So on the on the one hand you like people to be str8 to the point
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewpost/261297.html#261297
However on the other you dont!!
Interseting!
And the point of this thread was?
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Quote by Happy Cats
Mmmmm!
So on the on the one hand you like people to be str8 to the point
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewpost/261297.html#261297
However on the other you dont!!
Interseting!
And the point of this thread was?
I stand by my opening comment and any of my subsequent comments made in this thread.
I HATE pushy people – I am becoming more and more intolerant of the irritating bastards.
When you start chatting to someone and they:
A - use any of my “I hate these questionsâ€
B - take an approach that because you have started to chat to them via email, msn, etc… that you must be up-for-it and will shag anyone.
C – imply that if you should choose that they are not your type – then you are a time waster
D – imply you have no standards whatsoever
E – any other reason I care to think of at a later date.
They just piss me off BIG TIME.
However….
Now I feel I must explain myself regarding the “Good Shag Wanted Tonight†post from Let’s Meet Up. (though some of you already know the FULL story)
Seeing as a couple of you have searched well – yet failed to recall the topics of the day in the forum at that time. This is not about being pushy when talking to someone – it is about peoples initial posts.
There had been a seemingly never ending battering of ‘Single’ Guys on the forum in general – not just the Café – it mainly appeared that no guy was safe to post in the LMU section without fear of getting pounced on for his grammar, spelling, text speak, content of request and especially being direct.
One particular incident I recall defending involved a guy posting that he had never had a really good blow job as his former GF’s had not enjoyed giving head. He explained that he was looking to meet a woman who was happy to just give head and enjoyed doing so.
This guy took a battering! “What about the woman’s needs?†was the main theme of the responses. Well, my thoughts on this were – if the woman wants more than to give head… then they should not reply to the ad ! Simple. At least he explained he was not interested in anything more than attempting to satisfy his desire to receive a good blow-job.
Would a woman have taken the same battering if she had posted that she wanted to meet a guy who was happy to just give her the licking of her life?
There were many one-liner ads being posted and a stream of attcking and unsolicited advice bulletins being posted on guys posts in LMU.
The advise was pretty much getting to the stage that a standard template was being formed for arseholes to use so they would get more responses.
They were actually helping the touristy, quick shag brigade write posts that would help them sound more genuine :shock: A few people (including myself) made some comments as the theme moved over to the Café…
1 - Let people write CRAP posts in LMU – it makes the tossers easier to spot. If everyone writes a good ad/post – then you can’t spot the wankers so easily and don’t know who to avoid.
2 – Why was it only ‘single’ guys that were taking a battering? Were double standards at play?
Half tongue-in-cheek :grin: and half as a point making exercise I posted “Good Shag Wanted Tonightâ€. What you saw happen in the post was nowhere near as interesting as the PM’s. Oh, yes – you know who you are! Some of the very same people who slagged off single guys for posting brief requests somehow found my even briefer request perfectly acceptable!!!!
It proved that there where double standards at play – as several people had suspected.
I personally believe people should be able to CHOOSE to write what they want and as briefly as they want in an ad or on LMU – it is then the CHOICE of the reader as to whether they reply.
What people choose to write in there ads and the manner in which people communicate with you by email or msn etc… are two different issues in this instance.
I would not reply to a pushy ad as I don’t like pushy people. :fuckinghell:
Now all that said – Who is up for a good shag tonight? :twisted:
:lol: :lol: Quote by Mr Ben and friends
I hate intollerant people and people who hate.... more than pushy people.
*ducks for cover before the SH SS take a pot shot.
Although, I don't hate people at all in general
OK - point taken - hate is a strong word. I meant to say "get really f*cking annoyed by".
Oh hater of haters do you hate yourself?
Quote by PoloLady
Mmmmm!
So on the on the one hand you like people to be str8 to the point
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewpost/261297.html#261297
However on the other you dont!!
Interseting!
And the point of this thread was?
I stand by my opening comment and any of my subsequent comments made in this thread.
I HATE pushy people – I am becoming more and more intolerant of the irritating bastards.
When you start chatting to someone and they:
A - use any of my “I hate these questionsâ€
B - take an approach that because you have started to chat to them via email, msn, etc… that you must be up-for-it and will shag anyone.
C – imply that if you should choose that they are not your type – then you are a time waster
D – imply you have no standards whatsoever
E – any other reason I care to think of at a later date.
They just piss me off BIG TIME.
However….
Now I feel I must explain myself regarding the “Good Shag Wanted Tonight†post from Let’s Meet Up. (though some of you already know the FULL story)
Seeing as a couple of you have searched well – yet failed to recall the topics of the day in the forum at that time. This is not about being pushy when talking to someone – it is about peoples initial posts.
There had been a seemingly never ending battering of ‘Single’ Guys on the forum in general – not just the Café – it mainly appeared that no guy was safe to post in the LMU section without fear of getting pounced on for his grammar, spelling, text speak, content of request and especially being direct.
One particular incident I recall defending involved a guy posting that he had never had a really good blow job as his former GF’s had not enjoyed giving head. He explained that he was looking to meet a woman who was happy to just give head and enjoyed doing so.
This guy took a battering! “What about the woman’s needs?†was the main theme of the responses. Well, my thoughts on this were – if the woman wants more than to give head… then they should not reply to the ad ! Simple. At least he explained he was not interested in anything more than attempting to satisfy his desire to receive a good blow-job.
Would a woman have taken the same battering if she had posted that she wanted to meet a guy who was happy to just give her the licking of her life?
There were many one-liner ads being posted and a stream of attcking and unsolicited advice bulletins being posted on guys posts in LMU.
The advise was pretty much getting to the stage that a standard template was being formed for arseholes to use so they would get more responses.
They were actually helping the touristy, quick shag brigade write posts that would help them sound more genuine :shock: A few people (including myself) made some comments as the theme moved over to the Café…
1 - Let people write CRAP posts in LMU – it makes the tossers easier to spot. If everyone writes a good ad/post – then you can’t spot the wankers so easily and don’t know who to avoid.
2 – Why was it only ‘single’ guys that were taking a battering? Were double standards at play?
Half tongue-in-cheek :grin: and half as a point making exercise I posted “Good Shag Wanted Tonightâ€. What you saw happen in the post was nowhere near as interesting as the PM’s. Oh, yes – you know who you are! Some of the very same people who slagged off single guys for posting brief requests somehow found my even briefer request perfectly acceptable!!!!
It proved that there where double standards at play – as several people had suspected.
I personally believe people should be able to CHOOSE to write what they want and as briefly as they want in an ad or on LMU – it is then the CHOICE of the reader as to whether they reply.
What people choose to write in there ads and the manner in which people communicate with you by email or msn etc… are two different issues in this instance.
I would not reply to a pushy ad as I don’t like pushy people. :fuckinghell:
Now all that said – Who is up for a good shag tonight? :twisted:
:lol: :lol:ohhh.....you mean it was all just a put on....shit and I was just about to ask about later as well ...back to the drawing board !!!!!
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My least favourit question is,
"What you wearing?"
Maybe a reply along the lines of "curlers in my hair, fag on my lip and tatty baggy jogging bottoms and tartan slippers" should get rid of them in a hurry
Tracy-Jayne
You think telling the truth would help? :lol:
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Quote by Ice Pie
I'm always intrigued by people who say they want a good shag.
I mean, who the hell wants a bad one?
Lets face it, people who say that usualy ant any kind of shag. Desperado's who couldn't score in a brothel. Not looking to engage anyone socialy, don't want to be part of the community, just want a shag and can't get one.
What they are looking for is a sympathy shag. Anyone intrested to oblige them??
well after reading this thread i think a lot of blokes might realise how bad they are, im a newbie but even i know you have to show people with respect, that way we can all enjoy our time chatting on here without having to put up with annoying people, i remember the last time i was registered i advertised for somebody to meet me and my then girlfriend and we didnt half have a load of pricks replying
Quote by Kit-Off
His name was kalsia9. Ever heard of him? What a creep.
oh yes luv, I know exactly who you mean. I think mr kalsi preys on newbie girlies.
I met a guy on here who thought he could push me around generally, because I said I was sub and wanted a strong dom. But pushy should only be in the bedroom, not in real life. It's only a game, a role, not a manipulative power trip.
really can not understand peps wanting to arrange sex without getting to know someone first. Of course in my younger days it was different but as you grow older wam bam thank you mam just don't cut the mustard. these a fancy a shag guys must be just desperate for sex at any cost, no wonder they are avoided like the plague.
I don't know how many times I can say this - but - it is not just guys!
It just appears that there are more guys acting like pricks because there are so bloody many of them.
It is just guys that people moan about - reference the "Good Shag Wanted Tonight" post.
Did that get a stream of stone throwing abuse - did it feck!
It just appears that there are more guys acting like pricks because there are so bloody many of them.
It is just guys that people moan about - reference the "Good Shag Wanted Tonight" post.
Did that get a stream of stone throwing abuse - did it feck!
best i could come up with i apologise in advance
For most of us, Chinese is a very difficult language to learn or understand. Hopefully, these simplifications will help you understand the Chinese language just a bit better!
Ai Bang Mai Ne - I bumped into the coffee table
Chin Tu Fat - You need a face lift
Dum Gai - A stupid person
Gun Pao Der - An ancient Chinese invention
Hu Flung Dung - Which one of you fertilized the field?
Hu Yu Hai Ding - We have reason to believe you are harboring a fugutive
Jan Ne Ka Sun - A former late night talk show host
Kum Hia - Approach me
Lao Ze Sho - Dawson's Creek
Lao Zi - Not very good
Lin Ching - An illegal execution
Moon Lan Ding - A great achievement of the American space program
Ne Ahn - A lighting fixture used in advertising signs
Shai Gai - A bashful person
Tai Ne Bae Be - A premature infant
Tai Ne Po Ne - A small horse
Ten Ding Ba - Serving drinks to people
Wan Bum Lung - A person with T.B.
Yu Mai Te Tan - Your vacation in Hawaii agrees with you
Wa Shing Kah - Cleaning an automobile
Wai So Dim - Are you trying to save electricity?
Wai U Shao Ting -- There is no reason to raise your voice
well i smiled but then im easily pleased :lol: :lol:
For most of us, Chinese is a very difficult language to learn or understand. Hopefully, these simplifications will help you understand the Chinese language just a bit better!
Ai Bang Mai Ne - I bumped into the coffee table
Chin Tu Fat - You need a face lift
Dum Gai - A stupid person
Gun Pao Der - An ancient Chinese invention
Hu Flung Dung - Which one of you fertilized the field?
Hu Yu Hai Ding - We have reason to believe you are harboring a fugutive
Jan Ne Ka Sun - A former late night talk show host
Kum Hia - Approach me
Lao Ze Sho - Dawson's Creek
Lao Zi - Not very good
Lin Ching - An illegal execution
Moon Lan Ding - A great achievement of the American space program
Ne Ahn - A lighting fixture used in advertising signs
Shai Gai - A bashful person
Tai Ne Bae Be - A premature infant
Tai Ne Po Ne - A small horse
Ten Ding Ba - Serving drinks to people
Wan Bum Lung - A person with T.B.
Yu Mai Te Tan - Your vacation in Hawaii agrees with you
Wa Shing Kah - Cleaning an automobile
Wai So Dim - Are you trying to save electricity?
Wai U Shao Ting -- There is no reason to raise your voice
well i smiled but then im easily pleased
:lol: :lol: 
how would you get your car,started when the batterys flat without "pushy people" Quote by johnneuk1
how do you get your shopping done,without pushing a trolly:
dose that make you a pushy person :?:
You obviously haven't seen me with a shopping trolley
:lol: :lol: I would find the link to enlighten you - but I am too tired.
edit = ah! found it.....
Quote by PoloLady
My nephew reminded me of something the other day. We were talking about something or another and he said “you don’t get embarrassed by anythingâ€. I gave him the innocent look as if I didn’t know what he meant and he added “what about the shopping trolley at Tesco!â€
I knew the time he meant instantly…..
My nephew was about 15 and had a new girlfriend. We were all going to Tesco and I had been told to be on ‘best behaviour’. This mean I wasn’t allowed to play the fart game – where I fart really loudly and then turn to my nephew and blame him in an equally load voice.
We arrived at the supermarket at around 2 in the afternoon, so it was rather busy. As we walk in it was like Mosses and the parting of the Red Sea. The main isle that ran the middle length of the supermarket seemed to clear of people. Ahead of me lay a clear long straight isle and there was me with the shopping trolley firmly gripped in my hands. It was a sign from God – the centre isle is never empty on a Saturday afternoon – I was being told to ride the shopping trolley (in a non-sexual way of course).
I took one step then another, faster and faster, pushing harder and harder. I was consumed by the vision of gliding gracefully down the isle, almost flying – like that bird Rose in Titanic when she stood at the bow of the ship. Now at full speed I took one almighty leap to fling myself over the back of the trolley. The instant my body made contact with the trolley I felt the front wheels lift from the floor. The trolley was empty and one of those smaller high basket ones – darn no counter balance! :shock:
I had all but a split second to react – do I abort, my feet may have been 3 foot off of the ground as I lay horizontal across the trolley, but there was still time to abort the mission and bring my feet down. For some reason, I know not what, in that moment of madness I made my decision…..
Still gripping firmly on the handle I pushed the trolley forward from underneath me. The fount wheels still lifting and me still horizontal, I made no attempt to put my feet onto the floor. Instead I used the momentum of myself and the now almost upturned trolley to go……………….. body-surfing down the floor of the isle.
As gravity took hold and pulled me closer to the floor the trolley became totally upturned and hit the floor with a load announcing crash. Apparently I had travelled a good 12 foot in midair before making contact with the floor and then cleared 3 of the crossing isles before coming to an undignified halt amongst a crowd of people with gapping mouths. I looked up at my unfamiliar audience and smiled, stood up, put the trolley back upright and wandered back a few isles to reclaim my lost footwear.
For some reason my nephew was bright red and his girlfriend looked as if she was about to faint with shock. Totally embarrassed my nephew stood there waiting for some form of explanation….. “Shall we have Mexican?†I asked.
We lose something special when we become adults – live life to the full and do something childish every day – you will be richer for it in ways that money cannot buy.
