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Premmature Ejaculation in Swinging ??

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Recently met up with an older woman, but i have a problem of premature ejactulation, she wasnt impressed and chucked me out of her house within minutes. Would anyone else be like this or would most people be understanding about males like myself with this problem ?
try exercising your member before the event !!!
you know what they say a bout having a wank in the bank ( not the high street one !! )
Had you told her before you agreed to meet that you have this problem?
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If not, then perhaps she may have been more understanding if she had known. Or maybe chosen not to meet with you in the first place?
I can't say I've ever encountered anyone who suffered from PE, but I certainly wouldn't have thrown them out the door rolleyes
I'd have preferred to try again and see if they could rallie again after a short time :twisted:
Tracy-Jayne
what a bitch!! dont worry about it mate......and remember the problems in the mind, not the nob...
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Recently met up with an older woman, but i have a problem of premature ejactulation, she wasnt impressed and chucked me out of her house within minutes. Would anyone else be like this or would most people be understanding about males like myself with this problem ?

You need some professional help, but she was a very selfish person and ignorant to treat you like that.
{thinks - is this something I'd post - nope}
You're a brave man and by the sounds of things a bit harshly treated.
Its simple geezer. Have a wank before you get there! it will take longer to come off the next time.
If not then you've got a leaky pecker!
Sounds like you could benefit from professional help.
I have the opposite problem to you which is delayed ejaculation. But still it was very rude of that lady to actually chuck you out. mad
Maybe you should have told her that you can lick your eyebrows? :twisted:
here's a study released from Washington, I thought perhaps you might find it helpful:
Sounds like she was a right :censored:
Unfortunately this is one of those times where you just have to pick yourself up, brush yourself down and move on to the next potential meet and forget all about that one.
Premature ejaculation and swinging (or sex in multiple situations which is what I do cos I'm not a couple and can't swing) don't really go together. The really impressive thing about guys here is their abilty to make judgements and their timing.
I still have a soft spot for a guy at a club who was involved with me in a multiple situation but spotted when I was - what shall we say - ready - and defltly manouvred me to a more private situation where - I shall leave it to your imagination. Control is a prerequisite I'm afraid.
Non-swinging is different. I wouldn't mind at all. All you have to do is make a cup of tea, discuss your team's promotion/relegation chances for a bit and off you go again. The lady who throws you out because of it has too many problems - don't go there.
Jezzay.
---are you sure thats true? u saying that masterbation causes an over sensitive 'tender' prostrate? :undecided:
Hi, I suffered for about 2 years with PE. I looked into it and it was coz I was wankin too much. I didn't wank for nearly a month, had a massive wet dream and now I am sorted.
Wanking is good, but once or twice a week is fine. Save it for the mrs, she will love you if you want to fuck her every night!
If during sex you feel like you are going to shoot and don't want to yet, pull out and grab your cock at the base tightly till the feeling has gone away.
I can now happily hammer away for a good 15-20 mins in her tight lovely asshole and i'm cool with it. shoot further now too!
Hope this helps.
I doubt it...he hasn't posted on here for over a year...and he's currently banned!
I doubt it...he hasn't posted on here for over a year...and he's currently banned!
In the heat of the moment it happens alot to us all esp when with a new partner etc redface
But why didn't she give you another go?? rolleyes