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We have pics of both of us on ours but in the private album its only me on our public album as hubby hates pics of his good self but understands that peeps wishing to meet will wish to they him before agreeing so it was a comprimise to pop some on in private album only
I know of others that do the same so maybe this would explain some profiles with lady only pics
Good question Brucie, and one we've asked ourselves. We are in this together and it's only natural to have pix of both, if a prospective meet were unable to provide a pic of the man then to us they (he?) are hiding something which means no meet.
The self-description of build makes us smile too. And on that topic, what the hell does "rugby build"mean? Are we talking fat prop or svelte scrum-half? We reckon it's the former wink
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The self-description of build makes us smile too. And on that topic, what the hell does "rugby build"mean? Are we talking fat prop or svelte scrum-half? We reckon it's the former wink

And what the hell's athletic....Shot putters are athletes too.
I suppose folk use profile pics to achieve different things.
A quick glance through the gallery will confirm that rather than verification its about either creating an image or exhibiting for a lot of folk.
We have private pics and will happily swap pics or cam with potential meets. Had a giggle once when we swapped pics and then live cammed. Those who know me will know that my facial and head hair change style frequently and that I aint exactly photogenic. The couples reaction to the live cam was "who is the old man sitting next to you?".
In terms of profile words I dont know how folk expect to get away with saying they are a 39 yr old medium build 6 footer and when you meet them they are anything but. I am always very suspicious or profiles with a 9 in the age as a result and will conduct extensive questioning based on popular culture to establish a candidates real age. If they can remember Jon Pertwee as Dr WHO they aint 39 for instance.
Body size can be more problematic. There was one occasion half way through a meet when having met a lovely single bi female and had a really good laugh and moved the scene to the bedroom I noticed our playmates underwear hanging from the lampshade and the size 10-12. Needless to say we asked her to leave immediately as her profile had stated size 8 and slender. We kept the underwear as compensation of course.
Height can be a bit more problematic but to ensure we are not short changed we have installed a stick on tape measure on the bedroom door frame and now ask playmates to stand still briefly before play commences.
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i understand why, but that doesnt make it right.

We only have pics of Mrs DS but we always meet people for a chat etc before taking things further so everyone knows who and what they are getting.
So what is right and wrong and why should anyone think they have got the right to decide?
We are here for fun and not to come under any form of swinging dictatorship!
Just chill out and if you dont want to meet people because of a lack of pics that is your decision.
Ooooo Ben you are awfull rotflmao:rotflmao::rotflmao:
Maybe people are self conscious about their age, size, looks and I have to say I fully understand that and hats off to anyone with the guts to actually have photos that are not in their private gallery!
I find most of the profiles have lots of lady pics and one of the male, like ours. Seems to be normal therefore anything else is abnormal lol
Size is interesting. We were once well into the process of arranging a meet with a member from here. We discovered some information that revealed their size. Size was not the issue mainly the fact that we dont want to meet anyone that deluded or with that amount of potential eyesight problem. If you cant tell that you are large or skinny then you are obviously deluded or a down right liar. Neither is good meet potential.
We're the exact opposite we've only ever had pics of me (see left) on here....that may however be because I made BB up in a desperate attempt to fit in
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We're the exact opposite we've only ever had pics of me (see left) on here....that may however be because I made BB up in a desperate attempt to fit in

You should invest in one of these! This is an older fatter one but you can get fit ones like mine :mrgreen:
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We're the exact opposite we've only ever had pics of me (see left) on here....that may however be because I made BB up in a desperate attempt to fit in

You should invest in one of these! This is an older fatter one but you can get fit ones like mine :mrgreen:

Thanks for the tip ,I've been trying photoshop but I just can't seem to erase the 'tache
We have pics of the both of us in various positions, we`re not camera shy and like to exhibit.
I think you get more pics of ladies on profiles coz ladies dress up, nice lingerie etc, men dont really do this, so i suppose its nicer to look at the ladies, plus the fact it probably shows you have actually got a lady.
By the way I like strong thighs but then I prefer the Brian Moore type
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i understand why, but that doesnt make it right.

Right for you or for them. Their profile and if you don't like it, then move on. Nobody is making you linger on their profile.
Dave_Notts
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thats not the point corrie.
but how are you anyway?
as for you ben...

I always feel as if I have been told off by the headmaster when I comment on your threads Brucie. I am very well thank you smile
We have pics of both of us on our profile as we are of the same thinking Brucie. We don't mind looking at a profile with only ladies in the pictures but prefer it if there are some of the men too. We need both of us to feel a sense of attraction as we are in this together. I think it is to do with females apparently being more photogenic and the sex sells attitude. No way would we meet with a couple without seeing both of them on cam first. We find even pictures can be misleading biggrin
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We have pics of both of us on our profile as we are of the same thinking Brucie. We don't mind looking at a profile with only ladies in the pictures but prefer it if there are some of the men too. We need both of us to feel a sense of attraction as we are in this together. I think it is to do with females apparently being more photogenic and the sex sells attitude. No way would we meet with a couple without seeing both of them on cam first. We find even pictures can be misleading biggrin

Yeh for sure. I dont need to do cam but it is nice if you can see a good clear picture of a couple before you go to meet. Some folk sure do know how to take a good picture if you get what I mean.
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and others are happy to write "muscular" in their profile and show pictures without a muscle in site...

I didn't put muscular on our profile only because my copious rolls of fat hide them
I've not had any outrageous liars except once. A few years ago on here with a different profile name as a single girl, and I had my pick of SH, I had a few meets, and one gave a photo of this gorgeous blonde bloke, IN rugby gear by a bunch of other blokes playing rugby, mischievous smile etc etc. 6foot 4 or something.
I was on heat going to meet him, but sadly the pic must have been about 5 years and 500 pies out of date. Don't do that to a girl! The disappointment was so awful.
We have one torso pic in public of mr a, but full body and face shots in our private album which I send out when replying to anyone.
We've got pics of both of us in our profile, which only seems fair, bit can I take this a bit further.... we've met and played with a fair number of couples, some have become friends, some were one-offs, and generally speaking we've always found ourselves with the couple we fancied on any particular occasion. That said, whilst the ladies have always been wonderful, the men often leave Mrs Mothyd disappointed. Looks, performance, size, conceitedness, aggressiveness, whatever. Is it the same for others here?
Totally agree with you Brucie!!
We have pictures of both of us on our profile, mostly of me but there are a few of him as well as a fair few of us together.
We always ask for face pics of both people before arranging anything but you wouldnt believe the amount of times that all you get are face pics of the woman or if there is one of the guy, its taken from so far away that you cant even see his face!!
Does my feckin head in it does!!
Oh and Ben ..... funny as fuck!!!
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Totally agree with you Brucie!!
We have pictures of both of us on our profile, mostly of me but there are a few of him as well as a fair few of us together.
We always ask for face pics of both people before arranging anything but you wouldnt believe the amount of times that all you get are face pics of the woman or if there is one of the guy, its taken from so far away that you cant even see his face!!
Does my feckin head in it does!!
Oh and Ben ..... funny as fuck!!!

I was quite happy with mine! Fussy cow sad
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Totally agree with you Brucie!!
We have pictures of both of us on our profile, mostly of me but there are a few of him as well as a fair few of us together.
We always ask for face pics of both people before arranging anything but you wouldnt believe the amount of times that all you get are face pics of the woman or if there is one of the guy, its taken from so far away that you cant even see his face!!
Does my feckin head in it does!!
Oh and Ben ..... funny as fuck!!!

I was quite happy with mine! Fussy cow sad

rotflmao
Tickled me that did!! lol
Not that we have met peeps off here for a long long time but pictures can be very misleading, out of date or not the people you think they are.
We always cam with people as this is the only sure way of know what people look like. How many people have you seen in pics and then hardly recognise them on cam?
Chic