Quote by Islandcpl1
I wasnt the one to bring commerce into this thread, I left that to those who have either an inability to comprehend what they read, or who have a desire to cause mischief.
It was a simple question that could have been answered openly, as you have already stated you have told all the local authories, or you could have chosen to hide behind the victim status of being bullied. You chose the second and that was your choice. That is what other posters have questioned.
And when they are outed for what they are they resort to threats.
You have been told once that if you feel you have been threatened then use the report section of the site.
It has never been a secret that my parties are advertised in the "Commercial Events Forum" for all to see and read. That some contributors to this thread cannot seem to understand or follow at least one link to a party add is their problem not mine.
A thread started by a user would be the correct place to ask a question I would have thought. If you knew where this information was held on this site, courtesy would be to tell them.
I make no apologies for running great parties for which I charge. I am one hundreds of people doing the same, some of whom use SH to promote there parties.
So you should and so should they. The swinging scene has extended to this avenue of entertainment. The site has given advice to all members that they should check with the organiser what facilities they have and any stutory requirements are being met. The member then has to make their choice as an adult whether they wish to go or not. The site supports the members wishes.
The origional topic was for some ridiculous observations and within a few postings the topic was hijacked, I stood my ground, they didnt like it and kicked of. Once again there problem not mine.
All topics will ebb and flow. Reading this thread for the first time, it would have flowed easier if you had answered the question instead of knowing where it was and not giving it out.
Some of the ridiculous observations were rightly aimed at your running of the party and the treatment of the guests. If you wish to start a public thread then do be prepared to defend what you write. Your explanation for outing comments by your guests would leave me fuming if I were a paying guest at one of your parties.
If those who would like to pillory me for running parties would like to do the same for any for any one else throwing a private house party, hotel meet, or club meet for which money is involved, please do so and see what kind of feedback they get.
Each member has their own opinion on this. Some will go to house parties, some will only go to clubs, some will only go to their own house. Each swinger is different and you or they will not please everyone all the time.
Dave_Notts