ok having read some of the older threads - like excuses for babysitter i am intrigued as to what those of you with children do?
having spoken to one couple who mentioned a prev meet she had been on when they brought their baby along too! :shock:
now personally we will ALWAYS try to arrange childcare even if playing at home nobody wants a toddler interrupting things for more than one reason!
so do you always
arrange babysitter if away from home
have them stay with friends/family if home
keep them home if playing at home
take them along
let them stay alone if theyre old enough
and if theyre old enough to stay at home alone for a while what excuses to do you use?
If you like us have kids do you find it difficult to arrange sitters/overnight stays?
sorry for the twenty questions just genuinely interested (and looking for tips and more excuses lol!)
sally xx
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having spoken to one couple who mentioned a prev meet she had been on when they brought their baby along too! :shock:
You are joking me! That is abs. disgusting! I would have reported that person actually!
It's difficult combining a sexy swinging life with family and friends, us personally have had to totally seperate the two and can only meet other people when we know our kids are safely away for the night. There was one occasion where we'd left them at home (they are nearly 15 by the way) and went to meet a couple and I fretted all night. I kept thinking if they were still up when we got in (didn't want to be late) would I have "we've just swung" written all over my face??!! :shock: It really isn't worth the hassle, book a night, book out the kids and enjoy!
You are joking me! That is abs. disgusting! I would have reported that person actually!
It's difficult combining a sexy swinging life with family and friends, us personally have had to totally seperate the two and can only meet other people when we know our kids are safely away for the night. There was one occasion where we'd left them at home (they are nearly 15 by the way) and went to meet a couple and I fretted all night. I kept thinking if they were still up when we got in (didn't want to be late) would I have "we've just swung" written all over my face??!! :shock: It really isn't worth the hassle, book a night, book out the kids and enjoy!
Quote by flower411
We are both divorced and the kids go to our ex`s every other weekend.
Means we have two completely free weekends every month :smug:
Some people might find this a bit of a drastic solution !!! But hey ! it works
we had that for a few years but now they're older they've decided they no longer want to spend their weekends bored at the ex's.. damn! but the plus side is they tend to have a few more sleepovers at friends instead
Sex God
Hi Swindonnewbies
A ha good post - this is the hardest part of swinging for us - childcare!
We always play away from home and have babysitters in for our children. We can't get overnighters that often so often have to be back by 1am or so, when we play at parties which finish at 3am we need overnighters and since we joined SH last September have used up MANY of our sources!
Our rule was never to play at home but we broke it on a "first date" with a really hot couple who had an overnight pass and we were meeting close to our home. But i felt uncomfortable and wouldn't plan to do it again even though our children are quite young. I like to keep our two lives very separate.
We have a couple we regularly play with and for both of us to time our social diaries to play and organise childcare is quite an event! However is amazing what you can pull out of the hat when you are so damn horny!!
Also we really get off on coming back to our babysitters (our friends) and fabricating where we have been knowing we have been doing VERY naughty things....
pink x
A ha good post - this is the hardest part of swinging for us - childcare!
We always play away from home and have babysitters in for our children. We can't get overnighters that often so often have to be back by 1am or so, when we play at parties which finish at 3am we need overnighters and since we joined SH last September have used up MANY of our sources!
Our rule was never to play at home but we broke it on a "first date" with a really hot couple who had an overnight pass and we were meeting close to our home. But i felt uncomfortable and wouldn't plan to do it again even though our children are quite young. I like to keep our two lives very separate.
We have a couple we regularly play with and for both of us to time our social diaries to play and organise childcare is quite an event! However is amazing what you can pull out of the hat when you are so damn horny!!
Also we really get off on coming back to our babysitters (our friends) and fabricating where we have been knowing we have been doing VERY naughty things....
pink x
Casanova
I have 5 kids,my disabled step father and x-motherinlaw living with me at my home and russ lives in his own house(my santury). I never mix lifestyle and homelife together,if we are to accomadate then this is at russ's house.
see im not
This is where having the x-motherinlaw living with you has benefits :happy: she is always at home and happy to oversee the house,my step father and the children ect when im away. I get a freedom i would never otherwise have. I am fortunate to be allowed a overnite pass at least once a week too :bounce:
I would never choose to swing in a house with children present no matter what ages they were, but that just our prefrence.
nicky
see im not
This is where having the x-motherinlaw living with you has benefits :happy: she is always at home and happy to oversee the house,my step father and the children ect when im away. I get a freedom i would never otherwise have. I am fortunate to be allowed a overnite pass at least once a week too :bounce:
I would never choose to swing in a house with children present no matter what ages they were, but that just our prefrence.
nicky
Warming the Bed
you could always try a hotel meet and if all get on book aroom for the nigh with shared costs
Sex God
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you could always try a hotel meet and if all get on book aroom for the nigh with shared costs
Yes and what do you do with the children?? Take them with you and ask reception to look after them
:lol: 
Sex God
We're way past the *needing a babysitter* stage, but we know a bi fem who went for a meet with a couple - only for them to stop half way through the *event* for the woman to go and breastfeed her baby :shock:
Personally speaking we had built in baby sitters in the shape of my parents who lived with us, but had not yet discovered swinging or I would probably have returned home with a red face, knowing my mother would be up reading in bed
:lol2:
She always used to wait up for us to return home safely - even when we were in out 30's :shock: Bless her!
TJ
Personally speaking we had built in baby sitters in the shape of my parents who lived with us, but had not yet discovered swinging or I would probably have returned home with a red face, knowing my mother would be up reading in bed
:lol2:She always used to wait up for us to return home safely - even when we were in out 30's :shock: Bless her!
TJ
We always make sure that the kids are either at one of our families houses or if they are at home with sitters then we never go back there. i dont think that i could do anything with the kids in the house, it would just feel wrong for me. ( not that its wrong for anyone else its up to the individuals). We are running out of excuses for our nights out though.
louise xx
louise xx
Sex God
Louise
We are the same - running out of excuses! We also write in my diary the excuse we've given so we don't get caught out! But it's all a bit stressful sometimes. I have been drawing up a list of potential sleepover possibles so we can get out to a club again. And very cunning me i have invited a few children for sleepovers here, hoping ours get invited back SOON...
pink x
We are the same - running out of excuses! We also write in my diary the excuse we've given so we don't get caught out! But it's all a bit stressful sometimes. I have been drawing up a list of potential sleepover possibles so we can get out to a club again. And very cunning me i have invited a few children for sleepovers here, hoping ours get invited back SOON...
pink x
Sex God
i have invited a few children for sleepovers here, hoping ours get invited back SOON...
pink x
very very cunning
lp
A ha LP, I am that cunning woman...there's no stopping us now, now we've found this new lifestyle! Ask and you shall receive (well I hope so anyway)
pink x
