Rather Un-nerving

19 Nov 2006

Quote by sheddy

and you wouldnt kick off if someone did that to PK?
still, as long as you was amused

To be honest no I wouldn't rolleyes

fair enough, then i apologise for misjudging you
and for the record, i agree that it was childish, there has been enough posts by people here, established and new, talking of shyness and confidence issues, how would that person have felt if he had felt that by the number of views he had received (assuning he has the 'extras' on his account), he saw something that wasnt there, got a knockback whivh damages his confidence?
still, as long as you was amused

19 Nov 2006

:shock: i must be sick - i found it amusing sheddy :giggle:

19 Nov 2006

i wouldnt call it sick, just insensitive

19 Nov 2006

Quote by essex34m
i wouldnt call it sick, just insensitive

oh dear here we go someone judgeing something when they don't know the full story rolleyes

Yep I'm that insensative that I would willingy play nasty tricks on people because obviously thats the type of person that I am biggrin

the profile I was doing it on was that of a site friend and someone who we PM on a regular basis and share banter with on here but hey ho if you can see malice in friends having a laugh I'm sorry that we have offended you :D

19 Nov 2006

Quote by sheddy
i wouldnt call it sick, just insensitive

oh dear here we go someone judgeing something when they don't know the full story rolleyes

Yep I'm that insensative that I would willingy play nasty tricks on people because obviously thats the type of person that I am biggrin

the profile I was doing it on was that of a site friend and someone who we PM on a regular basis and share banter with on here but hey ho if you can see malice in friends having a laugh I'm sorry that we have offended you :D
definitely, i have judged without knowing the full story
and yet again, i have got it wrong, i take full responsibility, having only read the half story that was posted, obviously, if i had read the full story, including the reference "friend" i may have read it different, but hey ho, i didnt, so i jumped to a conclusion that wasnt there
my apologies to you, PK, your 'friend' and juniper couple for my hasty actions

19 Nov 2006

Surely by subscribing to a site whereby the personality you wish to project as per the lifestyle we choose to lead does mean we are all putting ourselves out in the 'public domain' & as such to a certain extend have no control as to who sees it... why not Google your profile names & see what pops up!
If its just pictures you want to withhold that can be done very easily
But why we should be concerned about someone constantly viewing a profile is a bit hard to fathom.
Like I keep saying - just as in the 'outside world' your gonna get shy peeps looking at you & not having the courage to say hello...
Your gonna have pervs ogling & 'cyber wolf whistling' at you (male or female)
by actually putting a profile up for others to see we do invite a number of people to pass there own comments & thoughts about our persona
We cannot control what they then decide to do with the information we chose to give them.
As suggested... take the bull by the horns & ask them what it is as to why they keep viewing your profile - you will never know unless you ask them :P

19 Nov 2006

:shock: I just logged out to see what's visible to non-members. I saw avatars - didn't think you could, or profiles confused

May have to remove mine now.

19 Nov 2006

Quote by essex34m
i wouldnt call it sick, just insensitive

Apology accepted - but i do have to say that just because someone finds something funny and you dont, that does not mean that you can label them insensitive wink

19 Nov 2006

Quote by Freckledbird
:shock: I just logged out to see what's visible to non-members. I saw avatars - didn't think you could, or profiles
May have to remove mine now.

Depends how many people you think may recognise you FB ;)

19 Nov 2006

Quote by Freckledbird
:shock: I just logged out to see what's visible to non-members. I saw avatars - didn't think you could, or profiles
May have to remove mine now.

in fact the only thing not viewable on profiles are the pictures deemed too hot to view by those in SH towers... which in turn is used as an incentive for anyone to part with cash to per... I mean join the site & become part of the 'community' biggrin

19 Nov 2006

Quote by BiWelshMinx
:shock: I just logged out to see what's visible to non-members. I saw avatars - didn't think you could, or profiles
May have to remove mine now.

Depends how many people you think may recognise you FB ;)
One of the other teachers, who knows we are swingers, asked my username. He Googled it and found our profile. I thought he wouldn't be able to see avatars. :shock:

19 Nov 2006

Quote by Juniper_couple
i wouldnt call it sick, just insensitive

Apology accepted - but i do have to say that just because someone finds something funny and you dont, that does not mean that you can label them insensitive wink

as someone who is insensitive to the point of being offensive, that is a fair point

19 Nov 2006

Quote by Freckledbird
:shock: I just logged out to see what's visible to non-members. I saw avatars - didn't think you could, or profiles
May have to remove mine now.

Depends how many people you think may recognise you FB ;)
One of the other teachers, who knows we are swingers, asked my username. He Googled it and found our profile. I thought he wouldn't be able to see avatars. :shock:
:shock:
I didn't think you could see profiles unless you were logged on ???
In edit:
You can't (well I can't) see profiles, or signature blocks when I just logged out.

19 Nov 2006

Quote by Freckledbird
:shock: I just logged out to see what's visible to non-members. I saw avatars - didn't think you could, or profiles
May have to remove mine now.

Depends how many people you think may recognise you FB ;)
One of the other teachers, who knows we are swingers, asked my username. He Googled it and found our profile. I thought he wouldn't be able to see avatars. :shock:
The answer to that is not to tell 'em in future ;)
A new instant messenger contact saw my msn sig advertising the Bristol munch and googled it, asking me, " Oh you're a swinger are you?" :doh: Which was quickly followed up with, "I have always wanted to try that"... :? rolleyes

19 Nov 2006

No, you can't see profiles - I just checked. Don't mind him knowing.

19 Nov 2006

Quote by essex34m
i wouldnt call it sick, just insensitive

Apology accepted - but i do have to say that just because someone finds something funny and you dont, that does not mean that you can label them insensitive wink

as someone who is insensitive to the point of being offensive, that is a fair point
Just be very careful hunni - or i will smash that wall down one of these days biggrin

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