Raising the subject with my wife

26 Sep 2005

I am in a happy marriage but like many couples with have lost the lust and excitement that we once had and our sex life has become dull.
I would like to get involved in the swinging scene but do not know how to raise this subject with my wife as we have not discussed it to date. In the past we have both been very sexual and had very healthy sexual appetites.
I am sure there are many couple out there who have been through this. I am after some advice as to how to best approach.
Thanks
Simon

26 Sep 2005

try here:-
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/28342.html

28 Sep 2005

Simon im in the same position as you but we have dicussed it ,shes a little bit aprehesive so i think weÂ´ll go to a club and just look and chat and be reassured that we wont do anything that we individually dont want to do ,if you love the wife this can either split you up or make you stronger smile