As I have no balls to empty I can't say.
I've never been in the situation where I've just had a physical attraction to someone ie based on looks, disliked them, and still had sex with them. Am I ruling it out in the future, never say never, but I don't think it's something I'd do.
Yes, I think probably men and women differ a little on this subject, but I'm not going to make broad generalisations. We are all different, life would be bloody boring if we weren't. I wouldn't think any less of someone who said they could fuck simply on looks any more than I would think more of someone who said they couldn't. I'd think a lot less of someone who lied though, honesty is fundermental.
H.x
Actually i have something else to say on this too....
The people who say looks are not important and it is the personality that counts always seem to assume that when someone (such as me) says that looks are important, this means that the person can be a complete tosser as long as they look like Brad Pitt.
I have never (as many others haven't) dismissed the part personalities play. However, it takes a little longer to work out the personality bit than the looks bit - hence looks are the priority for me.
I'll shut up now and go back to sorting out my garden.
There has been some research into this, although we are unaware of it, our sense of smell has a huge part to play. We are physically attracted to people who, if we were to produce children, would produce the strongest genetic make up, our pheremones contain this information and subconsiously we take it into account when we meet our 'mate'
H.x
Doesn't matter, animal magnetism isn't agist.
H.x
you are what you are, you are your emotions, your beliefs, your thoughts, your words , your behaviour, personality,....., and indeed your looks. Simply, by omitting any of those elements, then it is not you!
love making or if you wuna call it sex is goin to involve all that, and if anything is missing and ur only after the looks then certainly the satisfaction is less.... most of the time when u ask someone what attracts u most to another person, they give u an endless list of criteria!! not just looks - at the end of the day, each of us has his own defitnition of beauty.
personality affects sexual performance imo so even with the playroom encounter with no chatting b4hand it makes a big difference
In my experience over the years, quite a few single males talk or post quite a lot of crap, rubish like id prefer a woman/couple whos got a good personality over looks. now hey dont get me wrong if you want to pork and have fun with a ugly bugger, now thats your choice. ( we just know your desperate) personally i didnt. i preffered the good looking ones who didnt mind that i was dislexic.
I think in that moment in time the person or persons you are with are very precious and sharing something very profound with in a brief club encounter its surely better done with feeling,giving something of yourselves even if it is only for a one and one only wild sexual fling.
And it should great fun as well of course.
The couple I had my best ever threesome experience with weren't a Barbie and Ken,no,but they weren't ugly were just open,giving,enthusiastic and good humoured people to share sexual play with.I felt at ease with them,free to do whatever with of our personalities enhanced the physical pleasures we indulged in.
