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Quote by naughtynymphos1
I know some women like being called such names, i have put on another post on this thread about some women getting turned on by such names, each to their own i suppose, i personally cannot see how calling someone such names are 'whore' and 'slut' can be anything than degrading but then some woman, and men for that matter. get off on being belittled, its all about finding out what the person your with in into i guess
Yes I agree if the words were meant to belittle I would be offended but if I know they are not meant that way ... well they are only words and if the fella gets off on calling me a slut cause it makes me seem more exciting to him .. fine with me.
As I said before its how you take the words and what you percieve them to mean.
I call my men bastards when I get very excited so its all by the same token and I certainly don't mean to insult them .. just I want strong language to express my strong feelings.
To me getting down and dirty doesn't make me less of a person.
DD
Quote by Bloke2005
Ah but under stated is sometimes far nicer than over stated :P
Mr Bloke called me a 'dirty bitch' the other night and I punched him
:laughabove:
Nearly spat tea all over my keyboard,sorry but tthat really made me giggle.
Am I strange..
In answer to thread.
Its not often I like to hear myself being called slut etc during lovemaking or shagging.
Mainly because I either blush or want to burst out get me in the right mood at the right time and it CAN work.
Quote by Maia
I personally find it offensive being called a 'whore', 'slut', or 'slag'. It gives me the impression that what I am doing is dirty and has negative connotations.
I agree totally. It's funny that all the derogatory names are aimed at women, whereas a guy going out and shagging different women every night of the week would be called a stud! It smacks of the old double standards, it's ok for guys but not for girls. Well, thank God for sites like this where we can be honest and open about what we do without being called derogatory names.
Oh...........and anyone calling me any of those endearments would get a kick in the crotch...............or the kneecap if they were over 5ft5
Quote by Lissa
Oh...........and anyone calling me any of those endearments would get a kick in the crotch...............or the kneecap if they were over 5ft5
I love it Lissa :D
Never mess with a hot sexy midget :P
On my way to get knee protectors :lol:
To add to the thread......if a woman asked me to call her a slut or whatever, i wouldnt feel comfortable saying it!!!
Wo quite a response from you all, I myself would not use Slut,whore and a few other colourful names that I have seen used by men and by women whose profiles contain said words. I would go as far "Dirty Bitch" but that is as far as it would go, I do not, could not, feel comfortable using any of the other terms even if the lady wanted me to. If the people choose to use them and don't mind it then "hey its a free world" etc........etc.........go for it
i did ask this question recently, when a girl i was seeing asked me to talk dirty to her - and embarrasingly as a 38 y/o i had no idea of what the f*ck to say !
problem got solved with the assistance of some friendly people off here, but a week after i started talking dirty to her we fell out and went our seperate ways ???
funny things women, ask for something you give it to them then they make out they did not want it in the first place !!
problem got solved with the assistance of some friendly people off here, but a week after i started talking dirty to her we fell out and went our seperate ways ???
funny things women, ask for something you give it to them then they make out they did not want it in the first place !!
Quote by maidinheaven
Molly "Nice" is one of the worse words in the English language!
It means so little, Much better to say, "You look: "wonderful, Sexy, Horny, delicious, good enough to eat etc anything but "Nice"!!!!!
Luke
xxxxx
Sorry Luke,
I can't answer for others but if some guy comes up to me and says "You look horny" - it's likely I will make my excuses and leave. But if he says "You look nice" then I'll probably be prompted to smile talk to him. Certanly I'd smile at him. And maybe talk.
But of course, you could always try either aproach tonight and report back tomorrow with your results.
Mollie xx
(not to be confused with Molly who is a totally different poster)
Luke Darling,
Did you sample the two different approaches last night? I want to hear the results.
Mollie xxx
Quote by OneoftheDamned4ever
Well ladies do you?
If you are Vin or Brad you can call me whatever you want.
If it is someone I am into and really enjoying myself with - there are a number of phrases I quite enjoy hearing. :twisted:
If you walk up to me in a pub and say them.... then your nickname better be Linford
Sexlightened
Quote by naughtynymphos1
Personally i would never reply to someone asking for a slut etc, it always annoy me when if guys shag lots of women they are looked upon as some kind of hero stud by other men and one of the lads etc yet women are still seen as 'slags' and 'sluts', even tho i'm sure the guys who post these add mean it in a 'good' way it still stems from the same meaning....your a woman who like to shag about so your a slut!
But surely this is not the case in a swinging community??
does it matter what community it is? calling someone a 'whore' or a 'slut' means the same no matter what lift style you have, some women may find it a turn on others wont personally i find it offensive.
All cause i go to clubs and do 20+ men gang bangs that does not make me a slut
no serious it don't
i remember some guy calling me a dirty slut once while i was giving him a bj and i stopped got dressed and went home :shock: :lol:
You've got it spot on NN.......
funny how All the derogative terms out there apply to women, wonder who made them up in the first place?................................ Men or women
Quote by maidinheaven
Molly "Nice" is one of the worse words in the English language!
It means so little, Much better to say, "You look: "wonderful, Sexy, Horny, delicious, good enough to eat etc anything but "Nice"!!!!!
Luke
xxxxx
Sorry Luke,
I can't answer for others but if some guy comes up to me and says "You look horny" - it's likely I will make my excuses and leave. But if he says "You look nice" then I'll probably be prompted to smile talk to him. Certanly I'd smile at him. And maybe talk.
But of course, you could always try either aproach tonight and report back tomorrow with your results.
Mollie xx
(not to be confused with Molly who is a totally different poster)
Luke Darling,
Did you sample the two different approaches last night? I want to hear the results.
Mollie xxx
Luke, Luke, Luke,
Answer me..
Mollie
