reassurance?

4 Dec 2004

Boyfriend has suggested having "fun" with other people. I'm half and half. Sex driven side says YESSSSSSSS, sensible side saying "be careful, etc etc. Please help! xxx

4 Dec 2004

Sounds like you have a very average and sensible attitude Pol . When youre ready hun and not before , and if youre never ready , never do it :-)
Welcome to the site xx

4 Dec 2004

In the menu on the left there is an 'advice' section which would be useful to read before you go into anything. Take it at YOUR pace and don't be forced into anything you don't want to do. If you do decide to go for it, have fun but stay safe xx

5 Dec 2004

Just to echo advice already given... only try something when you are both completely ready and sure, and agreed on what the 'rules' are... Even then, you need to have an agreement that if one of you is uncomfortable with anything then you stop. We only dived in once we'd talked the subject to death and had gone over all possibilities and our feelings a thousand times!!
Good luck biggrin

H xxx

5 Dec 2004

Its weither it stays as an idea or fantasy or weither you turn it into got to be 100% right for you try and it doesn't work for you just don't feel bad about it,it is just a path,just as being monogomous is a path - both have their up and downside,both their own rewards - its what the best path is for you - and you can always change direction if..Good luck to you either way!

5 Dec 2004

Hi Polly,
Hang around, chat to people, join in the discussions & it'll help you out enormously. Nice to meet you. passionkiss

7 Dec 2004

Quote by HungryP
Hi Polly,
Hang around, chat to people, join in the discussions & it'll help you out enormously. Nice to meet you.

be round in 5 mins so POLLY PUT THE KETTLE ON LOL

7 Dec 2004

Quote by northeastcoupleuk
Hi Polly,
Hang around, chat to people, join in the discussions & it'll help you out enormously. Nice to meet you.

be round in 5 mins so POLLY PUT THE KETTLE ON LOL
rolleyes