question for the ladies

3 Jul 2006

ok apart from a big dick, i am afraid i am stuck with what i have sad

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whats makes a man a good lover?
and what things do you like a man to to?
basiically i want some tips to try and improve my technique.
i want real advice from real women, nott he pc types in the problem page.
so come on ladies give it to us, what do you want friom us guys to enable us to pleasure you to the max and keep you happy for long time :twisted:
please
thank you biggrin

3 Jul 2006

learn by your mistakes smile

thanks jo

3 Jul 2006

Chocolate, Champagne and strawberries lol

is a good start

3 Jul 2006

Women do seem to like bisexual men.... nothing better than watching two blokes going at it, hammer and chuff like it was their last day on Earth lol

3 Jul 2006

As previously mentioned - chocolates, champagne, and strawberries - a good start.
However, a little enthusiasm, good listening skills, and the ability to think of the woman not just their own orgasm!!!
Ps, is it big in length or width
lol

3 Jul 2006

Biggest turn on for me - being with someone that seems to be having a blast, is thoroughly enjoying your body, not just for what they can get from it, but also for how they can pleasure. Massive turn on for me, is someone who is genuinely curious about a womans body, even if we've had sex before, they still explore me with interest, are keen to find for themselves what touches hit the spot and what doesn't.
Turn on - A guy who, if asked the same question, would answer pretty much the same as I have but the other way round.
Big turn off - a guy who thinks he knows exactly how to please a woman. Because he touched someone previously and they liked it, they use the same technique with everyone they have had sex with since, almost like a rigid ritual with a "she loved it so every woman must love it" attitude, and no inclination or desire to change that 'tried and tested' procedure confused

Big turn off - a guy who tells me how to do something, rather than letting me take the time to explore and find out little touches/nibbles myself. All seems too focused on the big O rather than the whole experience, not to mentioned rushed :? Also makes me feel right stupid and crap :?
Physical attributes - nope, doesn't bother me. For me it's all about attitude.

3 Jul 2006

Quote by Bloke2005
Women do seem to like bisexual men.... nothing better than watching two blokes going at it, hammer and chuff like it was their last day on Earth

No hunni that's YOUR fantasy rolleyes

:giggle:
I like a guy to be respectful, take time over foreplay and as Missy so rightly said, explore me like I'm the first and not just another notch up. He should show me and tell me what he likes not tell me what I'm doing wrong. Stick around for post-coital cuddles and not get up and go :roll:
oh yeah......and chocolate :thumbup:

3 Jul 2006

Quote by Sarah
Chocolate, Champagne and strawberries is a good start

nah..its diamonds that do it for me... :lol: :lol: :lol:

3 Jul 2006

no need for the credit card....mr sheddys a diamond any way...... lol

3 Jul 2006

Quote by look
ok apart from a big dick, i am afraid i am stuck with what i have .
whats makes a man a good lover?

I can't tell you but I can show you! biggrin

3 Jul 2006

Quote by Bloke2005
Women do seem to like bisexual men.... nothing better than watching two blokes going at it, hammer and chuff like it was their last day on Earth

I am with bloke........ especially if those men are in a room far ........ far.........away.
:lol: :lol: :lol:

3 Jul 2006

Quote by poshkate
Chocolate, Champagne and strawberries is a good start

nah..its diamonds that do it for me... :lol: :lol: :lol:
I agree, but thought I would start low cost and work up!!! :lol:

3 Jul 2006

Quote by Sarah
I agree, but thought I would start low cost and work up!!!

Sorry but the posh one doesn't do low cost :lol: :lol:

3 Jul 2006

Quote by Missy
Biggest turn on for me - being with someone that seems to be having a blast, is thoroughly enjoying your body, not just for what they can get from it, but also for how they can pleasure. Massive turn on for me, is someone who is genuinely curious about a womans body, even if we've had sex before, they still explore me with interest, are keen to find for themselves what touches hit the spot and what doesn't.
Turn on - A guy who, if asked the same question, would answer pretty much the same as I have but the other way round.
Big turn off - a guy who thinks he knows exactly how to please a woman. Because he touched someone previously and they liked it, they use the same technique with everyone they have had sex with since, almost like a rigid ritual with a "she loved it so every woman must love it" attitude, and no inclination or desire to change that 'tried and tested' procedure
SPOT ON! ....Plus being able to have a laugh and respect the woman for herself
Big turn off - a guy who tells me how to do something, rather than letting me take the time to explore and find out little touches/nibbles myself. All seems too focused on the big O rather than the whole experience, not to mentioned rushed :? Also makes me feel right stupid and crap :?
Physical attributes - nope, doesn't bother me. For me it's all about attitude.

3 Jul 2006

Quote by poshkate

I agree, but thought I would start low cost and work up!!!

Sorry but the posh one doesn't do low cost :lol: :lol:
Ok, I'll come ring shopping with you :lol:

3 Jul 2006

Quote by Missy
.... Massive turn on for me, is someone who is genuinely curious about a womans body, even if we've had sex before, they still explore me with interest, are keen to find for themselves what touches hit the spot and what doesn't.
Turn on - A guy who, if asked the same question, would answer pretty much the same as I have but the other way round.

Nothing to do with the fact we have both got bad memories?

:rotflmao:

3 Jul 2006

Quote by Sarah
Ok, I'll come ring shopping with you

It's a bit early for rings yet he'll be getting ideas again.................I'm hinting for a necklace for my birthday, but haven't told him it's already gone :lol: :lol:

3 Jul 2006

Quote by poshkate

Ok, I'll come ring shopping with you

It's a bit early for rings yet he'll be getting ideas again.................I'm hinting for a necklace for my birthday, but haven't told him it's already gone :lol: :lol:
Ok we can go shopping for diamonds in a necklace or earrings, :lol:

3 Jul 2006

Quote by Sarah
Ok we can go shopping for diamonds in a necklace or earrings,

Fabulous darling shopping and diamonds ................... what more could a girl want :lol: :lol:

3 Jul 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren
Women do seem to like bisexual men.... nothing better than watching two blokes going at it, hammer and chuff like it was their last day on Earth

No hunni that's YOUR fantasy rolleyes

:giggle:
One of mine too actually redface

Bloke... will you share your fantasy with me? :twisted:

3 Jul 2006

Quote by davidmad4it

.... Massive turn on for me, is someone who is genuinely curious about a womans body, even if we've had sex before, they still explore me with interest, are keen to find for themselves what touches hit the spot and what doesn't.
Turn on - A guy who, if asked the same question, would answer pretty much the same as I have but the other way round.

Nothing to do with the fact we have both got bad memories?

:rotflmao:
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
All of a sudden being forgetful don't seem such a bad thing!!! :lol2:

3 Jul 2006

Keep going girls - we're all ears and eyes so we can avoid being all fingers and thumbs! :twisted:
This works both ways - it's attitude that counts every time.

3 Jul 2006

Quote by Missy

.... Massive turn on for me, is someone who is genuinely curious about a womans body, even if we've had sex before, they still explore me with interest, are keen to find for themselves what touches hit the spot and what doesn't.
Turn on - A guy who, if asked the same question, would answer pretty much the same as I have but the other way round.

Nothing to do with the fact we have both got bad memories?

:rotflmao:
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
All of a sudden being forgetful don't seem such a bad thing!!! :lol2:
I would also guess getting a corset on the right way up before being laced into it!! lol

3 Jul 2006

Quote by Sarah

.... Massive turn on for me, is someone who is genuinely curious about a womans body, even if we've had sex before, they still explore me with interest, are keen to find for themselves what touches hit the spot and what doesn't.
Turn on - A guy who, if asked the same question, would answer pretty much the same as I have but the other way round.

Nothing to do with the fact we have both got bad memories?

:rotflmao:
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
All of a sudden being forgetful don't seem such a bad thing!!! :lol2:
I would also guess getting a corset on the right way up before being laced into it!! lol

ops: :oops:
Ooooppps

3 Jul 2006

Quote by poshkate
no need for the credit card....mr sheddys a diamond any way......

Awwwww aint she lovely :inlove: kiss

3 Jul 2006

Quote by Sarah
I would also guess getting a corset on the right way up before being laced into it!!

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
I guess being shoved in an upside down corset isn't exactly in me top 10 of turn ons :undecided:
And being told "you look lovely now get a bluddy move on, we're late", isn't in me top 10 of sweet nothings when I can see the suspender strap sticking out just above me nipples :shock:

3 Jul 2006

Quote by celestria
Women do seem to like bisexual men.... nothing better than watching two blokes going at it, hammer and chuff like it was their last day on Earth

No hunni that's YOUR fantasy rolleyes

:giggle:
One of mine too actually redface

Bloke... will you share your fantasy with me? :twisted:
you might want to check with the fecktart before you order extra lube :giggle:
(And no, Bloke, i do not want to join you, before you start with the blatant tarting :roll: )

4 Jul 2006

Quote by celestria
Women do seem to like bisexual men.... nothing better than watching two blokes going at it, hammer and chuff like it was their last day on Earth

No hunni that's YOUR fantasy rolleyes

:giggle:
One of mine too actually redface

Bloke... will you share your fantasy with me? :twisted:
I love this also... and I was talking to my girlfriend last night who I would say is 100% gay and even she likes watching two (or more!) men enjoying each other!
For me turn-ons (in no particular order) are intelligence, manners, making me laugh and being a great kisser!

4 Jul 2006

Quote by Kiss_Me
For me turn-ons (in no particular order) are intelligence, manners, making me laugh and being a great kisser!

:smug:

4 Jul 2006

Quote by meat2pleaseu
Women do seem to like bisexual men.... nothing better than watching two blokes going at it, hammer and chuff like it was their last day on Earth

No hunni that's YOUR fantasy rolleyes

:giggle:
One of mine too actually redface

Bloke... will you share your fantasy with me? :twisted:
you might want to check with the fecktart before you order extra lube :giggle:
(And no, Bloke, i do not want to join you, before you start with the blatant tarting :roll: )
Well actually fektart doesn't fit into my perving at two blokes fantasy cos I know it's definitely not his thing... I just want to sit watch and enjoy and then go back to fektart and shag his brains out so he won't be needing the lube :lol: :lol:
But bloke and meaty together... now there's a real fantasy :rascal: :grin: