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Being new here I haven't got round to adding any pictures to my profile yet. I was wondering however do people on here consider this an important thing when they look at someones profile ? Do you loose all interest if there are no pictures?
What sort of pictures have most effect? I am a little shy, so a face shot is out at the moe, but nude body shots or cock shots are OK, do you think a profile which exhibited these kinds of pictures would improve your opinion of it?
i hate having my picture taken, but i could never consider having a cock shot instead of the shampoo shot (head and shoulders for those who dont understand me)
i can understand your reluctance to have a face shot at this moment in time, but from what i have read in other posts on the forums, cock shots are two a penny, and it takes something special to make the ladies of this site take notice
take a fools advice, show to the good people of here your personality and humour via the forums, when you are more confident, add a face pic, it would go a bit further to showing your sincerity, rather than using your pics to say "here is a pic of my cock, now which of you ladies cant resist me?"
of course, i know bugger all, im still learning what you lot are about the following posts will help to educate me lmao
yep cock shots are a bit dated...
If you're not comfortable with putting your face pic on... why not put a head and shoulder pic on and blury your face a little bit.. at least then we can see you're not an ogre or something lol
Quote by essex34m
i hate having my picture taken, but i could never consider having a cock shot instead of the shampoo shot (head and shoulders for those who dont understand me)
i can understand your reluctance to have a face shot at this moment in time, but from what i have read in other posts on the forums, cock shots are two a penny, and it takes something special to make the ladies of this site take notice
take a fools advice, show to the good people of here your personality and humour via the forums, when you are more confident, add a face pic, it would go a bit further to showing your sincerity, rather than using your pics to say "here is a pic of my cock, now which of you ladies cant resist me?"
of course, i know bugger all, im still learning what you lot are about the following posts will help to educate me lmao

Thanks for the advice, I was under the impression that cock shots werent the way forward, I would imagine thow one or two in there for those that are intested, but a few pics of your other attributes woudl be more useful. Would you recommend if say a full bodied shot to be naked or just boxers or some such ?
Oh and RE Face pics.. you may want to rethink your face pic on here.. makes you look a bit like a psycho or something biggrin
Quote by curvy-gal
yep cock shots are a bit dated...
If you're not comfortable with putting your face pic on... why not put a head and shoulder pic on and blury your face a little bit.. at least then we can see you're not an ogre or something lol

Good idea... not an orge.. ah.. there might be a problem smile does it matter if I photoshop it to at least get the skin to not be green ? :) :)
Quote by clinguist
yep cock shots are a bit dated...
If you're not comfortable with putting your face pic on... why not put a head and shoulder pic on and blury your face a little bit.. at least then we can see you're not an ogre or something lol

Good idea... not an orge.. ah.. there might be a problem smile does it matter if I photoshop it to at least get the skin to not be green ? :) :)
hheehehe
When I look at profiles, I like to be reeled in by a nice face sporting a smile. Then I check out the rest of the pictures and I prefer to see a whole body shot (clothes are fine) and sometimes I may want to see a cock pic. However, I would seriously recommend to any guy who wants to build a long lasting relationship with a fellow swinger, not to place the emphasis on his cock. Women go for personality. If you show a smallish cock women will surf by you and never give you the chance to prove how nice you can be. If you show an enormous cock, women will swarm around you and sting you like bees demanding instant satisfaction and not caring about your feelings and inner world. At the end of the day it is up to you. You have to decide what you want out of SH and plan your route accordingly.
I think pics are quite important on a profile. I am one who will check out profiles with pics first, and then those without later. Which I know is not very clever lol. Chatted to some great people who dont have pics......but are fun to get to know. Have such a laugh. But pics always come into it in the end.
Do what curvy said.....blur features out so its not clear its you.
Have fun
Lee
am still to be convinced about the whole pics debate
so many private ads turn out to be not who they seem and so far i have resisted the urge to include one. some actually get angry in replies and insist on cock shots which makes me even more suspicious
obviously this reduces the response but those that do and meet are all genuine
some prefer the not knowing as it seems to add a thrill of 'risque' and to be honest thats also how i feel when meeting couples...i dont know before therefore i havnt pre judged
having said all that tanias comments about masses of response to large endowments does seem to make me wonder 'should i...should i?' (smirk)
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I have one close cropped face pic and about 12 genral full pose pics semi clothed done on self timer and with blurred/blackedout face, and 1 nude full bod (not just cock) which i keep private.
I did have a fair few on my profile, not really sure why as I'm not one for the ad's but I always think it's nice to get an idea of what the poster looks like confused (ok just me prehaps) but I've now made most of them private.
Well untill my ego takes over and I have another urge to start poseing for the camera lol
There's no doubt pics usually do help generate a response but they needn't be graphic or betray anyone's ID.
The flip side is that sexy pics. often attract a lot of unwanted interest so..........
Quote by clinguist
yep cock shots are a bit dated...
If you're not comfortable with putting your face pic on... why not put a head and shoulder pic on and blury your face a little bit.. at least then we can see you're not an ogre or something lol

Good idea... not an orge.. ah.. there might be a problem smile does it matter if I photoshop it to at least get the skin to not be green ? :) :)
Yep & whilst your at it airbrush the horns out lol
We have four or five of Mrs Bushy in our profile and the one that gets the most hits is the one where she is dressed and on all fours in the garden rolleyes