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Do you or, would you given the choice and opportunity obviously, prefer to swing at home or away from home.
Lost like playing away from home, which is good as playing at home is impossible at the moment, although if it was possible we would like to bring swingers home to play as it would just be so much easier. In saying that there is one couple we really love going to see as it's just such a nice time hanging out with them at their place that we'd just hope that in the future if it was possible we could invite them here and the dynamic would remain the same
i would never ever bring people back to my home even if it was possible
i dont like going to other people houses though either, i prefer to meet and play in a club smile
It would be cheaper and more convenient to have meets at home, but it's a bit like our little safe space and sanctuary from life, family demands and the outside world. I'm quite territorial about my home and personal space. I don't fancy having to move house because of having poor memories attached to it that remind me of things that didn't quite work out swinging wise. Does that make any sense?
We much prefer meets in a club because, although the costs are higher, the benefits outweigh the negatives because of the opportunities and facilities more readily available. Plus, we don't have to clean up afterwards and we can (politely) leave when we want to. smile
people luv cumming to wiggle towers which is fine by me,im just not into all the sheet washing,and im sure betty my 75y old neighbour must think i s... the bed often as sheets are always on the line.i also like to meet people at there places that adds a bit of excitment to my meets being in a strange place
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people luv cumming to wiggle towers which is fine by me,im just not into all the sheet washing,and im sure betty my 75y old neighbour must think i s... the bed often as sheets are always on the line.i also like to meet people at there places that adds a bit of excitment to my meets being in a strange place

Wigggle world is already a strange place biggrin Sort of happy and smiley place with rainbows and fluffy white clouds smile
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Do you or, would you given the choice and opportunity obviously, prefer to swing at home or away from home.
Lost like playing away from home, which is good as playing at home is impossible at the moment, although if it was possible we would like to bring swingers home to play as it would just be so much easier. In saying that there is one couple we really love going to see as it's just such a nice time hanging out with them at their place that we'd just hope that in the future if it was possible we could invite them here and the dynamic would remain the same

Hmmmm i've been asking myself a similar question. I don't mind if someone comes round to me provided i know a bit about them, but i seem to be less able to let myself go and let the dirty slut out on my own territory. I remember how i felt when i used to go to someone else and i was in a much better frame of mind to be used and abused. Hmmmm maybe i was a rabbit in a former life? now I jsut abuse the rabbit. Gotta be a connection there somewhere .......jeeez a shrink would have a field day with me :giggle:
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.......jeeez a shrink would have a field day with me :giggle:

Would you be asking for an appointment or an estimate?
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.......jeeez a shrink would have a field day with me :giggle:

Would you be asking for an appointment or an estimate?
Mortgage offer lately luv rolleyes
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.......jeeez a shrink would have a field day with me :giggle:

Would you be asking for an appointment or an estimate?
Mortgage offer lately luv rolleyes
I can offer you a discount.
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It would be cheaper and more convenient to have meets at home, but it's a bit like our little safe space and sanctuary from life, family demands and the outside world. I'm quite territorial about my home and personal space. I don't fancy having to move house because of having poor memories attached to it that remind me of things that didn't quite work out swinging wise. Does that make any sense?
We much prefer meets in a club because, although the costs are higher, the benefits outweigh the negatives because of the opportunities and facilities more readily available. Plus, we don't have to clean up afterwards and we can (politely) leave when we want to. smile

We generally prefer to play at clubs.
Home has the benefits of being able to enjoy each other without random strangers interupting and of course the cost. But although home would have all those advantages, when it comes to meeting strangers, inviting any stranger into your home just seams to be asking for trouble. Akin to the stories that always cropped up at university when girls would decided to walk home from a club by themselves.
When a crazy guy from Germany will travel all the way to the UK to kill another lad, all because of an insult over a computer game. I'm sorry but my trust of strangers only goes so far.
I could well imagine after meeting a couple for the first time at a party or club and getting to know them being more open to the idea. But strangers from the net. No thanks.
Although maybe if we can entice a current friend we maybe able to make good use of the space on our huge bed.
I have been known to do ironing both at home and away depending on needs and requests
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I have been known to do ironing both at home and away depending on needs and requests

When you're passing Si luv :giggle:
Hmm if you're gonna play the league you need to be prepared to play home and away matches.
I do like to host though and it's not an issue to me because I wouldn't consider playing with anyone I wouldn't be happy to have in my house in any case.
With the right play partners you should be able to play anywhere though of course I understand the limitations of family on playing at home for others.
i like playing away from home
im a single woman who meets single guys and i found it was getting to the point all i got was men who wanted to just come round to my home, have a shag and leave
to be honest i got really bored with that, i really want new and exciting experiences and that wasnt giving me any
so now i only do meets that do not involve guys just coming here and leaving an hour later rolleyes
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i like playing away from home
im a single woman who meets single guys and i found it was getting to the point all i got was men who wanted to just come round to my home, have a shag and leave
to be honest i got really bored with that, i really want new and exciting experiences and that wasnt giving me any
so now i only do meets that do not involve guys just coming here and leaving an hour later rolleyes

Pfffffffffffff, lightweights :roll:
Away.
I don't like people in my house, that's the main reason.
And I don't like 121 fucks.
If I advertised for home meets, all I would get is men - mainly married - looking for a quick, free fuck. For me, that's so far removed from swinging than I could ever begin to describe.
And I consider swinging a social thing, so a club is really just about the only option, or a party, though I am much more choosy about those.
We would really like to get into the club scene (or at least try it out) but haven't managed to yet. Therefore, for us, the ideal way is to meet up for a drink and a chat and see how we get on. If we seem to click then we are likely to arange a further meet with something more devilish in mind. Playing at home would be fine for us if we could make arrangements for the children to be away. Failing that then visiting someone at their home is fine - unless we all decide that an hotel is preferable.
Will
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I do like to host though and it's not an issue to me because I wouldn't consider playing with anyone I wouldn't be happy to have in my house in any case.

I couldnt agree more.
I play at home - but then most hotels dont have rafters to hang from .... Do they? lol
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I play at home - but then most hotels dont have rafters to hang from .... Do they? lol

No ceilings here vamps.. only 100 year old plus oak beams for you to get your talons into :lol2:
And chains that rattle???? wink
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And chains that rattle???? wink

Only until I get the hole in the roof fixed lol
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people luv cumming to wiggle towers which is fine by me,im just not into all the sheet washing,and im sure betty my 75y old neighbour must think i s... the bed often as sheets are always on the line.i also like to meet people at there places that adds a bit of excitment to my meets being in a strange place

Spunk the bed more like lol oh and wiggle towers is fab wink
We prefer away meets too as it all adds to the fun side of it for us. Not really gotten into clubs thou so we tend to get to know people well then do a hotel meet. Another reason we dont meet at home is the fact we live in a village with lots of family nearby so its much easier to not have to explain who it is we have visiting us etc.:swingingchair:
I'm an away-from-home kinda gal.
lol