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Cannot comment on getting more or less contacts by having a few pictures on here, we get contacted every month or so if we are lucky, of those that contact us saying they would like to meet 99% of those that we say yes to never contact us again anyway, this does not include those that just send us a friend request and nothing else which we totally ignore.
We can only speak personally about what we do, no pictures on profile or sent with initial contact mail, click delete, add to that pictures which only show body parts and not full body pics (clothed or semi clothed preferred.
We can only speak personally about what we do, no pictures on profile or sent with initial contact mail, click delete, add to that pictures which only show body parts and not full body pics (clothed or semi clothed preferred.
Quote by Godot
Does anyone find that posting some sexy pics helps with their profile? Or does it just generate a cascade of winks and white noise?
Do you mean unwanted winks and white noise?
Pictures are probably necessary if you want to get/keep others attention and ultimately to meet people that might interest you. Everybody will have their own definition of sexy in a picture sense so wouldn't advise you impose your interpretation.
In a more general sense any pictures should support what you have set out in your profile. And decent quality pictures go a long, long way in making a favourable impression. You are the best person to know what you are portraying but always good to take a step back and look at it from the outside.
Sex God
We would never consider meeting someone who didn't have a pic to show, and would expect that people would not be willing to meet us without having seen a pic.
its the 21st century now, whats the excuse for NOT having some sort of pic on your profile ? everyone has a camera or a phone that takes reasonable pics.
those that say "we dont have pictures as we are being discreet"your boss wont know its you from a pic of your ass
(or maybe he would)
have you seen how many people are actually into the swinging lifestyle these days ? its no longer some secret shame
we certainly take profiles without pictures as suspect,
those that say "we dont have pictures as we are being discreet"your boss wont know its you from a pic of your ass
(or maybe he would)have you seen how many people are actually into the swinging lifestyle these days ? its no longer some secret shame
we certainly take profiles without pictures as suspect,
Sex God
Quote by lilnfil
we certainly take profiles without pictures as suspect,
Busted!........Damn you!
yep! you two are definitely suspect :eeek:
Hey yeah, about what I thought. The masses of partially completed profiles out there show that a lot of people are shy/time wasters. I know I like seeing a couple of shots in someone's profile. I think it shows that they're more for real. I do send out a face picture if I contract someone, but I guess I need to update my profile a bit.
Sex God
Quote by Godot
I do send out a face picture if I contract someone, but I guess I need to update my profile a bit.
Really? All we got was a friends request!
Blimey guys, give me a second. I only got on the site on October 31st, learning the polite way to do things is a work in progress
At the time I thought it was better to send a friendship request than an unsolicited message out of the blue. Then of course I read a few adverts which said; "Send Ye Face pics" and the light dawned.
Of course, now that I KNOW you want me to contact you with a message and face picture, I shall of course comply forewidth. Nobody can say I'm not responsive to what people ask of me 8p.
At the time I thought it was better to send a friendship request than an unsolicited message out of the blue. Then of course I read a few adverts which said; "Send Ye Face pics" and the light dawned.
Of course, now that I KNOW you want me to contact you with a message and face picture, I shall of course comply forewidth. Nobody can say I'm not responsive to what people ask of me 8p.
Sex God
Quote by Godot
Blimey guys, give me a second. I only got on the site on October 31st, learning the polite way to do things is a work in progress
Not lying is also a work in progress it seems,as you joined on 7 Oct, not 31 Oct as you claimed.
Quote by Trevaunance
Blimey guys, give me a second. I only got on the site on October 31st, learning the polite way to do things is a work in progress
Not lying is also a work in progress it seems,as you joined on 7 Oct, not 31 Oct as you claimed.
I suspect that's just a case of join date vs subscribed and able to contribute date. ;)
Sex God
Thanks cubes, but as the friends invite was this week, not 24 hours before I posted it you can see why I'm more than happy to point out the hypocrisy and non facts.
Sex God
Childish, but if that's how you feel, so be it.
Sex God
We are glad to have taught you a lesson in rejection.
You will also notice that we have accepted your negative shrep and left it openly viewable to everyone as we have nothing to hide.
You will also notice that we have accepted your negative shrep and left it openly viewable to everyone as we have nothing to hide.
Sex God
And could I also apologise to the rest of you for this very public spat. It's not how we normally carry on.
Quote by pookbunnies
its the 21st century now, whats the excuse for NOT having some sort of pic on your profile ? everyone has a camera or a phone that takes reasonable pics.
those that say "we dont have pictures as we are being discreet"your boss wont know its you from a pic of your ass
have you seen how many people are actually into the swinging lifestyle these days ? its no longer some secret shame
we certainly take profiles without pictures as suspect,
perhaps, and i agree, there's just that little bit too much risk on being identified. Although to be honest never thought that just a picture of an arse of cock would be of interest. Happy to send photo's once contact has been made though, obviously.
Sex God
Although there is a risk of being identified, the irony seems to be that the person identifying you is also on this site and would be discreet in my opinion.
We were identified once by our neighbours in Scotland and it was only 18 months later, the night before we were due to leave and come back to England that they told us. We had no idea!
We were identified once by our neighbours in Scotland and it was only 18 months later, the night before we were due to leave and come back to England that they told us. We had no idea!
