Has anyone had any real success with the photo ads, i/we have been looking, advertising and contacting through them for well over a year and have never met anyone through them.
It seems a bit odd to me, we are looking either couple or bi females and I am sure there are plenty of them out there. So what proportion of the people using the photo adds do we all reckon are just looking for a wank/photos?
The only people we have ever really met were in the cafe,
PS what are the best clubs around the Oxford area?
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Quote by adamciara
Has anyone had any real success with the photo ads, i/we have been looking, advertising and contacting through them for well over a year and have never met anyone through them.
It seems a bit odd to me, we are looking either couple or bi females and I am sure there are plenty of them out there. So what proportion of the people using the photo adds do we all reckon are just looking for a wank/photos?
The only people we have ever really met were in the cafe,
PS what are the best clubs around the Oxford area?
I dont know about percentages of people wanking on photo ads, but ive had success from them. I dont know if this will have anything to do with your lack of sucess, but i did notice on your profile that you only want people with great fit bodys. Now from what i know of society as a whole not just swingers but theres not that many people who seriously think that they have great bodies, so maybe they are scared of replying to you incase you dont agree that they do have a great body. Not that great bodys all come slim and fit because i dont think they do. There are many great bodys all shapes and sizes. Of course its up to you which body type you prefer but it may be narrowing the field down a bit.
Louise xx
Ps. ive got to say that because im not slim. :cry:
Quote by adamciara
Has anyone had any real success with the photo ads, i/we have been looking, advertising and contacting through them for well over a year and have never met anyone through them.
It seems a bit odd to me, we are looking either couple or bi females and I am sure there are plenty of them out there. So what proportion of the people using the photo adds do we all reckon are just looking for a wank/photos?
The only people we have ever really met were in the cafe,
PS what are the best clubs around the Oxford area?
We have had loads of luck from photo adds, from guys, gals and couples, think a good 90% of our sexual encounters from SH have been through them.
We have also met many from the forums and chatrooms also but thats just for the social side, some real great peeps on here
Shaz x
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We've been here for over a year and had a lot of success from the photo ads. They work for us and for most of the people we've met 
Quote by adamciara
Do you really think people are that worried, wow, I thought people on this site would have more confidence than that - no disrespect intended, I just thought to be here you would have to be pretty comfortable with yourself.
I will try changing our wording.
xx ciara
hiya adamciara, i have to agree with louise_and_joe and say that your request for people with great bodies may put alot of people off....it certainly would me! and thats not because i dont have confidence in myself on the whole....more because im pretty sure i wouldnt be to your taste for obvious reasons. anyhow, looks like youre considering changing it....im not suggesting you "lower your standards" maybe you just word it differently or make decisions on an individual basis from chatting etc? after all, people often percieve themselves differently to how others do........
oh an the photo ads have always been great for me, in fact, since i stopped using them and started using the forum and attending socials...ive not had even half as much sex :shock:
good luck you two
Quote by adamciara
Do you really think people are that worried, wow, I thought people on this site would have more confidence than that - no disrespect intended, I just thought to be here you would have to be pretty comfortable with yourself.
I will try changing our wording.
xx ciara
Being a swinger doesnt automatically mean that you have bags of confidence. I know that i dont and from former posts realise that alot of other people arent too. Many people have a great deal of confidence when writing in forums and chatrooms but when it gets down to the nitty gritty well thats a different thing altogether.
louise xx
