My guess would be from the usual suspects at this site a resounding yes they would be respected . What is interesting is that you say you 'know' you wouldnt be comfortable with anyone at a party , surely you cant tell til you meet them :-)
Im sure they would all look after you , youve always seemed nice to us .
Silky n G x
Rainbows,
At parties you set your own limits, and just say no to anyone who goes over your limits,
All the parties I have been to, have respected everyone elses limits, and no means no, also no one has ever been made to do anything they don't want to.
get your name on a party list, go and have some fun
I have always had the firm impression from everything people have said in here and at munches and meets that everyone's personal boundaries are always respected 100 per cent at all parties. As long as there are also enough separate rooms so that nobody has to witness anything that they do not wish to watch other people indulging in, then everything is fine.
Mike.
Well Rainbows............It looks like I'm gonna have to organise another party at mine eh?
I've done 4 parties at mine up to now and they are always relaxed and totally social downstairs. There is NEVER any pressure at all from anyone. (If people start pressuring they are asked to leave)
Yes, there is one room left open upstairs for people to go and play if they want to, but there is never any need to go in there if you don't want to.
I don't have many rules for my parties (no means no, no drugs, and no playing downstairs) as anyone who has been to one can tell you, but people come and respect those rules and everyone has a good time.
You are more than welcome to come to one of my parties sweetheart.
I haven't got one organised at the moment, but give me a shout and I'll get one organised just for you (that sounds like a good enough excuse for a party anyway.....lol)
Hope this kind of sets your mind at ease about the "goings-on" at parties.
Take care
Marcuso
xx xx
Tell ya what 'Bows, come to the next scary Blue & Satin party with me & Reese. I have partied, a bit, but have tended to.. well.. fall asleep. I do not think this would happen at chez Blue. I just don't think it will be an option.
Hiya Rainbows!
I have found Blues parties very relaxed, laid back and MOST DEFINATELY no expectations from anyone about whos playing with who. In fact, full intercourse isnt such a big issue, theres a lot of playing and fiddling etc, and the beauty of these parties is that everyone enjoys that, not everyone wants or wants to give full intercourse. With the number of people there, full intercourse with everyone, just wouldnt be possible! :shock:
Besides, if you come with me next time, ill protect you :twisted:
Totally agree with everyone else, you don't have to do anything you don't want to. I was quite surprised at my first party about how little penetrative sex actually happened, there was much more 'foreplay' going on.
Your boundaries will always be respected, that is definately not a problem and it's probably easier in a party situation to get out if you start feeling uncomfortable as there are so many people around to be distractions. At the two party houses I've been to there has been one room at least allocated for social only, so if you want to relax, have a drink and a chat you can go into that room for a break, or even spend the whole evening in there if you wish.
You should expect for people to respect you. If they don't there is a problem and the party organisers should know about it. I have no interest whatsoever in sex with other men and would be pretty pissed off if anyone has a problem with that. Bi doesn't mean available to everyone.
go out there and have fun even if its just a drink
cant add to what has been said
so your bi with lesbian leanings??
a lesbian that plays with men i thought i knew it all i am now lost once again ill be at blue and satins nxt time rainbows lets stick together saftey in numbers lol
Rainbow,
Why do u consider yourself as a certain label, surely that holds constraints?
I for one am not labelled.
I am not straight, gay, bi-sexual but consider myself open for fun when the time arrives.
Any parties I have attended have never had any pressure attached to them, you just go with the flow, wanna chat then do so, wanna have fun again do so.
Hopefully you will attend a party soon & see that we do not 'tar' everyone with the same brush with labels.
The WHOOSH Manâ„¢
lol
:lol: :lol: 
:wink: :wink: ... and you wouldn't be expected to do any sex at all...... it's really THAT hardcore! :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
. May have to think about attending the next party at Bluexxx and Satins then :twisted: 
