring matters can be made worse. Sex is a strange thing in that no matter how hard you try it won't work and more effort put in has a negative effect.
From my own exprience of my first meet I spent some time talking to the couple I was going to meet, and expressed my concerns regarding this sort of matter. I'm pleased to say that the lady concerned was very understanding and sympathic. Our disscusion of said matter put me at my ease and as a result we had a very pleasant evening together. For this to have happened, especially as it was my frst meet, I consider myself very fortunate.
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