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Reading another thread relating to porn, I found myself wondering (and not for the first time) am I weird? confused
No – not generally! FFS! rolleyes
I don’t get any sexual pleasure/arousal from watching porn – it does nothing for me.
In fact… there have been occasions when a friend has decided to put a bit of porn on the telly-box to get the juices flowing that it has the exact opposite effect.
It should be needless to say… I am not a prude – so I know it is not a moral issue or something Mary Whitehouse-ish that makes me feel the way I do towards porn. It just isn’t a turn on.
Come to think of it – watching people have sex at the club doesn’t do a great deal for me either – though I do like to spend a bit of time watching. It certainly doesn’t arouse me – so maybe I watch more for analytical purposes, as I find it interesting rather than erotic.
However, having sex in the middle of a room full of other people having sex is a fucking turn on. Watching another couple enjoy each other whilst your friend has their head buried between your legs is a wonderful thing. I cannot say the same for watch a couple do exactly the same thing on a dvd – regardless of what is going on between my thighs.
I adore sex and a wide variety of sexual activities – so am I weird to not like porn? dunno
I (beasty) am the same to a degree. Porn bores me. I can't be bothered to watch a MMF MFF or even just a M & F getting it on. I just find the whole thing tedious, especially as its the same all the time. However when it gets to the money shot I love watching a facial!! does that make me weird!! redface
I can coun't on one hand the number of porn films i've watched. Does nowt for me once you seen on you seen them all to me.
And i couldn't name those i've seen eithe they were that good lol
How very interesting........
Myself - I am aroused at watching the action of moving pictures or real life......BUT - I've never been turned on by the 'magazine' photo's of any description!
That said - a story in the same mags, well written, could tease me to the extreme!
So my question would be - do you find a written account of something sexualy teasing erotic?..... or if not film or he written word - is it just the 'involvement' that does it for you?
And are there others that prefer words to a static flat picture?
once or twice I have tried to watch porn in company, and found it rather dull.. perhaps not the right word.. maybe it simply didnt have the right *feel* for me at the time...
~always willing to try again though...hehe~
I watched porn of various kinds over the years...it certainly has its place... though as mentioned in another thread... the FF button comes in very handy for the rather tedious close-ups etc...
best bits are the introduction of a new face/body.. the instigation of a fresh scenario...
after that it can seem a little tedious.
havent watched any for ages now...
unless anyone can recommend something with a storyline... good cinematography... and maybe, just maybe a little more suspence/sexual tension, rather than racing off to the more anatomical business?
happy viewing
LP
Right !!!! well might as well throw the chicken to the fox --->
Me, I love watching porn, cant get enough of it sometimes and theres one part that really does it for me and its the money shot as well, now does that make me wierd??? dunno :dunno:
I'm not a huge fan of porn movies at all. It's always the same routine, the girls look false and I have to turn the sound down so as not to hear the false 'ooohs' and 'ahhhs'. I've seen one or two proper amateur movies that got me rather moist but I think it's because it was REAL rather than some Hollywood claptrap.
Pictures in men's mags don't do it for me either but stories are another thing. I can get incredibly horny reading a good erotic story. It's one of the things me and my ex used to do, write stories and email them to each other. Writing them was a huge turn on for me too.
I've never been to a club or party so don't know how I would react if watching someone else getting it on though me and Knight have sopken about it so you never know wink
I don't like porn.....
but something pornographic of someone I know intimately (not talking about the neighbours or anything :shock: )... or of someone that I am going to be intimate with..... ummmmmmm can't get enough.....
or video of me and someone.... that does it for me as well.... lol :lol:
I wouldn't care less if that makes me wierd I like it too much to be bothered.... lol :twisted: :twisted:
You're weird PL! lol
Written porn stories do nothing for me at all. I find myself picking that the bad grammar rather than having a wank. I like pictures, but I'm very fussy these days. I find most really quite boring, after being obsessive about finding porno mags in bushes at cruising spots when I was a teenager.... see it all, got bored by it all, you know the score... Now I can afford to buy such things, I can't be arsed. I would nly be turned on my pictures if the scenes were exceptionally graphic and the models perfect examples of human sexiness (oh and female) :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
Porn movies on the other hand, I like. A lot. Can't say I watch much porn these days, so maybe that's why I still find it horny? I like the really cliched shallow ones with unrealistic looking women in them.... real people having sex do little for me in movies, I can see real people having sex in RL in clubs whenever I like. It has to be very graphic, not of this erotic soft lights ponce btw. I use dto like gay porn but gone off that now. Lesbian porn is also quite boring... kinda all the same really, regardless of errrrrrrrrrrrr how different it is confused .
does it make you wierd because you dont like porn......... no not really... i mean the porn industry has grown and changed over the years...
ive always seen porn as an aid to masturbation.. and therefore i believe that if one has used/enjoys using it for masturbation... your gonna be a fan of it. If you wank over mental imagery, then im sure that you wouldnt wast your time and effort... or money, on porn. why should you?
i firmly believe that the thrill of pornused to be that it was tough to find a good porno to bang into the old VCR..... especially if you had Betamax !!!!
now.. as the technological age had bloomed... and to some degree alot of the barriers as to whats been considered accepatble .. access to porn has been made alot easier.......... adn im saying nothing as to the availabiltity of different genres of porn..........its therefore better thanit ever has been!!!
id hazard a guess that those who arent that into it havent had access to porn which particularly suits their tastes...........
i once watched a documntary about a company that made porn to suit the exact taste of the client........ they even helped direct it itf they wanted....
dont worry PL ... youre not wierd... by the tone of your post.. u know exactly what you like and know where to get it..........
i see porn as a substitute to sex ......... and if you get a fair bit... of quality sex... maybe porn wouldnt be for you......
anyhow.. just as an aside.. ive seen some cracking sex shows on cam in the chatroooms on SH ............... there are some budding porn stars right there in livingrooms/bedrooms/home offices all over the country........... much better than a DVD or something that youll get bored of after a few watches..
PL might i suggest you watch a bit of live camera action and then answer the question.... because IMHO its pretty much the same thing . ie sex on camera....
Pl... if you could make ( i mean direct/produce) a porn film.... would you do it? and if so... what would you put in it?
im interested to know if its the fact of watching a pre-recored image, or the content , that you have no desire for.
I watch porn very rarely - that's because 1) I really have to be in the mood and 2) It's only very specific things that get me going.
I don't own much porn, but what I do own is nearly all gay male(s).
99% of 'lesbian' porn doesn't do anything for me because it's so crap/fake and I much prefer making my own.
There's likely to be a huge explosion in animated porn very soon. Extraordinary realistic and graphic stuff that's going to knock your sensibilities into a cocked hat. I know I'll love it. Can't wait. cool
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There's likely to be a huge explosion in animated porn very soon. Extraordinary realistic and graphic stuff that's going to knock your sensibilities into a cocked hat. I know I'll love it. Can't wait. cool

Well, I'm still waiting for holographic porn, that should be worth buying :twisted:
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There's likely to be a huge explosion in animated porn very soon.

Sorry but that line tickled me :giggle:
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PL might i suggest you watch a bit of live camera action and then answer the question.... because IMHO its pretty much the same thing . ie sex on camera....

Been there, watched that, ate my sandwich (as I didn't think it was good enough to warrant buying the t-shirt). Seriously - it does nothing for me - I get bored and start wondering what is on the telly.
On some occasions I go on cam myself - but that is not the same as watching (and I tend not to watch others who are also on cam at the same time I am)
what about my other question?
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what about my other question?

Yes I would (if I was getting paid) - pretty much the same stuff as other porn with a few personal pervy thoughts thrown in - but making sure the stars of the show where more 'real' in the flow of their action and less like the animation in Southpark.
Oh I get bored too with it - I'm also guilty of ad libbing and commenting across the film if I end up watching it. lol
Very occassionally I'll find a bit of something that gives a slight tingle but it is rare.
Jas
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I love my porn... i find it a real turn on and i love watching LOTS of different scenarios.
I really think i'd be a good director! lol i've got lots of fantasies and ideas i'd love to see in a porn movies.
I do think that older porn is the best, even though the people in them arent as 'text book' and they've all got hair that no one really has now! lol i find that it seems a lot more real and that they r enjoying it more, other than the hollywood stuff where you can just tell they're doing what they're doing so it looks good on camera and not to pleasure the person they r with.
One thing that doesnt turn me on though is watching a man masterbate. I'm probs a bit weird for that as i'm technically straight as i've not yet 'played' with a women, but i really think, once you've seen one man wank, you've seen them all confused
maybe i'm wrong but its just my opinion
Curves xxxx
H likes to watch porn, but it leaves me cold........
I think for me it's the fact that it's so false, but I do get a huge turn on from watching some of our own amateur efforts, and I love to watch others live.
M
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There's likely to be a huge explosion in animated porn very soon. Extraordinary realistic and graphic stuff that's going to knock your sensibilities into a cocked hat. I know I'll love it. Can't wait. cool

I cant see the attraction of animated porn tho, cartoons and anime have their place, but as a turn on? I dont think so.
Some porn I enjoy, but it all gets a bit 'samey' after a while, I do like watching good home made stuff though, I think its the amateur edge that does it, knowing that the people on screen are just everyday folks having fun.
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Right !!!! well might as well throw the chicken to the fox --->
Me, I love watching porn, cant get enough of it sometimes and theres one part that really does it for me and its the money shot as well, now does that make me wierd??? dunno :dunno:

Ok.. as you so politely offered me chicken.. lol .. i thought i'd put my bit in too!!!
I have to be in the mood but i love porn too!
I do, obviously being bi, switch between the guy giving it some scenes.. boink
... or the girls getting it on scenes!!! passionkiss
I have on the odd occasion sat next to beasty watching it lol!!!
But as beasty pointed out hes not that fussed.. so i just carry the ideas to the bedroom and hes more than happy!!!
Lets face it however corny or tedeous the damn scenes are.. its great to see some flesh when your in the mood especially the amatuer stuff when its for real enjoyment!!!
Or am i weird!!! :dunno:
mwah hump
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I love my porn... i find it a real turn on and i love watching LOTS of different scenarios.

Bisexual MMF or MMFF does it for me!
Especially the ones I'm in :twisted: :twisted:

where can i get my hands on some of that? :twisted:
i love porn, it tends to lose its effect if i watch with someone tho, its more for moments of self pleasure lol
Love porn!!!!!
End of post wink
When you're "sometimes old and jaded" redface finding "firsts" and "that little bit of extra" can sometimes not be so easy.
(Jon, we need to start a campaign for a "pull up a sandbag/swing the lantern" smileything - lol)
I soooo love"firsts"
Porn has never been a necessity, but it can sometimes add that little "extra"
Although HLB and me have slightly different tastes in porn, the homemade HLBporn serves a dual purpose that we can both enjoy.
Sometimes we watch commercial porn, sometimes C****Porn.
At the moment, making and/or watching C****Porn is by far my favourite :twisted: :twisted:
must admit i personally have never watched all of a porn film
just the first 2 minutes usually lol
jim
Funnily enough Blue put some on tonight, new stuff downloaded from cyberspace. It was OK but I got a bit bored after a while, more than ready for the real action but compared to some porn the people were naturally attractive (as opposed to plastic which leaves me cold) and the music wasn't too like lift music....strangely also condoms were worn which I have never seen in porn before. Maybe because we're looking out for whilst researching the whole swinging scene??
It has a small place in our lives but not a major one. Porn for both of us usually does what it says on the tin, but I prefer doing it for real and the thought of watching others at the same time is a huge turn on that us green newbies have yet to experience....oh blimey might have to have another session before beddybies....
pink x
I like porn....
but I agree... can get a bit boring and sometimes its so fake its laughable!
I think most people (men & women) watch it when their on their own...for some light relief wink but its nice to get in mood when youre with someone too!
But Im not keen on men who cant take their eyes of it when theyre supposed to be having fun with you...then I find it off putting and pervy...I really dont know how some people watch it from start to finish lol.....I just prefer to watch the good bits! lol :wink:
It's so damn formulaic.
Woman undresses, sucks man for a bit. some vaginal, maybe a bit of anal then he pulls out and comes in her face.
Don't get me wrong I do get turned on by porn but I wish there was more variety, couples with real chemistry and passion do much more than a close up of two massive cocks dribbling spunk into a girls mouth.
I like female ejaculation because at least you can see that they are eally enjoying it.
No, you're not weird.
I was in a porn-shoot once, for Private Media and I can tell you that it was the most sexless thing ever.
And you're right, there is no spoon.... wink
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