Recession or single male overload

6 Jan 2013

Quote by Ian
Over the last couple of months 2 good swinging friends have not continued there SH accounts. Is this a sign of whats to come on SH as a result of the recession or is it becoming overloaded with men?

Did they make a thread and go 'woo hoo over here, we're leaving' - if that was the case, they'll be back any day now.
If they just did a runner, then it's more likely to be a long term issue.
Ian you may have more chance of knowing about the single guy's account who has left or not renewed than we do. The other account is a couple's account being smiler to ours.
Just to clarify something here, we were talking about 2 separate accounts, One being a single guy the other a married couple, no connection between the 2 of them.

6 Jan 2013

i was on this site for many years and have only recently returned.
my view of sh is not to expect meets from it as it is mostly a cam chat website.
i went to another site and within 3 months had met some nice couples and ladies from it which to me proved the point.
lots of people talk the talk here but cannot walk it and have the 'look at my circle of friends' attitude to make themselves believe they are swingers.
they are not. just wannabees.
sorry if i upset you but i tell it like it is.

9 Jan 2013

Quote by tyracer
i was on this site for many years and have only recently returned.
my view of sh is not to expect meets from it as it is mostly a cam chat website.
i went to another site and within 3 months had met some nice couples and ladies from it which to me proved the point.
lots of people talk the talk here but cannot walk it and have the 'look at my circle of friends' attitude to make themselves believe they are swingers.
they are not. just wannabees.
sorry if i upset you but i tell it like it is.

this is how it is for me(single fem): I have been a member for just under a year and I have met a number of other singles (some just for social fun) and a few couples..and made close friends..from amongst the fakes and timewasters bla bla bla this is the internet, all to be expected, I don't think it is an SH specific thing.

9 Jan 2013

Quote by M1ssVery
i was on this site for many years and have only recently returned.
my view of sh is not to expect meets from it as it is mostly a cam chat website.
i went to another site and within 3 months had met some nice couples and ladies from it which to me proved the point.
lots of people talk the talk here but cannot walk it and have the 'look at my circle of friends' attitude to make themselves believe they are swingers.
they are not. just wannabees.
sorry if i upset you but i tell it like it is.

this is how it is for me(single fem): I have been a member for just under a year and I have met a number of other singles (some just for social fun) and a few couples..and made close friends..from amongst the fakes and timewasters bla bla bla this is the internet, all to be expected, I don't think it is an SH specific thing.
No it's not! i'm here because i'm a filthy sex pest who loves fucking women......
erh... if they'll let me ...... just one would be good ..... please????

9 Jan 2013

Quote by Joewally
i was on this site for many years and have only recently returned.
my view of sh is not to expect meets from it as it is mostly a cam chat website.
i went to another site and within 3 months had met some nice couples and ladies from it which to me proved the point.
lots of people talk the talk here but cannot walk it and have the 'look at my circle of friends' attitude to make themselves believe they are swingers.
they are not. just wannabees.
sorry if i upset you but i tell it like it is.

this is how it is for me(single fem): I have been a member for just under a year and I have met a number of other singles (some just for social fun) and a few couples..and made close friends..from amongst the fakes and timewasters bla bla bla this is the internet, all to be expected, I don't think it is an SH specific thing.
No it's not! i'm here because i'm a filthy sex pest who loves fucking women......
erh... if they'll let me ...... just one would be good ..... please????
Ladies, if not for his shagging skills at least meet him for his mortgage tips! :twisted:

10 Jan 2013

Quote by M1ssVery
i was on this site for many years and have only recently returned.
my view of sh is not to expect meets from it as it is mostly a cam chat website.
i went to another site and within 3 months had met some nice couples and ladies from it which to me proved the point.
lots of people talk the talk here but cannot walk it and have the 'look at my circle of friends' attitude to make themselves believe they are swingers.
they are not. just wannabees.
sorry if i upset you but i tell it like it is.

this is how it is for me(single fem): I have been a member for just under a year and I have met a number of other singles (some just for social fun) and a few couples..and made close friends..from amongst the fakes and timewasters bla bla bla this is the internet, all to be expected, I don't think it is an SH specific thing.
I joined many year ago and my account has still been available. I went to a number of socials and munches. Over the last 3 years I will be honest and say I wanted a change of website. This account is still open so I came back to it.
The sites have always had a number of single males it is life. I actually spend less time on sites than I did 5/6 years ago mainly due football, work, and other interest. That is not to say I am not interested..I am but it is not the end of my life if I don't play for 6 months

10 Jan 2013

Nice to see some members exercising their personal choice to return to the site.

1 Feb 2013

Wow, as a single man who hasn't noticed the recession its strange to read about lack of meets then all men should be banished. Choice is good and not all are time wasters or twats. Single women in here are those too. How much is it here? It's not so much it's gonna be caused by recession. It's an opportunity when in one. I've made more since 2008 crash so not an excuse at all
J