Okay folks - here is your chance to stand up and debate for your side.
Currently signed up to this site we have the following : -
1...Swingers
2...Doggers
3...Quick shag seekees
So - I ask you - debate nicely and decently - what is the difference?
The tabloid media would have you believe that being a swinger means that you are just open to a quick shag.
The aforementioned media would have you believe that as a dogger you'll shag anything.
The swingers and doggers believe that those on here who beieve that they can get a quick shag out of either are grossly mistaken.
So - time to put your views forward in the Rainbows debate..........
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Quick shag vs swinger vs dogger - what is the difference?
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Sex God
Rainbows, just seen your thread.
I am quite a newbie here on this site & to swinging but I do not think that dogging or swingers are easy shags. Everyone has choices who and what they want to do to each other. I feel that it is safer than pulling off the street. We personally like to meet up first & get to know the other peeps first. Some people don't. It comes down to choice . media should never slate anyone for doing this or they should slate the whole human population for being human and fullfilling human responses.
Does the media slate dogs for going after bitches on heat? NO.
Only my opinion anyway
Go for it peeps & enjoy I say
XX
I am quite a newbie here on this site & to swinging but I do not think that dogging or swingers are easy shags. Everyone has choices who and what they want to do to each other. I feel that it is safer than pulling off the street. We personally like to meet up first & get to know the other peeps first. Some people don't. It comes down to choice . media should never slate anyone for doing this or they should slate the whole human population for being human and fullfilling human responses.
Does the media slate dogs for going after bitches on heat? NO.
Only my opinion anyway
Go for it peeps & enjoy I say
XX
Sex God
Quick shag for me please Rainbows!!! (I can rarely last that long anyway!!)
Well, Swinging (or the old term wife swapping), is like it says, swapping partners with the others consent. Dogging is about taking all comers ( or should that read cummers ? ) outdoors in a variety of ways but not ness with partner or other if attached often the other partner "understands" . A quick shag is rather more dangerous as this can be with anyone attached married or otherwise engaged. often on the sly and often unexpected.
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Dogging is about taking all comers ( or should that read cummers ? ) outdoors in a variety of ways but not ness with partner or other if attached often the other partner "understands" .
No it is not!!!!
Dogging has its roots in watching - yes, some doggers will participate if offered the chance, some couples/showers will invite others to participate but that's not the case for everyone involved in the scene and it's certainly not about taking all comers!! :shock:
For me, dogging is a voyeuristic experience - I wouldn't say no participation ever because I never say never - but when I go out, it's to watch!
Sex God
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Dogging is about taking all comers ( or should that read cummers ? ) outdoors in a variety of ways
:shock: Says who?!
That is precisely the way the media portray it but it is not only factually inaccurate, but also insulting to those of us who enjoy outdoor sex.
I'd suggest you read up on the terminology mate before you go spouting off again . . . but try reading about it on here . . . not in the tabloid papers where you seem to have gleaned your informed opinions
:roll: Tracy-Jayne
Peenut.
My partner and I don't do 'Swinging' in the way you describe it. Pete is strictly a voyeur. We both enjoy the Dogging, because he gets to watch me in action, but I certainly DON'T shag 'All comers'. If I fancy a shag with one or more of the guys I will, but not always. Some might get a blow job, some might get wanked, some might get no hands on participation at all. I make the decision!
As for your quick shag comment about it being more dangerous......................sorry, but what the fuck is that supposed to mean? 'It can be with , etc etc?' So what? Swinging, Dogging, Quick Shags.................they will all be with someone who is likely to be 'attached etc'.................so why is one more acceptable or otherwise than the other?
My partner and I don't do 'Swinging' in the way you describe it. Pete is strictly a voyeur. We both enjoy the Dogging, because he gets to watch me in action, but I certainly DON'T shag 'All comers'. If I fancy a shag with one or more of the guys I will, but not always. Some might get a blow job, some might get wanked, some might get no hands on participation at all. I make the decision!
As for your quick shag comment about it being more dangerous......................sorry, but what the fuck is that supposed to mean? 'It can be with , etc etc?' So what? Swinging, Dogging, Quick Shags.................they will all be with someone who is likely to be 'attached etc'.................so why is one more acceptable or otherwise than the other?
Sex God
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Well, Swinging (or the old term wife swapping), is like it says, swapping partners with the others consent. .
Disagree with you here Peenut, what about people who swing without actually swapping partners, those who have group swinging experiences, those who are into threesomes etc where there is no 'swapping' of partners!
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Dogging is about taking all comers ( or should that read cummers ? ) outdoors in a variety of ways but not ness with partner .
I will try not to insult you here, but you seriously need to do some reading about what dogging is all about! Try looking up the words voyerism and exhibitionism and them try to learn where this fits in with dogging!!! We are doggers and DO NOT go out and have sex with strangers in car parks. I know some do and bloody good luck to them, but that is not what dogging is all about and the people who do have sex with others doggers, % of then do actually choose who they have sexual contact with! :shock:
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A quick shag is rather more dangerous as this can be with anyone attached married or otherwise engaged. often on the sly and often unexpected.
But from the descriptions you have given above, everyone of those are quick shags. You have described swingers as swapping partners for a quick shag, you have described doggers as using car parks for a quick shag, so, using your definitions, how can a quick shag be any different or more dangerous?
As for the ones who are into a quick shag, well what is wrong with that? Its not my thing and from what I know and from what I have read, I feel that a lot of people on here are not into it, they are more into the general swinging ethos, or enjoy the exitment of dogging, which is what this site SHOULD be all about!
In my personal view, a quick shag is more suited to a 'special' type of internet site where you can just put a pic on, probably a cock shot, a few words about yourself and if someone takes a physical fancy to you, they get in touch (or you could try going out round any major town and it will save having to write a one line ad). Actually the more I think about it, maybe we already have that
Orgasminator
swinging isnt wife swapping........its having sex for the fun of it with someone you dont love.
I suppose there are dozens of ways to get invoved in this conversation. Mine is based on time.
We can all have a quick shag because it can be done quickly as and when we desire it, or if necessary because we have to.
Swinging takes a long time to get a quick shag.
Quick shags, when dogging, are quicker in cold weather.
We can all have a quick shag because it can be done quickly as and when we desire it, or if necessary because we have to.
Swinging takes a long time to get a quick shag.
Quick shags, when dogging, are quicker in cold weather.
Master of Sex
Quote by Rainbows
Currently signed up to this site we have the following : -
1...Swingers
2...Doggers
3...Quick shag seekees
So - I ask you - debate nicely and decently - what is the difference?
This one's easy.....
1...Swinging..We've nearly 400,000 members and they all define swinging as what it means to them....some of the 400,000 will of course have the same definition.
2...Dogging..We've nearly 400,000 members and they all define dogging as what it means to them....some of the 400,000 will of course have the same definition.
3...Quick Shag..We've nearly 400,000 members and they all fancy a quick shag.
I think that's as straight-forward as it gets..!
peanut you are way off the mark i love to go dogging but and this may shock you peanut, i dont play with other men :shock: i never do in any situation not just dogging, although i do play with woman ALOT :twisted: , its simple i love to be watched and to watch others.
this idea that we will shag anything is sooo wrong and is the opinion i would expexct from someone thats not in the lifestyle and belieavs what they read in the papers.
think you need more facts before you post hun
this idea that we will shag anything is sooo wrong and is the opinion i would expexct from someone thats not in the lifestyle and belieavs what they read in the papers.
think you need more facts before you post hun
Sex God
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peanut you are way off the mark i love to go dogging but and this may shock you peanut, i dont play with other men :shock: i never do in any situation not just dogging, although i do play with woman ALOT :twisted: , its simple i love to be watched and to watch others.
this idea that we will shag anything is sooo wrong and is the opinion i would expexct from someone thats not in the lifestyle and belieavs what they read in the papers.
think you need more facts before you post hun
Now why did you manage to say in a couple of lines what it took me nearly three pages to say!!! Alot of us only go dogging to be watched (and hopefully watch) loads of us dont have sex with the guys.
Oh well, I will shut up because as Banlwales, said swinging, dogging and quick shags all mean different things to different people
I would be happy with any of them at the moment, but thats another story :cry: Quote by peenut
Well, Swinging (or the old term wife swapping), is like it says, swapping partners with the others consent. Dogging is about taking all comers ( or should that read cummers ? ) outdoors in a variety of ways but not ness with partner or other if attached often the other partner "understands" . A quick shag is rather more dangerous as this can be with anyone attached married or otherwise engaged. often on the sly and often unexpected.
ooh i've been watching this all day now on and off and I really don't think I can add much more to what has already been said
But I will throw my ten cents worth in any way (you know I can't help myself lol) I personaly don't think you should be commenting on something you obviously do not have an open minded view on and may I sugest that in future you keep your views to your self that way it will save you from widing up a hell of alot of nice people that use this site and respect that everyone gets differant experiances from the topic in question. 
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peanut you are way off the mark i love to go dogging but and this may shock you peanut, i dont play with other men :shock: i never do in any situation not just dogging, although i do play with woman ALOT :twisted: , its simple i love to be watched and to watch others.
this idea that we will shag anything is sooo wrong and is the opinion i would expexct from someone thats not in the lifestyle and belieavs what they read in the papers.
think you need more facts before you post hun
Now why did you manage to say in a couple of lines what it took me nearly three pages to say!!! Alot of us only go dogging to be watched (and hopefully watch) loads of us dont have sex with the guys.
Oh well, I will shut up because as Banlwales, said swinging, dogging and quick shags all mean different things to different people
I would be happy with any of them at the moment, but thats another story :cry:the answer to your question NWC is simple..............PMT
and mik :kiss: i think im in love with you :inlove: :kiss:
Sex God
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