Reading sexual signals

22 Apr 2007

Quote by Calista
It's all pretend ... there are a "hardcore" of people who can and do ;) then there are the rest of us wanabes .. who so want to but daren't :shock:
:giggle:
Cx

Well, now i know that, i'm gonna kick back and pretend :giggle: :twisted:

22 Apr 2007

Quote by Juniper_couple

It's all pretend ... there are a "hardcore" of people who can and do ;) then there are the rest of us wanabes .. who so want to but daren't :shock:
:giggle:
Cx

Well, now i know that, i'm gonna kick back and pretend :giggle: :twisted:
Same here I think :giggle:

23 Apr 2007

Quote by Suze43
Does anyone else have problems reading signals from other people?? I do, i can chat away to someone, not realising that maybe they would be interested in maybe a bit more than a chat. How do u know if someone wants you?? How can u tell?? Unless someone says to me "Suze can i have a kiss" or just comes in for the kill, i havent got a clue. Im sure ive pissed people off in the past, i dont meant to, thats the last thing id do!!
Funnily enough i can tell if im observing somebody else chatting, i can see the sexual attraction there but just not when it involves me!!
Suze xx

Suzie i am same with you on this one. i just dont have a clue then feel all dejected and depressed etc

23 Apr 2007

Quote by Amber
I can be really bad at reading signals unless they are full on and direct - but have found if I am giving out the signals myself, sometimes very obviously, fellas can be just as bad and just don't get them at all! It can be most frustrating! lol
I wish it was easier for people to just say what they wanted outright and get it over with!

guilty as charged!!!!!!! redface

it would help me if people had big neon lights above there heads........ smile

23 Apr 2007

I get a little down post-munch sometimes because Shireen,being a woman and being attractive with a nice body and mind,gets a lot of attention and it seemed that I got very little but...
I have since learned that I was being given "signals" and failed to recognise them redface

Perhaps I need to enroll in a uni course or something lol

23 Apr 2007

Quote by Mallock2006
I get a little down post-munch sometimes because Shireen,being a woman and being attractive with a nice body and mind,gets a lot of attention and it seemed that I got very little but...
I have since learned that I was being given "signals" and failed to recognise them
Perhaps I need to enroll in a uni course or something

:thumbup: Agreed.

23 Apr 2007

There are loads of body language signals we all do when we fancy someone:
Our pupils dilate, so i suppose i could try looking deeply into the guys eyes??
We play with our hair, um yeah i could try twirling it round my fingers..
We lick our lips - oh come on how obvious is that??
We lean towards the object of our lust - yes sometimes i even have to lean against them else i would prob fall over!
So the signs are there - maybe it would just be easier to say "look i find u very attractive, fancy a quickie?" biggrin

Suze xx

23 Apr 2007

Quote by Suze43
There are loads of body language signals we all do when we fancy someone:
Our pupils dilate, so i suppose i could try looking deeply into the guys eyes??
We play with our hair, um yeah i could try twirling it round my fingers..
We lick our lips - oh come on how obvious is that??
We lean towards the object of our lust - yes sometimes i even have to lean against them else i would prob fall over!
So the signs are there - maybe it would just be easier to say "look i find u very attractive, fancy a quickie?"
Suze xx

I have thought about that but the slap that would no doubt follow kinda puts me off :giggle:

23 Apr 2007

I can't really read body language and signals that well, and I have been known to give off completely the wrong impression a lot of the time. So I just tell and ask.
If there is somebody I really want to have fun with I just ask if they want to have fun or tell them that I'm interested.
I've yet to be slapped (outside the bedroom lol

) or had a really negative response that upset me. Even if somebody says no they can do it kindly.

23 Apr 2007

Quote by Kiss
I can't really read body language and signals that well, and I have been known to give off completely the wrong impression a lot of the time. So I just tell and ask.
If there is somebody I really want to have fun with I just ask if they want to have fun or tell them that I'm interested.
I've yet to be slapped (outside the bedroom ) or had a really negative response that upset me. Even if somebody says no they can do it kindly.

Good for you!!
I don't seem to have a problem... I just go for it!
If nothing comes of it then so be it!
But hey, it's gotta be worth a try hasn't it? rolleyes

If you fancy someone, let them know, don't wait till it's too late! So i'll be checking my PM's in a minute then!!! rotflmao

23 Apr 2007

Quote by Argt05
I can't really read body language and signals that well, and I have been known to give off completely the wrong impression a lot of the time. So I just tell and ask.
If there is somebody I really want to have fun with I just ask if they want to have fun or tell them that I'm interested.
I've yet to be slapped (outside the bedroom ) or had a really negative response that upset me. Even if somebody says no they can do it kindly.

Good for you!!
I don't seem to have a problem... I just go for it!
If nothing comes of it then so be it!
But hey, it's gotta be worth a try hasn't it? rolleyes

If you fancy someone, let them know, don't wait till it's too late! So i'll be checking my PM's in a minute then!!! rotflmao

Louise xx
oops thats only one flirt left for today.

23 Apr 2007

See.... it works... Now come here wench!! :twisted:
x

23 Apr 2007

Reading back what I posted on this thread, which I should have perhaps done before pressing submit lol

I don't want it to be misconstrued that I'm being arrogant or that I have super confidence or anything like that. I too fear rejection. I just don't know how else to be.

23 Apr 2007

Quote by Kiss
Reading back what I posted on this thread, which I should have perhaps done before pressing submit I don't want it to be misconstrued that I'm being arrogant or that I have super confidence or anything like that. I too fear rejection. I just don't know how else to be.

I think that most people fear rejection of some sorts, and you didn't come across as arrogant at all.
I probably do, but I am a softy really.
But I won't sit an wait for things to happen if that's what I'm lookin or hoping for.
I think of myself as confidently positive, and what the hell, nothing to lose!
smile

23 Apr 2007

Quote by Kiss
Reading back what I posted on this thread, which I should have perhaps done before pressing submit I don't want it to be misconstrued that I'm being arrogant or that I have super confidence or anything like that. I too fear rejection. I just don't know how else to be.

I dont think you came across as arrogant at all. I think you came across as a person who knows what they want and will ask to get it. Thats all :thumbup:
Louise xx

23 Apr 2007

like some1 recently said to me.....
i have to sometimes be told to my face that they want to play with me.
i think i am just a flirt so its hard for me to distinguish between flirtiness and intrested.....
by the way my box is open ;)

23 Apr 2007

Quote by louise_and_joe
Reading back what I posted on this thread, which I should have perhaps done before pressing submit I don't want it to be misconstrued that I'm being arrogant or that I have super confidence or anything like that. I too fear rejection. I just don't know how else to be.

I dont think you came across as arrogant at all. I think you came across as a person who knows what they want and will ask to get it. Thats all :thumbup:
Louise xx
I know exactly what/who I want I'm just too damn shy to ask redface

23 Apr 2007

I misunderstood the title of this thread!! :shock: :shock: :shock:
I had packed the car and was just about to head down south to Reading!! confused

23 Apr 2007

Quote by Mallock2006
Reading back what I posted on this thread, which I should have perhaps done before pressing submit I don't want it to be misconstrued that I'm being arrogant or that I have super confidence or anything like that. I too fear rejection. I just don't know how else to be.

I dont think you came across as arrogant at all. I think you came across as a person who knows what they want and will ask to get it. Thats all :thumbup:
Louise xx
I know exactly what/who I want I'm just too damn shy to ask redface

Mallock just ask!!!!! you never know they might like you too!!! smile

Love
Fire x

23 Apr 2007

Quote by Sgt Bilko
I misunderstood the title of this thread!! :shock: :shock: :shock:
I had packed the car and was just about to head down south to Reading!!

Carry on right after Reading, south a bit more, then left and hey presto you'll be in Pink territory wink

wouldn't want a wasted journey now would we?

23 Apr 2007

Quote by firelizard
Mallock just ask!!!!! you never know they might like you too!!!
Love
Fire x

I think I set myself impossible targets as I am fairly sure some of the people that interest me arent after the same thing.......
According to their profiles anyway.....
But then again mine is blank so its not a certainty is it....
Damn............I'm second guessing myself now confused

23 Apr 2007

The worse that can happen if you ask is a no hun so get to it and stop procrastinating rolleyes

23 Apr 2007

Quote by firelizard
stop procrastinating

It can make you blind you know!! :shock: :shock: confused

23 Apr 2007

Mallock just ask!!!!! you never know they might like you too!!!
Love
Fire x

I think I set myself impossible targets as I am fairly sure some of the people that interest me arent after the same thing.......
According to their profiles anyway.....
But then again mine is blank so its not a certainty is it....
Damn............I'm second guessing myself now confused

Aw go on Mallock, poke

that's what we're all here for (well not all I admit) so go for it, what's the worst that can happen, someone says No....
but just as an aside I don't take any notice of black profiles, it says to me (on the whole) people are
a. not serious about meeting
b. lying
c. can't be bothered
So maybe a bit of updating is required before you approach said target, GOOD LUCK!!
pink x

23 Apr 2007

Quote by Sgt Bilko
stop procrastinating

It can make you blind you know!! :shock: :shock: confused

Is that the voice of experience :giggle:

23 Apr 2007

Quote by Sgt Bilko
stop procrastinating

It can make you blind you know!! :shock: :shock: confused

Stop it Sarge, I'm trying to give Mallock some confidence confused

Good word though was'nt it lol

23 Apr 2007

Quote by Mallock2006
stop procrastinating

It can make you blind you know!! :shock: :shock: confused

Is that the voice of experience :giggle:
What does that say?? confused

23 Apr 2007

Quote by Sgt Bilko
stop procrastinating

It can make you blind you know!! :shock: :shock: confused

and anyway, not if ya do it under supervision :giggle:

23 Apr 2007

Quote by blueandpink
... but just as an aside I don't take any notice of black profiles, it says to me (on the whole) people are
a. not serious about meeting
b. lying
c. can't be bothered

:crazy: :doh: Is it coz I is black den?
:giggle:
it's just a typo... dont worry lol

23 Apr 2007

Quote by redpantherman
... but just as an aside I don't take any notice of black profiles, it says to me (on the whole) people are
a. not serious about meeting
b. lying
c. can't be bothered

:crazy: :doh: Is it coz I is black den?
You beat me too it! No hun, it's coz I've taken the precaution of PM'ing everyone in the South East to warn them about you.
And were we the worst example of not picking up signals or what? :giggle: It wasn't until I got your text on the way home that I knew for sure you fancied me redface

Are you sure?