can you tell me why we write a profile out and people dont look have all sorts of people eriting to us that have not looked like we cant accomadate and people over 40 and soft swing onlt just to have people writing saying i am 20 are 30 and thay cant accomadate as well and there into to full so please read peolpls profiles before writing thanks xxxxxxx
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Ahh you have One big problem there.. Your assuming everyone can read with a hard on!! It takes special training all the blood disapears from the head you see... Its common with ads like yours.. the SFS ads... (Sexy female syndrome) Put a few pics of yourself up and watch the number of mistaken replies vanish lol......
Have fun... bless ya guys lol..
Mike and Ju xxx
Have fun... bless ya guys lol..
Mike and Ju xxx
Word blind me thinks … there are just some things that are not visible to the human male; cannot accommodate, no single males, must be very well endowed, no whispers, no directing and aged between X and Y, are but a few.
I think that they work on the premise that if they cast their net wide enough then they might catch something.
All that said …. It’s worth putting up with for the few that you will find suitable (they are out there!)
xx
I think that they work on the premise that if they cast their net wide enough then they might catch something.
All that said …. It’s worth putting up with for the few that you will find suitable (they are out there!)
xx
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I think that they work on the premise that if they cast their net wide enough then they might catch something.
Yep! Chancers!
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All that said …. It’s worth putting up with for the few that you will find suitable (they are out there!)
I agree with that too. :thumbup:
Warming the Bed
Mature you not alone in the problem was once told by a member ....... " I only look at the photos never read profiles"
Kiss you have it one hun :thumbup:
Kiss you have it one hun :thumbup:
Is it idleness? or is it that they cant read?
No we think they just over eager sex starved single/married men (with fem but they do all the chasing) who think just cos you are a swinger on a swingers site that the fem drops her pants for anyone!!! lol (thats what we tend to get anyway)
Subtlety works guys and replying to profiles without reading will probably get you nowhere however replying to an ad where they are looking for what youve got then surely will get a better rate of return.......
We know there are a lot of genuine nice single guys out there so no offence to you but just telling it how we see it!
Mr & Mrs goodtimez
No we think they just over eager sex starved single/married men (with fem but they do all the chasing) who think just cos you are a swinger on a swingers site that the fem drops her pants for anyone!!! lol (thats what we tend to get anyway)
Subtlety works guys and replying to profiles without reading will probably get you nowhere however replying to an ad where they are looking for what youve got then surely will get a better rate of return.......
We know there are a lot of genuine nice single guys out there so no offence to you but just telling it how we see it!
Mr & Mrs goodtimez
I might be bucking the trend here... flame me at will.
Since changing my profile status and becoming the "elusive bi-female" my inbox and, subsequently, my "ignore list" has been inundated with couples. They are very demanding and insistant that I want to f@@k them.
The men that I get in there are polite- yeah, they might not have read my profile... but they are politer and certainly more eloquent than the demands from couples.
one couple persued me relentlessly through out various chatrooms (I generally alternate between two) and told me in uninvited whispers "we still want to f@@k you" in one night I had 14 whispers from them and 4 P.M's. I have never received that sort of behaviour off a single man.
If we are playing a numbers game then I would say that judging on the amount of single men to couples and single females, the couples are the worst towards me in terms of rudeness and general bad behaviour.
splendid steps gingerly off her soap box.
Since changing my profile status and becoming the "elusive bi-female" my inbox and, subsequently, my "ignore list" has been inundated with couples. They are very demanding and insistant that I want to f@@k them.
The men that I get in there are polite- yeah, they might not have read my profile... but they are politer and certainly more eloquent than the demands from couples.
one couple persued me relentlessly through out various chatrooms (I generally alternate between two) and told me in uninvited whispers "we still want to f@@k you" in one night I had 14 whispers from them and 4 P.M's. I have never received that sort of behaviour off a single man.
If we are playing a numbers game then I would say that judging on the amount of single men to couples and single females, the couples are the worst towards me in terms of rudeness and general bad behaviour.
splendid steps gingerly off her soap box.
Quote by splendid33
Since changing my profile status and becoming the "elusive bi-female" my inbox and, subsequently, my "ignore list" has been inundated with couples. They are very demanding and insistant that I want to f@@k them.
I had the same when I put on my profile that I met as a single female Splendid.... So much so that it put me off meeting couples
No flaming from me hun
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I might be bucking the trend here... flame me at will.
Since changing my profile status and becoming the "elusive bi-female" my inbox and, subsequently, my "ignore list" has been inundated with couples. They are very demanding and insistant that I want to f@@k them.
The men that I get in there are polite- yeah, they might not have read my profile... but they are politer and certainly more eloquent than the demands from couples.
one couple persued me relentlessly through out various chatrooms (I generally alternate between two) and told me in uninvited whispers "we still want to f@@k you" in one night I had 14 whispers from them and 4 P.M's. I have never received that sort of behaviour off a single man.
If we are playing a numbers game then I would say that judging on the amount of single men to couples and single females, the couples are the worst towards me in terms of rudeness and general bad behaviour.
splendid steps gingerly off her soap box.
But then how many of the couples writing to you are actually couples.
Louise xx
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Not all couples are bad, so please don't tar us all with the same brush!
We have met some rather special couples who are members of SH and long may that continue :thumbup:
gosh I wasn't.... I am sorry. I was sticking up for the single guys... and I am "close" to quite a few couples on here. I was pointing out that I get more hassle from couples than men..
damn damn.. didn't want to seem anti couples... just anti single men bashing.
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Not all couples are bad, so please don't tar us all with the same brush!
We have met some rather special couples who are members of SH and long may that continue :thumbup:
gosh I wasn't.... I am sorry. I was sticking up for the single guys... and I am "close" to quite a few couples on here. I was pointing out that I get more hassle from couples than men..
damn damn.. didn't want to seem anti couples... just anti single men bashing.
splendid walks away quietly
Nothing wrong with your original post Splendid
As you know I'm part of a couple and I understood exactly what point you were getting across :thumbup:
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I might be bucking the trend here... flame me at will.
Since changing my profile status and becoming the "elusive bi-female" my inbox and, subsequently, my "ignore list" has been inundated with couples. They are very demanding and insistant that I want to f@@k them.
The men that I get in there are polite- yeah, they might not have read my profile... but they are politer and certainly more eloquent than the demands from couples.
one couple persued me relentlessly through out various chatrooms (I generally alternate between two) and told me in uninvited whispers "we still want to f@@k you" in one night I had 14 whispers from them and 4 P.M's. I have never received that sort of behaviour off a single man.
If we are playing a numbers game then I would say that judging on the amount of single men to couples and single females, the couples are the worst towards me in terms of rudeness and general bad behaviour.
splendid steps gingerly off her soap box.
But then how many of the couples writing to you are actually couples.
Louise xx
the couple that I have made an example of (albeit annoymously).. were originally on cam.. and I could clearly see that there were two of them. I don't make unfounded accusations.
Most of the others that I am talking about are couples for definate with similar camera evidence or are "well known".
The others... yeah they might not be couples I will give you that.
Quote by splendid33
The men that I get in there are polite- yeah, they might not have read my profile... but they are politer and certainly more eloquent than the demands from couples.
one couple persued me relentlessly through out various chatrooms (I generally alternate between two) and told me in uninvited whispers "we still want to f@@k you" in one night I had 14 whispers from them and 4 P.M's. I have never received that sort of behaviour off a single man.
If we are playing a numbers game then I would say that judging on the amount of single men to couples and single females, the couples are the worst towards me in terms of rudeness and general bad behaviour.
as a newbie i actually have to agree with this!
there are 2 couples out there who persue us EVERYWHERE! uninvited whispers etc etc etc, now we get them from the single guys too but never so rude and obnoxious (and downright disturbing some of them!). however i do wish the single guys could read - our profile clearly states that were not interested in meeting singles of either sex at the moment but each day i get another load of junk mails and whispers, BUT theyre never rude.
We have made a couple of very good friends allready from this site and i am happy to chat to single guys but chat is all theyre going to get! however i also prefer to chat to the couples were interested in too and without the automatic, when shall we meet etc etc upon first encounters in the chatroom!
sally (half of the swindonnewbies - and the one who is on here the most!)
Quote by splendid33
I might be bucking the trend here... flame me at will.
Since changing my profile status and becoming the "elusive bi-female" my inbox and, subsequently, my "ignore list" has been inundated with couples. They are very demanding and insistant that I want to f@@k them.
The men that I get in there are polite- yeah, they might not have read my profile... but they are politer and certainly more eloquent than the demands from couples.
one couple persued me relentlessly through out various chatrooms (I generally alternate between two) and told me in uninvited whispers "we still want to f@@k you" in one night I had 14 whispers from them and 4 P.M's. I have never received that sort of behaviour off a single man.
If we are playing a numbers game then I would say that judging on the amount of single men to couples and single females, the couples are the worst towards me in terms of rudeness and general bad behaviour.
splendid steps gingerly off her soap box.
But then how many of the couples writing to you are actually couples.
Louise xx
the couple that I have made an example of (albeit annoymously).. were originally on cam.. and I could clearly see that there were two of them. I don't make unfounded accusations.
Most of the others that I am talking about are couples for definate with similar camera evidence or are "well known".
The others... yeah they might not be couples I will give you that.
Im sorry,
i didnt mean anything by it and i didnt mean that you make unfounded accusations. Louise xx
i must admit although single blokes tend to send the wanna shag pms, not all of course but some, a few of the couples i have had pm's off have sent demands! and i hasten to add this is not the majority, but one example was
1. we want you husband then
2 we will want you and possibly him
3, my thoughts were fook off who do you think you are
Earthyxx
1. we want you husband then
2 we will want you and possibly him
3, my thoughts were fook off who do you think you are
Earthyxx
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... a few of the couples i have had pm's off have sent demands! and i hasten to add this is not the majority, but one example was
1. we want you husband then
2 we will want you and possibly him
3, my thoughts were fook off who do you think you are
Earthyxx
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it worse when they send you a timetable :shock:
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it worse when they send you a timetable :shock:
OMG, the timetable.... I had so forgotten about those. I haven't had one in ages, but I do recall one which was more like a bus schedule.... at We shall move into the livingroom and continue with oral for a further 15 minutes (type thing)
Sex God
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it worse when they send you a timetable :shock:
OMG, the timetable.... I had so forgotten about those. I haven't had one in ages, but I do recall one which was more like a bus schedule.... at We shall move into the livingroom and continue with oral for a further 15 minutes (type thing)
Oh! shall I amend the one that we sent hun? was it a tad too fast or shall we slow it down slightly
:giggle:
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Since changing my profile status and becoming the "elusive bi-female" my inbox and, subsequently, my "ignore list" has been inundated with couples. They are very demanding and insistant that I want to f@@k them.
I had the same when I put on my profile that I met as a single female Splendid.... So much so that it put me off meeting couples
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it worse when they send you a timetable :shock:
Now that annoys the crap out of me - once I've stopped laughing
it is funny, but it does push you (me) to >>>>>
:banghead: :taz: 'what the fuck am I doing here :giveup: ' style disillusionment & pissed off huffiness....and a few more :banghead: :banghead:'s for good measure :lol: 
:therethere:
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Quote by splendid33
The men that I get in there are polite- yeah, they might not have read my profile... but they are politer and certainly more eloquent than the demands from couples.
good point, well made splendid.............in the 'old days' when I was a single, I'd get PM's off single fellas dispite the fact that I had stated I wasn't interested, generally though they would just send one and then leave you alone.........where as there were a number of couples who would almost bombard you with whispers PM's etc to the point where in some cases it was clear that they weren't even comunicating with each other (ie I'd told one half I wasn't interested and the other half still continued)
