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Pic collectors, a new epidemic ??

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Hi
I need to drink from the fountain of wisdom!! (and youth if anyone knows where that is!!)
I have a couple of ads. at the moment and have a question.
When I receive a reply I always take my time and compose a nice, respectful, adult response and include a picture or two. How many times do I get no follow up at all?? So, am I doing something wrong here or are there some people who get off on pretending to be something they are not?? dunno Or are they the dreaded pic. collectors?? evil
I wondered if anybody employed a fool proof technique in their replies that sorts out the idiots?? If there is such a thing as an idiot filter then let me know, I will buy one today!! blink Can we sort out these people or are they just another of lifes irritants that we all have to put up with like the queues in Argos at Xmas, Richard & Judy, police speed cameras Etc. Etc.
I realise that the best way is to gain some more experience, but a leg up would be most helpful.
Thanks in anticipation confused
Quote by Dan Solo
When I receive a reply I always take my time and compose a nice, respectful, adult response and include a picture or two. How many times do I get no follow up at all??

For me, it's been every time so far; everybody (all five of them) who contacted me through my ad got a reply and nobody bothered to write back. sad Oh well, maybe next time?
I don't understand picture collectors. I mean, it's not like there aren't lots and lots of pictures of people (nude, clothed, whatever takes your fancy) out there on the Internet already, all freely available with no trouble whatsoever. So why bother trying to harvest pictures from contacts on swinging sites?
Roger
I totally agree, there is so much free stuff out there, it is beyond me because the pic. quality is far better as well !! dunno
Maybe we are in the middle of some giant Govt. conspiracy for a new form of compulsory National Subscription project. " we have pics of the front line Mr Prime Minister!! Send these guys over first !! "
Who knows :confused:
Is the truth really out there ??? sad
I'll tell you what I do to pic collectors....send them silly pics of me pulling stupid faces rotflmao . I can rest easy that I'm not time wasting as I'm sending what they ask for - a pic of me - but I'm sure no-one would get any use of what I send :grin: . They're so cheeky for asking anyway when there are soooooooo many rude ones on my web site that change regularly, bloody hell - free porn is free porn, some poeple just take one step too far rolleyes
bluexxx
Nice advice, I might give that one a bash and see where it takes me confused
They can't touch you for having fun can they ??
Oh no, new Govt. scheme, taxation hits all time high as fun and games taxes start to roll in sad
Off to get my digicam out :P This means war !!
Quote by bluexxx
....send them silly pics of me pulling stupid faces rotflmao . rolleyes

yes please blue...
steve
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The only time my trick doesn't work is when I am unfortunate to meet someone who gets turned on by stupid faces - is that you Steve_1??? :shock:
I'm currently working on pics that have shock value. I'm thinking along the lines of very bright hair and a 'tashe. I'm at the stubble stage at the mo.... what makes facial hair grow quicker????
Quote by bluexxx
The only time my trick doesn't work is when I am unfortunate to meet someone who gets turned on by stupid faces - is that you Steve_1??? :shock:

wink
Quote by bluexxx
.... what makes facial hair grow quicker????

isn't this the old urban myth that if you shave a hair it grows back thicker.. or if you pluck a hair, 2 grow back in its place...?
best get plucking blue.
steve
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Now, now guys.
I hope I have not opened a can of worms with the pic. subject rolleyes
Still it all helps to go on the learning curve I suppose wink
Thx for your input
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I'm currently working on pics that have shock value. I'm thinking along the lines of very bright hair and a 'tashe.
And that would be different because.........?
Quote by Blue
what makes facial hair grow quicker????
Sex Blue - but only with me wink
hmm, perhaps I should have left the first comment off!
Quote by Dan
Nice advice, I might give that one a bash and see where it takes me
Dan, you have an e-mail to start you off. :twisted:
lhk
best get plucking blue
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Is this a typo...?
:lol2: :lol2: :lol2: :lol2:
I think it's true that adding more protein to your diet encourages hair growth :twisted:
Wanders off to do a Google search on sources of protein
Quote by bluexxx
Wanders off to do a Google search on sources of protein

No need to go anywhere Blue.. it'll redirect you back here.
steve
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ps.. shyly point to his WWW below and hopes Blue might take a look
Probably, seeing as Mark seems to have mastered the art of getting SH to appear when searching for the most unlikely topics lol wink
Photos should be viewed, IMHO, much the same way as Tesco views it's Economy 19p sliced white bread.... It's a loss leader which may entice a shopper to buy the whole package or may end with a purchase of 12 months supply of toast.
One thing is for sure.... once you send anything - and I mean ANYTHING - electronically, you have to be prepared to conceed rights over what happens to it. Ask several Government ministers and Civil Servants what their experience has been.
So when you send off your cherished cock shots, be prepared for half of Strangeways rule 43 brigade to be using them as swopsies.
But you have to speculate to accumulate... And anyone that's clicked on my WWW link will tell you it's all done in the best possible taste and sense of fun.
Hxx
Heather
What a great way of looking at the problem in hand surprised
I do realise that sending out pics. is a past-time fraught with danger and that they could quite easily end up anywhere!! :shock:
Still I suppose we all know the risks we are taking and are old enough to put up with the consequences good or bad dunno
By the way lurrrrrve your gallery of pics biggrin
I just want to add a word of caution here - we regularly get sent emails from people complaining that others have posted pics in the ads which are of them (i.e. the first party!!!). Other ads sometimes contain pics nicked from other web sites and are so obviously proper models...
It beats me...
x xx
For those that are interested, heres my opinion, but as yet its untested !
I Would not be willing to send out images of myself willy nilly, believe me its not because I have anything to be embarrased about, just that I have a degree of self respect and privacy, and dont want my pictures going to anyone.
I think that I would have to believe that the recipient was genuine and trustworthy and not likely to pass the pictures on without my prior consent. I would have had to have struck up a level of rapport with them before things got to that stage anyway.
Ok, this may be a little naiive, but there has to be some level of trust and understanding before liaising with someone and this isnt a bad way of building that up.
Maybe i'm just flattering myself that someone someday would actually want to see a picture of . Oh how the requests will now flood in !
I know it's a bit different for birds but I reply to any response which is courteous and humorous and the guy isn't married (but that's just me). If we get to the photo stage and he sends me - as happens a lot - a huge, hairy close-up of a male organ or worse - that organ penetrating some orifice or other of a third party - then I back off. I want a picture which tells me this guy is cute/my type/has a sense of humour. And which helps me recognise him in the pub or wherever if we arrange to meet. (I could, I suppose, wander round the pub asking people to get their dicks out but I am known round here so probably not a good idea.)
Don't know if that helps.
It also may help to know that contact suddenly ends for apparently no good reason with us single women advertisers too.
Jezzay
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... And which helps me recognise him in the pub or wherever if we arrange to meet. (I could, I suppose, wander round the pub asking people to get their dicks out but I am known round here so probably not a good idea.) ...
Jezzay

mmmm, strangely enough, people round here that do know me have asked me to get my willy out in the pub! (they found out I was pierced down there, wonder who put that information about wink lol ) and besides, would have been rude not to when asked :lol: