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hi Girls
Do you find after meeting and having great fun with a guy, you (and husband) decide to meet up again with the same guy, cause he was good fun, and the next time he is just so selfish??......This has happened with almost every guy we've met.
Have you found this girls?
MariaX
Hi Mike
Know what you're saying, just a bit disappointed sad again!!
I will have to be more domminant evil (can't even spell it) lol
PS nice buttX
I cant answer as we have yet to meet anyone that we consider worth asking back a second time dunno
I would've thought that, unless you're friends beforehand, every meet has got to stand on its own. So if someone is selfish, whether it is the first or third meet, they're skating on thin ice.
With friends you're not likely to get that sort of behaviour in any case.
Quote by westerross
I would've thought that, unless you're friends beforehand, every meet has got to stand on its own. So if someone is selfish, whether it is the first or third meet, they're skating on thin ice.
With friends you're not likely to get that sort of behaviour in any case.

Sorry TE but that is pants!
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hi Girls
Do you find after meeting and having great fun with a guy, you (and husband) decide to meet up again with the same guy, cause he was good fun, and the next time he is just so selfish??......This has happened with almost every guy we've met.
Have you found this girls?
MariaX

Well, the short answer is 'No'. Guess if it did happen then just wouldn't bother with them again, no hassle, not every meet is going to be perfect.
The guys always seem to make a big effort to please you the first time (of course it's got be two way) then get lazy.......... just have to do what you do Shireen and just meet once rolleyes
Mariax
Quote by RickyandMaria
hi Girls
Do you find after meeting and having great fun with a guy, you (and husband) decide to meet up again with the same guy, cause he was good fun, and the next time he is just so selfish??......This has happened with almost every guy we've met.
Have you found this girls?
MariaX

No. We've been a threesome for more than a year and a half now. I don't want it to end. It's like being married except that there's three of us. I would like us all to live together.
Mollie xxx
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hi Girls
Do you find after meeting and having great fun with a guy, you (and husband) decide to meet up again with the same guy, cause he was good fun, and the next time he is just so selfish??......This has happened with almost every guy we've met.
Have you found this girls?
MariaX

No. We've been a threesome for more than a year and a half now. I don't want it to end. It's like being married except that there's three of us. I would like us all to live together.
Mollie xxx
But we guess that Ricky and Maria would like to know if you have any problems meeting others outside of your 'usual' threesome?
I have played with a few couples where the guy has been all over me and i have felt the wife/girlfriend has been a bit left out which has made me feel uncomfortable so i have not repeted the experience. Then again i played with one couple for 2years and never had a problem we became great friends.
I guess it depends on the guy....personally I find I'm less nervous on the second meet and can "perform" better - I met a couple over the period of a year and it seemed to get better - we tried more things!!
So maybe you've just been unlucky....
And a lot of guys are crap in bed!!!
Px
PS Wished I lived in Spain - cold grey day here......brrrr
Quote by RickyandMaria
The guys always seem to make a big effort to please you the first time (of course it's got be two way) then get lazy.......... just have to do what you do Shireen and just meet once rolleyes
Mariax

Can't say I've ever done anything like that - to me the fun is seeing what we can all do the second time around!
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I would've thought that, unless you're friends beforehand, every meet has got to stand on its own. So if someone is selfish, whether it is the first or third meet, they're skating on thin ice.
With friends you're not likely to get that sort of behaviour in any case.

Sorry TE but that is pants!
Care to elucidate? Other threads here seem to suggest otherwise. If they behave selfishly, they hardly qualify as a friend in any case - a bit idealistic I'll agree but probably true most of the time.
i think that on the first time he is more interested in proving himself good in bed but after you have asked him back he dosent have anything to prove so becomes selfish, and wants to please himself more than everyone else involved..
Quote by RickyandMaria
The guys always seem to make a big effort to please you the first time (of course it's got be two way) then get lazy.......... just have to do what you do Shireen and just meet once rolleyes
Mariax

Well at least you got the once lol........
We arranged to meet one once feeling very very brave, took ages picking what we thought would be the right one.... the night came and an hour before he was due he rang to say he was on his way and was everything ok etc, then he announced like nothing would be thought he was bringing his mate along and was that ok!!!! Well no it wasn't and we have never bothered since lol........ i mean get real lol..
Mike x
Dave and Debbie I totally agree with you rolleyes
Mike..........well yea we have had some great nights biggrin and hopefully some more to cum wink
and that was a shame, the one night you decided to go for it with a guy he wanted to bring his mate!!!!!
Well in for a penny............ :!: :!: :!: :!: :!:
MariaX
What does it feel like having 2 cocks in you at the same time?
Does it make any difference to one (sensation etc)?
I have been fortunate enough to be invited back to the couples I have been with. For me a big part of the fun in sex is the pleasure the others feel. My own orgasm is relatively easy to fit in to the proceedings and is only incidental to the overall fun. You only have to listen to chatroom directions to realise how many men are selfish or uneducated or insensitive though.
I should say we have met some great guys too smile one from back in Britain has been a good friend for seven years and still comes to visit us in Spain.
So I know you're not all like that guys wink :wink:
Mariax
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Hi Mike
Know what you're saying, just a bit disappointed sad again!!
I will have to be more domminant evil (can't even spell it) lol
PS nice buttX

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