Pussy Fingering Myths

10 Jan 2007

Quote by Iluvit1984
Duno really, hard for me to explain.

I think you did quite well actually :shock: :twisted:
Fee
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11 Jan 2007

I'm in total agreement with Iluvit1984. I have never orgasmed through oral, but find it pleasurable. Fingering quite (or really) roughly is the only thing that will make me gush, I don't even need any clitoral stimulation. I can orgasm through sex, but rarely. I find some guys dont won't to be too rough through fingering though in case they hurt you, but personally I LOVE IT!!! lol

12 Jan 2007

Quote by curvysue
I'm in total agreement with Iluvit1984. I have never orgasmed through oral, but find it pleasurable. Fingering quite (or really) roughly is the only thing that will make me gush, I don't even need any clitoral stimulation. I can orgasm through sex, but rarely. I find some guys dont won't to be too rough through fingering though in case they hurt you, but personally I LOVE IT!!! lol

I guess it can be quite confusing for a guy to try his hardest to please his girl(s) by being imaginative, sensitive and attentive only to find that in some instances what really gets her going is something that requires no finesse at all; a good old fashioned finger fuck.

12 Jan 2007

Quote by Darkfire
...or the ones who just poke a finger in and out like they are trying to ring a doorbell

you have such a way with words, but very true :giggle:
and why is it most men think the way to get a women wet is to shove another finger up and ram twice as hard :shock:

12 Jan 2007

Quote by felixx1416
:shock: Seeing as your talking about fingering pussy here is a fact i have just found out the juices(if this is the best way of discribing) are very Alkolotic and in the passed many gynacologists have lost finger etc due to there constant vaginal examintion :shock:

If that is true… should we expect all the guys who have “I give oral for hours” on their profiles to talk with a lisp? confused

12 Jan 2007

Quote by PoloLady
:shock: Seeing as your talking about fingering pussy here is a fact i have just found out the juices(if this is the best way of discribing) are very Alkolotic and in the passed many gynacologists have lost finger etc due to there constant vaginal examintion :shock:

If that is true… should we expect all the guys who have “I give oral for hours” on their profiles to talk with a lisp? confused

No!

12 Jan 2007

Quote by PoloLady
:shock: Seeing as your talking about fingering pussy here is a fact i have just found out the juices(if this is the best way of discribing) are very Alkolotic and in the passed many gynacologists have lost finger etc due to there constant vaginal examintion :shock:

If that is true… should we expect all the guys who have “I give oral for hours” on their profiles to talk with a lisp? confused

yethss

12 Jan 2007

Well, here's my 2 penn'orth to add to the discussion. Nicky tells me that one of the key things that helps her to gush is relaxation. The more relaxed and comfortable she is, the more likely she is to gush. Although, weirdly it also can help to catch her by surprise! She has sometimes gushed when I have been licking her clit and then suddenly inserted a finger or two and pumped away quite hard on her G-spot, or even doing things like gently fingering it then (gently) biting her neck or spanking her or doing anything that distracts the direction her thoughts are going! I'm not sure I'd recommend this for a swinging situation though - such a surprise might not always be welcome.
And to those who think it is difficult or impossible to make a woman gush from penetration - well that's not necessarily the case! I have often made Nicky gush from penetrative sex - it seems to mostly depend on the position, and also having a reasonably large cock seems to help too. Doggy-style is good, or woman-on-top (cowgirl), or even side-by-side. But my favorite is probably with the woman lying flat on her belly with the man kneeling up slightly to get that angle to hit the front wall of the vagina where the G-spot is.
Hope this helps!
Russell

13 Jan 2007

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14 Jan 2007

I have followed this thread with real interest. I am amazed how different we gals are, blue and I talk about it after playing on what technique others have used and how it may or may not suit you. And as we're still relatively new to all this swinging lark, it is quite an eye opener.
Personally I love oral, can be multi orgasmic with clit stimulation, but not once have I ever orgasmed through internal fingering or penetration, my G spot is either non-existent or just not sensitive enough (still working on it! - offers on a postcard please...). Don't mind some but when a guy is trying intently to make you gush with hard fingering or long lasting penetration that can get quite uncomfortable for me!
As Mrs Juniper says poor guys out there, not easy for them to determine what we like!
pink x