Pretty Woman has a lot to answer for!!

27 Mar 2011

We were at a party last night and we were playing with a couple (they're not on this site). Everything was going well and then I went to kiss him ..... "Sorry, we don't do kissing!" :eeek:
I'm good enough to snog his Mrs, I'm good enough to suck his cock, I'm good enough to fuck, but no kissing!?!? I know that some people have this on their profiles, and I know that it's each to their own, but we've never actually met a couple that wont kiss before and I really don't get it!!! dunno

I felt like saying "Well we don't do not kissing!" but to be fair, I was sat on his cock at the time and it felt pretty good so I didn't want to spoil the moment! :twisted:
I love a good snog and find that it's just not the same without it. Usually things start off with a kiss (although that clearly wasn't the case on this occasion), it makes me soooo horny!!
How important is kissing to you? Will you play with people who wont kiss? Do you prefer not to kiss and if so, why?

27 Mar 2011

I've never played with anyone who refuses to kiss, but like you, it makes me really horny so I'd want it to be on the menu. I feel it would be better to point out these "rules" at the commencement of play though, if there are no-no's especially.

27 Mar 2011

I agree!! I read their profile this morning and it says nowt about no kissing so they obvioulsy just wait until the situation arises and then say "Sorry, we dont do that" It all felt a bit awkward.

27 Mar 2011

Maybe you had bad breath?
bolt

Seriously though we like kissing and we both agree we wouldn't want to play where the other couple dont kiss. Some people seem to like to save something for them only which kind of defeats the point of swinging in our view. I get it people dont want to do anal or water sports these are the more fringe elements of sex but kissing is a stalwart you cant go without. It would be like having a roast dinner with no potatoes sad

Like you its nearly always the starting point for us as well so god knows what we would do without it.

27 Mar 2011

noooo roast dinners must have mash lol

27 Mar 2011

Quote by two-4-more
noooo roast dinners must have mash lol

Mash is still potatoes lol

27 Mar 2011

Kiss me quick.

27 Mar 2011

I find kissing an enormous turn on and absolutely agree that it's the start of things for me. It says that we are getting beyond flirting and starting to play. In fact, I am not sure how you move on to sex without kissing - how else do you start? dunno

Of course, swinging is all about respecting other's limits, and I quite understand that some couples might feel that kissing is 'just for them'. Perhaps the key is to make limits and reservations clear at the start so as to avoid any embarrassing situations.
Meanwhile, if anyone wants to make contact with a couple who will guarantee kissing (I know Sappho feels the same) then do get in touch! passionkiss

Will :twisted:

27 Mar 2011

well, we'll kiss anything... just look at our avatar and the message "embrasser la grenouille" - kiss the frog!!
You are so kissable Fun; I can't understand why anyone would refuse you!

27 Mar 2011

Kissing is a dealbreaker for me... no kissing, no meet. I've never fucked someone I've not kissed. Not likely to start now. lol

27 Mar 2011

Quote by Dirtygirly
Kissing is a dealbreaker for me... no kissing, no meet. I've never fucked someone I've not kissed. Not likely to start now.

27 Mar 2011

Quote by tweeky
noooo roast dinners must have mash lol

Mash is still potatoes lol

miss-read I thought you'd said roast potatoes lol

27 Mar 2011

Quote by willxx69
Kissing is a dealbreaker for me... no kissing, no meet. I've never fucked someone I've not kissed. Not likely to start now.

:wave:

27 Mar 2011

some folk think kissing is showing 'love' for their partner and should only be kept for their own partners, while others think it's all part of the game.
We've had both types and I enjoy kissing while Dave don't mind either way now (although he says the only time he felt any type of jelousy was when I was snogging our friend when we started out in this game).
Since then though he admits it was something he grew into as we matured as a threesome and doesn't have a problem with me having a snog. now, we just go with the flow of what everyone thinks is ok - but given a chance - I like a snog. lol

27 Mar 2011

Quote by Funlovers2009
I agree!! I read their profile this morning and it says nowt about no kissing so they obvioulsy just wait until the situation arises and then say "Sorry, we dont do that" It all felt a bit awkward.

then i believe they are misleeding peeple.
the only peeple we have heard that do not kiss are prostitutes as they want to keep something for themselfs. i can understand that but as you have said about sucking his cock yet he does not want to kiss is strange and if that is there choice then they should let peeple know BEFORE they decide to swing with peeple.
we never thought of that as a boundery to playing but will think about it when the occasion happens.
peeple can fuck and suck cock and many other things yet will not kiss, a very strange thing to ask not to do being swingers. if they want to keep something for themselfs then do not fuck which is far far far more intimate.

27 Mar 2011

Quote by willxx69
In fact, I am not sure how you move on to sex without kissing - how else do you start?

Well there was a cock just there in front of my face. I had to do summit with it hey!! .... rude not to!! :twisted:

27 Mar 2011

Quote by GnV
You are so kissable Fun; I can't understand why anyone would refuse you!

Awwww bless you redface

.... What you after? A snog? lol

27 Mar 2011

Pretty woman has a lot to answer for.....typical Hollywood!
When I was a hooker I kissed smile

27 Mar 2011

Quote by poshkate
Pretty woman has a lot to answer for.....typical Hollywood!
When I was a hooker I kissed

But where did you kiss them ? lol

:lol:

27 Mar 2011

Quote by Bear69
Pretty woman has a lot to answer for.....typical Hollywood!
When I was a hooker I kissed

But where did you kiss them ? lol

:lol:
In posh hotels I don't doubt! :giggle:

28 Mar 2011

NO KISSING!!
FFS - Thats absurd
We could never do without kissing - in fact we'd go so far as to say that a poor kiss can result in our guest(s) being shown the door.
A kiss is essentail.
A good kiss is desirable.
And a great kiss is almost certain to get into my knickers - cos it makes me soooooooooo horny.
Just thinking about some of the truly stupendous kissing I've experienced is making me horny now ......
excuse me ...
I may be back later ...
or not.

29 Mar 2011

I think Kissing is an important part of any playtime, a good kiss is worth as much as any fondling etc. Im all for it smile

5 Apr 2011

Well if it was left to me "MR D" id have snogged your face off lol x

5 Apr 2011

Quote by Double_d07
Well if it was left to me "MR D" id have snogged your face off lol x

Again??

6 Apr 2011

I love kissing girls....not into kissin guys :sad: but I've come across several ladies who don't like to snog and just want fucking....that's especially so when dogging, I find it wierd that she'll suck my dick but wants to avoid my lips, especially when they taste of her pussy...I'm fer snowballers.