copy-and-paste from MSN messenger help feedback:
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Spot the irony:
help system topic is about being able to appear offline. BUT it seems it's only possible to "appear to be offline" if you have first gone online in order to manually amend your status to "appear offline".
You have thereby notified all your contacts that you are online, only to go immediately offline, which only needs to happen a few times before your contacts wise up to what you're doing.
Which defeats the object, just a little, I'd say.
Bloody computers.
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