Hi, could anybody help me? My wife and I both enjoy watching pornos but where as I don't mind too much what we watch my wife does. She prefers films that are more tastefully filmed and not too tacy, possibly directed by or aimed more at women. Could anyone please help and recommend any suitable films or directors to look at? Thanks for any replies Kevin. Email address
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Sorry, I'm not piss-taking isISa serious question, but what is the difference between a porno aimed at a man and one aimed at a woman? Surely there's only so many ways they can shoot a proper porno sex scene without it becoming little more than what we see on EastEnders? 
This is a serious answer also
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I'm Alison and I also like porn but not the types my husband does,
the difference ?
I hate the close-up internal shots, seedy grainy old dirty mac type vids, anything with dwarfs or watersports or ugly men shagging barbie girls, some videos are more like watching an operation they are so close up.
Porn made for men just seems to be interested in the woman only, the men can be the ugliest guy around as long as he can get an erection, John Holmes was repulsive looking , Peter North is also, even if he does have a nice body and so are a lot of the so called porn stars.
Would you like porn if the guys where attractive and the woman where ugly ?.
My type ? Lots of good looking men and woman with shots of peoples bodies rather than close ups of their insides, step back a bit Mr cameraman,
A reason for them to be screwing is a big plus, not expecting gone with the wind but some story is important and adds to the fantasy.
two people screwing is sexy enough but if you find out he is a burglar and she is a housewife and the huband is tied up in the corner watching, all of a sudden that scene is a lot sexier :twisted:
It's difficult to describe what I like or dislike, one gangbang scene in one video can be sexy and horny, but I have also seen others that are graphic, dirty and far to hard for my liking, the women in it didn't even seem to be enjoying it.
Find out what she likes, the type of men that turn her on or a fantasy she has and then pick a video to suit, if you visit some American sites there are companies that do porn for woman (Candida royal I think) they concentrate on fantasy and people making love.
there is a difference between male porn and female porn and if you don`t see the difference then concider this
As a woman I am more interested in the men in the films, I know this may shock you blokes but just like you may be turned on by a video with a couple of lesbian woman in them or a woman playing with herself then so do I, but with men.
Believe it or not, I have found gay porn to be a big turn on, a really sexy good looking man wanking off or having shower can be a blast, Im not talking about the village people and camp queens, i mean beautiful men with beautiful bodies.
interestingly enough my hubby doesn't like me watching them and I have to hide them from him
Does that sound familiar boys ?
Im not suggesting this but guys if you want your wife to watch porn try thinking what she will get out of it, i`m sure when you pick films for yourself you choose something you like, maybe the woman on the box is fit or maybe what is happening in it sounds horny, but imagine if she didn`t concider you and came home with a video for you to watch together, and then put on a film with two naked gay men rubbing baby oil into each other, would you like that ?
who knows maybe you would :shock:
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
my point is that you are looking at porn from what turns you on only, and think that the oposite sex has exactly the same feelings also,
you`ll be glad to know that we don`t,
lucky for you
ALL MEN PLEASE READ TO THE BOTTOM OF THE PAGE
I'm Alison and I also like porn but not the types my husband does,
the difference ?
I hate the close-up internal shots, seedy grainy old dirty mac type vids, anything with dwarfs or watersports or ugly men shagging barbie girls, some videos are more like watching an operation they are so close up.
Porn made for men just seems to be interested in the woman only, the men can be the ugliest guy around as long as he can get an erection, John Holmes was repulsive looking , Peter North is also, even if he does have a nice body and so are a lot of the so called porn stars.
Would you like porn if the guys where attractive and the woman where ugly ?.
My type ? Lots of good looking men and woman with shots of peoples bodies rather than close ups of their insides, step back a bit Mr cameraman,
A reason for them to be screwing is a big plus, not expecting gone with the wind but some story is important and adds to the fantasy.
two people screwing is sexy enough but if you find out he is a burglar and she is a housewife and the huband is tied up in the corner watching, all of a sudden that scene is a lot sexier :twisted:
It's difficult to describe what I like or dislike, one gangbang scene in one video can be sexy and horny, but I have also seen others that are graphic, dirty and far to hard for my liking, the women in it didn't even seem to be enjoying it.
Find out what she likes, the type of men that turn her on or a fantasy she has and then pick a video to suit, if you visit some American sites there are companies that do porn for woman (Candida royal I think) they concentrate on fantasy and people making love.
there is a difference between male porn and female porn and if you don`t see the difference then concider this
As a woman I am more interested in the men in the films, I know this may shock you blokes but just like you may be turned on by a video with a couple of lesbian woman in them or a woman playing with herself then so do I, but with men.
Believe it or not, I have found gay porn to be a big turn on, a really sexy good looking man wanking off or having shower can be a blast, Im not talking about the village people and camp queens, i mean beautiful men with beautiful bodies.
interestingly enough my hubby doesn't like me watching them and I have to hide them from him
Does that sound familiar boys ?
Im not suggesting this but guys if you want your wife to watch porn try thinking what she will get out of it, i`m sure when you pick films for yourself you choose something you like, maybe the woman on the box is fit or maybe what is happening in it sounds horny, but imagine if she didn`t concider you and came home with a video for you to watch together, and then put on a film with two naked gay men rubbing baby oil into each other, would you like that ?
who knows maybe you would :shock:
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
my point is that you are looking at porn from what turns you on only, and think that the oposite sex has exactly the same feelings also,
you`ll be glad to know that we don`t,
lucky for you
Sex God
It depends on the quality of the film but I find close up shots very horny - but obviously I don't speak for everyone. The context of the film is of course very important - no close up shot in the world would be horny if the film was a , for example. It is all a matter of perspective, I guess.
I'm with Micknali on one point - gay porn (again, very much depends on the context) is very very horny!!! :twisted:
I'm with Micknali on one point - gay porn (again, very much depends on the context) is very very horny!!! :twisted:
I think its very much in the eye of the beholder. I've been in porno videos where there wasn't much close up stuff, mainly body shots with little actual penetration showing and they have turned out to be as horny as hell when Ive seen them afterwards(yes I do enjoy making videos, but for personal use only). By contrast a couple I know filmed our encounter a few months ago and the hubby had the lens on a permanent close up of my cock for 40 minutes, watching it afterwards got boring after a few minutes and definitely didnt seem as sexy as it all looked the same('fast forward to the cum shot', lol).
I think women tend to go more for the first type of porno, primarily because they tend to realise more than men the difference between what is truly horny and what is just gratuitous porn.
Candida Royalle launched her own video label called 'Femme' in order to make pornos aimed at women which were less graphic, had nice looking guys and were erotic rather than gratuitous. She calls them "sensually explicit" videos. I've seen a few and they are very good, much better than the traditional 'dick on the camera lens' type porn movie.
Hope this helps.
Peter
I think women tend to go more for the first type of porno, primarily because they tend to realise more than men the difference between what is truly horny and what is just gratuitous porn.
Candida Royalle launched her own video label called 'Femme' in order to make pornos aimed at women which were less graphic, had nice looking guys and were erotic rather than gratuitous. She calls them "sensually explicit" videos. I've seen a few and they are very good, much better than the traditional 'dick on the camera lens' type porn movie.
Hope this helps.
Peter
I agree with you Pete,
I had a hubby filming me once and this is the honest truth everytime I was really getting in to it he would say right can you now do this I felt like a porn star (which aint a bad thing lol)but made it very hard to keep excited good job I have a very dirty mind :twisted: Also does anyone actually watch the film I just like to hear the soundtrack that makes me horney!! 8)
Rob
I had a hubby filming me once and this is the honest truth everytime I was really getting in to it he would say right can you now do this I felt like a porn star (which aint a bad thing lol)but made it very hard to keep excited good job I have a very dirty mind :twisted: Also does anyone actually watch the film I just like to hear the soundtrack that makes me horney!!
8) Rob
Mod
If you have Broadband, try They have hundreds of video On demand (VOD) which you can access on your PC in real time. They also have Div-X which allows you to store the video on your system for a month - longer download, but better quality. VOD is streamed and you can watch it as much as you want over a 30 day period, AND you can fast forward the boring bits - if there is such a thing
Mal
Mal
Kevin,
Kit and I had the same discussion. But have not found an answer yet!
But agree with all the points made, including the one about straight blokes should be able to watch male gay porn and enjoy it because it turns their partner on. (I am sure that was in there somewhere).
Thanks for the tip on Femme Pete, I shall go and hunt that down.
Kat
Kit and I had the same discussion. But have not found an answer yet!
But agree with all the points made, including the one about straight blokes should be able to watch male gay porn and enjoy it because it turns their partner on. (I am sure that was in there somewhere).
Thanks for the tip on Femme Pete, I shall go and hunt that down.
Kat
