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Quote by Islandcpl1
I wasnt the one to bring commerce into this thread, I left that to those who have either an inability to comprehend what they read, or who have a desire to cause mischief.
It was a simple question that could have been answered openly, as you have already stated you have told all the local authories, or you could have chosen to hide behind the victim status of being bullied. You chose the second and that was your choice. That is what other posters have questioned.
And when they are outed for what they are they resort to threats.
You have been told once that if you feel you have been threatened then use the report section of the site.
It has never been a secret that my parties are advertised in the "Commercial Events Forum" for all to see and read. That some contributors to this thread cannot seem to understand or follow at least one link to a party add is their problem not mine.
A thread started by a user would be the correct place to ask a question I would have thought. If you knew where this information was held on this site, courtesy would be to tell them.
I make no apologies for running great parties for which I charge. I am one hundreds of people doing the same, some of whom use SH to promote there parties.
So you should and so should they. The swinging scene has extended to this avenue of entertainment. The site has given advice to all members that they should check with the organiser what facilities they have and any stutory requirements are being met. The member then has to make their choice as an adult whether they wish to go or not. The site supports the members wishes.
The origional topic was for some ridiculous observations and within a few postings the topic was hijacked, I stood my ground, they didnt like it and kicked of. Once again there problem not mine.
All topics will ebb and flow. Reading this thread for the first time, it would have flowed easier if you had answered the question instead of knowing where it was and not giving it out.
Some of the ridiculous observations were rightly aimed at your running of the party and the treatment of the guests. If you wish to start a public thread then do be prepared to defend what you write. Your explanation for outing comments by your guests would leave me fuming if I were a paying guest at one of your parties.
If those who would like to pillory me for running parties would like to do the same for any for any one else throwing a private house party, hotel meet, or club meet for which money is involved, please do so and see what kind of feedback they get.
Each member has their own opinion on this. Some will go to house parties, some will only go to clubs, some will only go to their own house. Each swinger is different and you or they will not please everyone all the time.

Dave_Notts
i thouoght I would put this whole home commercial sex thing under scrutiny last night.
So i turned down the lights put on some cheesy music, laid a few nibbles about the place. In between doing SH and viewing porn etc. so I more or less hasd the atmosphere in place already.
Then I had a lovely wank.
i must say there was a significant difference. which i would price at about 13p at the most.
now i do have some complaints actually, and i have spent the night considering them. but its a private matter and subject to discretion.
so i know how you all feel about this.
Quote by Islandcpl1
I wasnt the one to bring commerce into this thread, I left that to those who have either an inability to comprehend what they read, or who have a desire to cause mischief. And when they are outed for what they are they resort to threats. It has never been a secret that my parties are advertised in the "Commercial Events Forum" for all to see and read. That some contributors to this thread cannot seem to understand or follow at least one link to a party add is their problem not mine. I make no apologies for running great parties for which I charge. I am one hundreds of people doing the same, some of whom use SH to promote there parties. The origional topic was for some ridiculous observations and within a few postings the topic was hijacked, I stood my ground, they didnt like it and kicked of. Once again there problem not mine. If those who would like to pillory me for running parties would like to do the same for any for any one else throwing a private house party, hotel meet, or club meet for which money is involved, please do so and see what kind of feedback they get.

Hundreds of other party organisers don't come into the forum and start threads about the 'ridiculous observations' made by paying guests at their parties. The questions asked were reasonable and it wasn't a hijack. The point they were trying to make, which you have failed to see, is that if guests pay, they have a right to make observations/give feedback. Maybe you should form a customer service department and deal with that feedback constructively instead of coming here and highlighting those observations as ridiculous. Imagine if anyone reading the forum was thinking about paying to attend one of your parties? I'd think they might have second thoughs now, to be honest. I think most readers will agree that the observations you recounted, were not actually ridiculous at all. And you don't exactly seem the approachable and reasonable type.
maybe they would be better at themed dominatrix parties.... innocent
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Quote by GnV
maybe they would be better at themed dominatrix parties.... innocent
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You into dominatrix parties then GnV?? lol
moi? jamais!! whip
i must say that this 'debate' has been
particularly, peculiarily, pecuniary.
Thankyou.
Quote by Islandcpl1
I chose not to answer because the question had nothing to do with the topic. As for being bullied, Im 6ft tall 4foot wide I work out 5 times a week and am very well educated. I dont bully easily. I stated that they had attempted to bully, my use of English is precise. Bullies tend to turn tail and run or start to riducule, both have happened in this topic.
Report people? If the mods see what is going on in forum and do nothing, what good then will it do to report anything that by inaction or even participation is not only condoned but encouraged?
The thread I started was supposed to be a but of light fun, not a witch hunt.
The question re pricing was asked as a fishing expedition, let them go fish. And it was evident from the following contributions that they already new the answer, typical bullying ridicule behaviour or tactics.
Me thinks that those making any comment at how I treat my guests should attend at least one party and come to an informed opinion and not act like a sheep.
The sad thing about all this and can be seen in other topics is, that a few cliquey people are spoiling the SH expirence for the majority and people are leaving in growing numbers. The same can bee seen in various clubs and groups

Will that be free of charge then?
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Quote by Islandcpl1
As for being bullied, Im 6ft tall 4foot wide I work out 5 times a week and am very well educated. I dont bully easily. I stated that they had attempted to bully, my use of English is precise. Bullies tend to turn tail and run or start to riducule, both have happened in this topic.

Oh please...
Do you realise how " ridiculous " and childish that comment comes across as?
If you really want to see bullying, stick around on here but if you are that easily bullied maybe that would not be the wisest of ideas.:giggle:
Report whoever you see has " bullied " you to admin lol as has been said already. But if you do you will make yourself look " ridiculous " as you have already done in this thread.
To be honest here it is you that has come across with an attitude, and one which others who may have thought about going to one of your parties, may well take a different course of action now.
You certainly know how to make friends. wink
Quote by kentswingers777
Oh please...
Do you realise how " ridiculous " and childish that comment comes across as?
If you really want to see bullying, stick around on here but if you are that easily bullied maybe that would not be the wisest of ideas.:giggle:
Report whoever you see has " bullied " you to admin lol as has been said already. But if you do you will make yourself look " ridiculous " as you have already done in this thread.
To be honest here it is you that has come across with an attitude, and one which others who may have thought about going to one of your parties, may well take a different course of action now.
You certainly know how to make friends. wink

but bugger all about how to influence people :grin:
Quote by Islandcpl1
I chose not to answer because the question had nothing to do with the topic. As for being bullied, Im 6ft tall 4foot wide I work out 5 times a week and am very well educated.

A 96" chest :shock:
My My .....You have been working out haven't you ;-)
Quote by GnV

Oh please...
Do you realise how " ridiculous " and childish that comment comes across as?
If you really want to see bullying, stick around on here but if you are that easily bullied maybe that would not be the wisest of ideas.:giggle:
Report whoever you see has " bullied " you to admin lol as has been said already. But if you do you will make yourself look " ridiculous " as you have already done in this thread.
To be honest here it is you that has come across with an attitude, and one which others who may have thought about going to one of your parties, may well take a different course of action now.
You certainly know how to make friends. wink

but bugger all about how to influence people :grin:
I disagree GnV, I dare say he's influenced everyone who has read this thread. Probably not in a way he'd want, but at least anyone considering attending his parties has an insight into the host's character.
As always Unc, a good point
Quote by GnV
As always Unc, a good point

Yes agreed - we 'leak' the truth all the time about who we truly are, especially when under pressure and when we are challenged.
Regardless of the topic this user defintely comes across in their Forum posts as someone I wouldn't like be be in the company of, let alone at a party with :-(
<<<< awaits suitable 'leaking truth' type reply lol
I'm sure they do a pad for leaky guys BIoke :-)
Quote by Steve
I'm sure they do a pad for leaky guys BIoke :-)

Yes, but what will it cost them though? :-?
Quote by BIoke
I'm sure they do a pad for leaky guys BIoke :-)

Yes, but what will it cost them though? :-?
Can't tell you.....It's a secret ;-)
Quote by Steve

I chose not to answer because the question had nothing to do with the topic. As for being bullied, Im 6ft tall 4foot wide I work out 5 times a week and am very well educated.

A 96" chest :shock:
My My .....You have been working out haven't you ;-)
:laughabove::laughabove::laughabove::laughabove:
stop it steve :giggle:!!!!do you know what a ridiculous observation that is lol :lol:
think a mod querried charges wanting to decide which forum it belonged in...........
this could have been a really good advert for a club........
but it aint!!!
we`ve been to a few parties there....n one grew outta all proportion....just told em not 2 break anything...n bring condom n a bottle....
oh n sleeping bags if they crashing...
that was free 2 everyone from this site...
oh n something else ,,but we aint finished reading yet...
Quote by easy
............ and stop sending threatening e-mail

Ok first point. EVERY member of the site is subject to the AUP. Mods and Ops included. If you feel that ANYONE is threatening you I strongly recommend you forward any evidence you have to either Admin, St3v3 (site owner) or raise a support ticket and refrain from making allegations on the open board, as all this does is aggravate any situation. :thumbup:
Next .... I was perplexed by this bit ....
Quote by Islandcpl1
..........FYI,,,, our parties are held in full knowledge of our mortgage provider, the local council, and authorities have full knowledge of our parties..........

Most swingers I have met tend to shy away from telling anyone, especially the people you mention above, about their lifestyle choice. I commend you on your absolute honesty and openness, but fail to see why they need to know if you're not running a commercial venture, unless you're inviting members of the local council. Now I see where my council tax money's going. :doh: (I'm being flippant. Sorry. redface ).
Penultimately .... I understand if you don't wish to tell people what you charge, but I'm interested how you calculate the exact amount of losses, breakages, consumption etc prior to the event to get the entrance fee? If you're estimating, then surely there's been times when it's under and times when it's over? I'm not really up to speed on all the business terms, but isn't that sometimes referred to as loss and profit? confused dunno
Finally ...... As you have pointed out, the thread is called 'ridiculous observations' and you ask for
Quote by Islandcpl1
................. other ridiculous comments or observations people have seen or heard
(if you feel this is taken out of context I appologise)
As you've indicated that you'd like to read what is a subjective opinion (ie the ridiculous) I can't see that you can complain that the thread is going off topic when people express that opinion, be it right or wrong in your view.
Quote by Steve

I chose not to answer because the question had nothing to do with the topic. As for being bullied, Im 6ft tall 4foot wide I work out 5 times a week and am very well educated.

A 96" chest :shock:
My My .....You have been working out haven't you ;-)
Must be someone else in his profile pictures then, because the bloke in them most definitely isn't four feet wide or in possession of a 96" chest.
I've posted in this thread so not to hijack another thread, i do so because the OP of this thread is making snide remarks at certain members in other threads at every opportunity, and quite frankly its pissing me off...this is thread that started it all off, i would like the OP to wind his neck back in and re-read this thread again, and maybe realise where he went wrong, everyone else can see it but he can't! Calling other members "idiots" at evey opportunity you can, because they dissagree with your remarks or comments, it only make's you look a little bitter and twisted and every bit in the wrong. Read this thread and THINK!! why it would be considered offensive to people who have paid you, to enter your home, for a swingers party, only to find remarks and comments that they have told you in good faith, as being "ridiculous observations".
May be the OP read before creating the topic? dunno
It does make a reference to idiots after all....