Just to balance yesterdays thread and bring the forces of Yin and Yang back into balance.
:yinyang:
1. I had a phone call from my ex yesterday evening and she performed some kind of mindf**k on me that ruined my evening and even now it keeps running round my head.
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Quote by keeno
Just to balance yesterdays thread and bring the forces of Yin and Yang back into balance.
:yinyang:
1. I had a phone call from my ex yesterday evening and she performed some kind of mindf**k on me that ruined my evening and even now it keeps running round my head.
Never mind.... have a nice long soak in a seaweed bath - that should sort it all out and soak away those bad memories ;)
its the nature of some ex`s to occassionally get in touch and bugger your day up ......so either ignore her or think of something to take your mind of her,like......quantum physics,or if a man is stranded on a desert island,how long before he begins masturbating?......is there a woman for every man? and if so how long before she f**cks with his mind......shit back to where we started
happy talkie ,talkie ...happy happy talk
wheres me coat?
happy talkie ,talkie ...happy happy talk
wheres me coat?
:D :DQuote by keeno
The worst thing is I think I still like her. You know my head tells me the way it is but the rest of me , well, as I said still has feelings. Jesus, she does this every couple of months.
Is this normal???
not sure about normal but certainley not unusual, been there done that. And all your defences crumble when you see her, well mine used to any way
Orgasminator
Quote by keeno
The worst thing is I think I still like her. You know my head tells me the way it is but the rest of me , well, as I said still has feelings. Jesus, she does this every couple of months.
Is this normal???
Yes, Keeno, it is normal and it takes a long time to get over someone and even if you do, it is never completely.
Anyway, if it makes you feel any better, I am having a bad day too. I had been making plans for a long weekend being encouraged by someone I had been communicating with online but now he's disappeared. I wish I hadn't spent so much money (that I cannot really afford) preparing myself for this weekend of lust Now who is going to see my nice new nails and appreciate all the effort I went into?
I guess people enjoy mind games. Or maybe they take a fantasy a wee bit too far and then back down in shame when they realise what they've done. But I am sick and tired of basing my happiness on other people's ability to deliver it. Surely there must be a better way in life!
keeno, i feel for you m8.....
there are plenty of women around who do things like that... it happened to me .......
theres no other option other than to ignore her and dont talk to her... even if its going to be a case of changing ure number/ignoring her call. its tough but NECESSARY.
i had loads of aggravation like that for months after it finished, she called me at all hours of the night, she texted and threatened me , she shagged a mate to get a reaction ( he got one involving a knee in the spuds and a right hook-in that order).
each and everytime you communicate you take a step back...and get hurt
the only answer is complete non-contact... you will be strong again soon and realise that no person has a right to make you miserable and to be honest, its your contact with her that is causing it.
sorry but i know this sounds long-winded.... so in a nutshell
FUCK HER RIGHT OFF
there are plenty of women around who do things like that... it happened to me .......
theres no other option other than to ignore her and dont talk to her... even if its going to be a case of changing ure number/ignoring her call. its tough but NECESSARY.
i had loads of aggravation like that for months after it finished, she called me at all hours of the night, she texted and threatened me , she shagged a mate to get a reaction ( he got one involving a knee in the spuds and a right hook-in that order).
each and everytime you communicate you take a step back...and get hurt
the only answer is complete non-contact... you will be strong again soon and realise that no person has a right to make you miserable and to be honest, its your contact with her that is causing it.
sorry but i know this sounds long-winded.... so in a nutshell
FUCK HER RIGHT OFF
I'm really sorry about your experiences but she isn't actually doing these things. No threats, no real aggrevation. It's as I said earlier part of me still has feelings for her. So after the split I got used to her not been there and then bang she rings me about something real trivial and shes back and I have to start again. I don't believe she is being melicious but she just f**ks me up.
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I wish I hadn't spent so much money (that I cannot really afford) preparing myself for this weekend of lust Now who is going to see my nice new nails and appreciate all the effort I went into?
Tania
You are coming to this according to the list as you have confirmed, so we will be able to see the effort.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/77024.html
(London Social Drinks)
Look forward to meeting you............
Orgasminator
Yes, you are right. Besides it did feel good to do some self pampering after such a long time. But I am still upset this guy has pulled a fast one on me and am more resolved to be less trusting in the future.
