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Praise from a Newbie/Wannabe

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Hi everybody! Male-half of a ‘swing-curious’ couple here… I’ve browsed this site in total fascination for several months now. Still not quite ready to take the plunge, but I can no longer resist the impulse to say how amazing you all are! For those of us still in the process of casting off the manacles of inhibition, you are wonderful role models.
For a year or so I’ve been in a relationship with a fantastic lady and we’ve learned things about our sexual appetites that have astonished and thrilled us wildly. You guys (the genuine ones) have provided a hothouse for our fantasies. Things we thought could only ever be sexual flights of fancy now seem very plausible. I’m hugely optimistic we will get to live out some of those dreams in the non-too-distant future.
I’m not an arse-kisser (not in the pejorative sense anyway!) so please accept this as genuine praise - you are AWESOME! Thanks for your patience and sorry for my verbosity! S
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but I can no longer resist the impulse to say how amazing you all are! For those of us still in the process of casting off the manacles of inhibition, you are wonderful role models.

A few of us are on regular medication for this. Doesnt seem to be working though wink
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For a year or so I’ve been in a relationship with a fantastic lady and we’ve learned things about our sexual appetites that have astonished and thrilled us wildly. You guys (the genuine ones) have provided a hothouse for our fantasies. Things we thought could only ever be sexual flights of fancy now seem very plausible. I’m hugely optimistic we will get to live out some of those dreams in the non-too-distant future. ]

There is no rush, take the scenic route and only nip down those side roads when it feels 100% right to park up. :wink:
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I’m not an arse-kisser (not in the pejorative sense anyway!) so please accept this as genuine praise - you are AWESOME! Thanks for your patience and sorry for my verbosity! S

And there was me thinking we were in luck lol
Welcome to the forums and hope you have loads of fun. Just watch out cause this place really can be adictive :lol:
What a wonderful first post :happy:
Can feel the excitement in your words, and long may it continue on this site :happy: You sound perfect candidates for the social side of all this too, which I found to be the perfect introduction to swingers.
So get your posting boots from Sarge down the corridoor on the left - and for crying out loud, make sure they're always polished and being worn :shock:
Have fun and enjoy!
kiss
I've read the profile and won a t-shirt :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
Can I have a large one please redface :giggle:
Oh I nearly forgot, Hello The_shadow wave
Great first post, and your profile is funny too.
Good luck and :welcome: to the forums!
Hi Shadow, thought the nic was familiar - you're not a newbie at all as far as I can see, a whole 10 pages of previous posts going way back into the dim and distant.
Anyway, welcome (or welcome back!). Very good post, and good luck with your "dreams into reality" progress.
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Hi Shadow, thought the nic was familiar - you're not a newbie at all as far as I can see, a whole 10 pages of previous posts going way back into the dim and distant.
Anyway, welcome (or welcome back!). Very good post, and good luck with your "dreams into reality" progress.

Ooh yeah that's strange - but the post count says "1" :confused: anyway, welcome back lol
Welcome back from wherever youve been in hiding lol Have fun smile
Welcome to the Forums...great post!!
In my opinion its always best to start by getting involved in the Social Side of things on here...post a bit (don't forget to shine your boots otherwise the Sarge will have ya!! lol)
Enjoy!! smile
Thank you all for your generous words, and sound advice - you really know how to make people feel welcome. I can't wait to get more involved! (in EVERY way)
Mike, I'm sorry if I've inadvertently 'poached' someone's old nickname - but I can promise you I haven't posted before (well once before, obviously!)
You're very perceptive Missy, the excitement this end is electrifying. It actually makes me glad we have to wait, it only serves to further whet our appetites!
Dawnie congratulations your prize is on its way (and LARGE is the only size I offer!)
Blimey two posts and I'm already at it with the double entendres!
S
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Mike, I'm sorry if I've inadvertently 'poached' someone's old nickname - but I can promise you I haven't posted before (well once before, obviously!)

My fault Shadow, sorry - I realised soon after I posted that the old "The Shadow" had no underscore between the two words, so it's just a site blip that has credited his old posts to you.
Good luck.