picture taking at social events

23 Dec 2007

Quote by Try2
And while we are at it maybe SH should demand that all swingers clubs and pubs where munches are held turn off their cctv cameras

Just to clarrify that Munches are NEVER held in any Swinging facilities, they are always in secure, 'vanilla' environments ie normal pubs which have private rooms away from the public vie, to protect the privacy of everyone attending.

23 Dec 2007

if someone took a picture of me, after me requesting them not to, i would consider it ABUSE of my privacy, and would respond accordingly!
the point i actually want to make is.. it is irrelivent wether someone wants to keep out of photos because they do xxxxx job or because they are playing away from home or because they just dont like how they look in a bloody picture! EVERYONE is entitled to have their privacy respected regardless of the reasons why. it does not need to be justified in anyway.
HOW DARE people presume to make a choice about wether someone elses reasons for not wanting to be in a picture are good enough.
in a lifestyle where trust is parramount, anyone who thinks that betraying peoples trust in this way is a best a halfwit, and at worst, in need of a taste of their own medicine!

23 Dec 2007

Quote by Try2
People who have never been to socials, munches, parties or other events read threads like this and get the impression that it’s a free for all and these meets are a risk to their privacy. That is bad for SH’s image and is far from the truth. I have been to many socials, parties and events where photos have been taking and I have taken photos of others myself and no one has ever objected to it.

We understand only too well the risks to our privacy. We are not new to the scene and in the years that we have been attending clubs, parties, socials and munches we have avoided having our photo taken. We do not intend to change that position and see no reason whatsoever to do so.
What are your views if someone does object to a photo? Is the objection to be ignored because you are happy to be photographed and to photograph?
When we play, no always means no. Surely people's wishes not to be photographed should be equally respected, even if the people that request no photographs are, in your eyes, misguided?

24 Dec 2007

Quote by army24831203
I wil do same here its Mrs army ............who was in bed at hotel at the time of the trouble ...daughter was sitting for said members who informed her about all trouble of the night she is 15 ffs no need to know............... sorry hosts of night ...............but they had to tell her all about it. i have been keeping well out of it all till she confronted me about it when she came home from dads this evening i have been sitting and watchin all the verbal rubbish have tried to ask the male part and he has blocked me he gave a rough guide that she was in danger JESUS that is crap
She is a kid ffs sorry but my kids come first
and there is a lot of peeps that know army

Maybe, as they'd had their request to delete pictures refused, they thought that they'd get their own back by stirring up your private life. dunno

24 Dec 2007

if said person had deleted the pics when asked then surely there would have been no trouble
and in turn nothing to report to anyone
as many people have said already no means NO

24 Dec 2007

Quote by naughtynotts
if said person had deleted the pics when asked then surely there would have been no trouble
and in turn nothing to report to anyone
as many people have said already no means NO

naughty, spot on...if the said person had deleted them when requested, that would have been an end to the issue full stop, and i personally would have though that this was a really decent person for respecting others wishes. however.... ya know the rest

24 Dec 2007

Quote by naughtynotts
if said person had deleted the pics when asked then surely there would have been no trouble
and in turn nothing to report to anyone
as many people have said already no means NO

Absolutely.

24 Dec 2007

Quote by army24831203
if said person had deleted the pics when asked then surely there would have been no trouble
and in turn nothing to report to anyone
as many people have said already no means NO

I would like to point out this is the same couple who in the past i have taken pics of them at deans camp and derby socials and they have not complained how 2 faced of them now to jump on the bandwagon i will let you decide
How is it 2 faced of them to say that if the pics had been don request there would have been no trouble dunno

I see it as stating the blindingly obvious TBH

24 Dec 2007

Quote by army24831203
if said person had deleted the pics when asked then surely there would have been no trouble
and in turn nothing to report to anyone
as many people have said already no means NO

I would like to point out this is the same couple who in the past i have taken pics of them at deans camp and derby socials and they have not complained how 2 faced of them now to jump on the bandwagon i will let you decide
That's not two-faced - it's their right to have any pictures deleted if they wish, and to decide which socials/events they don't mind pictures being taken at.

24 Dec 2007

Quote by army24831203
I wil do same here its Mrs army ............who was in bed at hotel at the time of the trouble ...daughter was sitting for said members who informed her about all trouble of the night she is 15 ffs no need to know............... sorry hosts of night ...............but they had to tell her all about it. i have been keeping well out of it all till she confronted me about it when she came home from dads this evening i have been sitting and watchin all the verbal rubbish have tried to ask the male part and he has blocked me he gave a rough guide that she was in danger JESUS that is crap
She is a kid ffs sorry but my kids come first
and there is a lot of peeps that know army

So do everyone else's.
In an other thread, you said that the one saving grace was that your daughter wasn't told that this was a swinging party.
I'm sure the "verbal rubbish" as you call it, is due to fear that if the photos are shown, anyone who features on them may not be afforded the same saving grace.

24 Dec 2007

Quote by army24831203
if said person had deleted the pics when asked then surely there would have been no trouble
and in turn nothing to report to anyone
as many people have said already no means NO

I would like to point out this is the same couple who in the past i have taken pics of them at deans camp and derby socials and they have not complained how 2 faced of them now to jump on the bandwagon i will let you decide
Are you actually serious????????
Thats the same lame excuse that people make in sexual attacks...."well she'd shagged me before and never complained" :shock: :shock: :shock:
They said no. Period. Dont start trying to justify it now. There is absolutely NO justification for failing to respect someones express wishes in this community.

24 Dec 2007

As this has turned into a 'he said, she said' type of thread with constant references to the 'said member' rather than the adult discussion it started out to be, I am going to lock it.
The_Laird, sorry you will not get any responses to your last post, as there was nothing wrong with you carrying on the discussion how you have been, but I dont like the way this has gone, with other people getting very close to naming and shaming, which as you all know, is not something we allow.
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