Personality

1 May 2006

I didn't mean barbie and ken I meant something like jordan and pete wink

, no serisouly hygenie for me plays a MASSIVE part and they don't have to be supermodels just average and above with a nice set of teeth. biggrin

-------like the smilie!

1 May 2006

Quote by m1970
I didn't mean barbie and ken I meant something like jordan and pete , no serisouly hygenie for me plays a MASSIVE part and they don't have to be supermodels just average and above with a nice set of teeth. -------like the smilie!

Agree about hygiene, could never play with someone who smells of stale bo, for example...though fresh sweat is a total turn on :wink:

1 May 2006

Sometimes I just want sex, I'm not interested in personality and how well I get on with them, I just want to spend an hour or so naked & sweaty & bouncing off the walls. All I want on these occassions is for them to look & perform fantastically.
And just because they look fantastic dosn't mean they aren't great ppl too - Ali's a model & she's smart enough to be going out with me! ;)

1 May 2006

It all depends on what you're looking for and it's a very personal thing - to me swinging has always been about having sex with my friends, not with strangers, and so personality is probably the most important thing smile

(well, maybe occasionally with strangers) redface

1 May 2006

Quote by Emily
Sometimes I just want sex, I'm not interested in personality and how well I get on with them, I just want to spend an hour or so naked & sweaty & bouncing off the walls. All I want on these occassions is for them to look & perform fantastically.
And just because they look fantastic dosn't mean they aren't great ppl too - Ali's a model & she's smart enough to be going out with me! ;)

Maybe this is an age thing? In my late teens I ditched a great bloke (who is now, over 25 years later, one of my best friends) for another guy just because he had a nicer jacket and played guitar in a band (ok it was Siouxsie and the Banshees but that's a different matter wink

) As we get older we realise that being that shallow is not the be all and end all of everything and truly great sex (even the stranger in a club 'hot and sweaty' variety) is even better with someone who has a brain as well as genitals. biggrin

1 May 2006

Quote by fabio grooverider

I have made this point before, but I feel it worth making again...
If you were having sex and the person you were with looked you in the eyes and said...
"do you know what, I don't find you physically attractive at all, but you have a cracking personality" ...
How would that make you feel?

probably about as good as "do you know what, i think you are gorgeous but i don't like your personality...."

I had a think about this... and... I would be more than OK with someone I had just met, who knew nothing about me, being so overwhelmed with lust by my appearance alone that they just had to spread my legs and rampantly pleasure me.
I could not say the same for someone who had come to know me, thought I was a grotty minger but would do it anyway as I seemed to be quite funny and charming.

1 May 2006

Quote by Reikiradical
People on here say you need a personality to have sex with them, well I must be the minority because I would rather have it with someone with a nice shape regardless of their personality, it's not like your going to live with them. Surely you must have to be attracted to someone before bedding them?

Attraction is in the head.......personally I dont judge people on their bodies, if someone is happy and confidant they are usually sexy and attractive.
There are plenty of people with 'a nice shape' that I would rather avoid.
I think you are right.

1 May 2006

My twopenceworth:
My criteria is: Nice eyes, smile and face
Makes me laugh/ kind
Cuddly and a nice bum
Stormwalkers criteria: Personality
sense of humour
looks
all in that order.
Love FL and Stormwalker xxxxxxx