Rediculous observations

19 Jul 2010

had a couple complain there were too many black guys at our bbw bashes that one made me super angry guys are guys colour makes no diff if they had said too many blokes i would of accepted it but to bring skin colour into it just made me fume
also had complaints that there was too much play in the open areas :shock: can there be any such thing?????????

19 Jul 2010

Ditto Island
Plus:-
Not enough single guys...(we invite plenty but 90% never arrive)
Not enough bi-fems.....
Too many people who don't want to play.....
The list is almost endless...

19 Jul 2010

Would saying that the curtains dont match the carpets be a ridiculous observation?? lol

19 Jul 2010

Quote by Islandcpl1
We have been throwing regular house parties for over 2 years now and have had some pretty good feedback, but one or two people have made some very startling observations. For instance one couple wrote back to us saying that "there were far too many naked people at your party". While another couple commented that "you can't have a swingers party without showing porn". Now I know we can’t please all of the people all of the time but these comments strike me as verging on the ridiculous.
I’m wondering how many other ridiculous comments or observations people have seen or heard

Do you charge for your parties?

19 Jul 2010

Quote by bouncy332
had a couple complain there were too many black guys at our bbw bashes that one made me super angry guys are guys colour makes no diff if they had said too many blokes i would of accepted it but to bring skin colour into it just made me fume
also had complaints that there was too much play in the open areas :shock: can there be any such thing?????????

It's all to do with the advertising...

19 Jul 2010

Quote by Islandcpl1
For instance one couple wrote back to us saying that "there were far too many naked people at your party".

From memory, the first house party we were invited to was not long after we joined the site. Nervous and apprehensive we were reassured by the hosts that they ran an "upstairs / downstairs" policy at their parties, so that downstairs it would be like a normal gathering of friends, however if you chose to go upstairs, then it was a totally different kind of party altogether.
Knowing that we would be "safe", we went to the party vowing only to go upstairs if we felt truly brave. Imagine how we felt when we walked into the lounge to find three ladies putting on a full show for the rest of the guests.
In that instance, yes, I would have made similar comment.
Now, I'd pull up a chair, open a beer and watch the show. wink

19 Jul 2010

Quote by Islandcpl1
We have been throwing regular house parties for over 2 years now and have had some pretty good feedback, but one or two people have made some very startling observations. For instance one couple wrote back to us saying that "there were far too many naked people at your party". While another couple commented that "you can't have a swingers party without showing porn". Now I know we can’t please all of the people all of the time but these comments strike me as verging on the ridiculous.
I’m wondering how many other ridiculous comments or observations people have seen or heard

How many people do you have at your average party? Just curious! lol

19 Jul 2010

Quote by Islandcpl1
We have been throwing regular house parties for over 2 years now and have had some pretty good feedback, but one or two people have made some very startling observations. For instance one couple wrote back to us saying that "there were far too many naked people at your party". While another couple commented that "you can't have a swingers party without showing porn". Now I know we can’t please all of the people all of the time but these comments strike me as verging on the ridiculous.
I’m wondering how many other ridiculous comments or observations people have seen or heard

Do you charge for your parties?
Yes we do charge but only enough to cover our overheads.
The fact that you charge, does give people a right to make observations and complaints, it would be in your interest to take that feedback and try and figure out what you could do to improve the parties you host, rather than critisize the remarks given to you...I'm curious how much you charge, and what overheads?? i assume its in your own home, your not getting other people to pay your mortgage are you?

19 Jul 2010

Quote by Mr-Powers
The fact that you charge, does give people a right to make observations and complaints, it would be in your interest to take that feedback and try and figure out what you could do to improve the parties you host, rather than critisize the remarks given to you...I'm curious how much you charge, and what overheads?? i assume its in your own home, your not getting other people to pay your mortgage are you?

Yep have to agree with that.
It does give people the right to moan IF they are being charged for a service....any service.

19 Jul 2010

Quote by Dirtygirly
We have been throwing regular house parties for over 2 years now and have had some pretty good feedback, but one or two people have made some very startling observations. For instance one couple wrote back to us saying that "there were far too many naked people at your party". While another couple commented that "you can't have a swingers party without showing porn". Now I know we can’t please all of the people all of the time but these comments strike me as verging on the ridiculous.
I’m wondering how many other ridiculous comments or observations people have seen or heard

How many people do you have at your average party? Just curious! lol

I thought you were past the curious stage now...
bolt

19 Jul 2010

Quote by brucie
can you edit the title spelling please.

Lets hope someone reminds you the next time you make a spelling mistake....

19 Jul 2010

That's the whole point Brucie was trying to make.....they do, constantly and to others.
Whoever they are. dunno

19 Jul 2010

Quote by kentswingers777
That's the whole point Brucie was trying to make.....they do, constantly and to others.
Whoever they are.

I do this. lol

Generally only when people are calling other people illiterate and make spelling errors themselves. It's too good an opporchancity to miss! wink

19 Jul 2010

Quote by kentswingers777
That's the whole point Brucie was trying to make.....they do, constantly and to others.
Whoever they are.

Well you seem to know what they do so surely you must know who they are ;-)

19 Jul 2010

Quote by Steve
That's the whole point Brucie was trying to make.....they do, constantly and to others.
Whoever they are.

Well you seem to know what they do so surely you must know who they are ;-)
Of course I do....if you do some homework here and go back not too far, you will see for yourself.
It is invariably done by people who have their own spelling problems too, which makes it even more laughable.

19 Jul 2010

Quote by kentswingers777
That's the whole point Brucie was trying to make.....they do, constantly and to others.
Whoever they are.

Well you seem to know what they do so surely you must know who they are ;-)
Of course I do....if you do some homework here and go back not too far, you will see for yourself.
It is invariably done by people who have their own spelling problems too, which makes it even more laughable.
I've long since given up on the search button here.....It hates me :lol2:
I tend not to highlight other peoples spelling mistakes as mine isn't the best in the world redface

19 Jul 2010

Quote by kentswingers777
That's the whole point Brucie was trying to make.....they do, constantly and to others.
Whoever they are.

Well you seem to know what they do so surely you must know who they are ;-)
Of course I do....if you do some homework here and go back not too far, you will see for yourself.
It is invariably done by people who have their own spelling problems too, which makes it even more laughable.

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
You can hear yourself right?! :giggle:
You do make me chuckle! lol

19 Jul 2010

Glad to have been of some assistance.

20 Jul 2010

Touchy.

20 Jul 2010

Quote by Islandcpl1
Dirty ,,,,,, I had this out with a mod who when I tried to advertise our parties wanted to know cost and expenditures etc. Suffice it to say I'm giving the same answer here, we cover our costs.

Erm... I was just curious as to how many people attended your parties. Cause if you have 10 couples, at £20 per couple thats £200 for tea/coffee/mixers/buffet.... seems a little expensive to me. Presumably that's all your overheads or do you charge for laundry too?! wink

I'm not sure what your reference to a discussion with a Mod is all about... that's none of my business. You do seem a little defensive. lol

Also, just out of interest... how much would you charge a single female to attend?

20 Jul 2010

Quote by Islandcpl1
Not defensive at all. The topic of this thread is Ridiculous observations.

Well in that case... my first ridiculous observation is that you're on the take under the pretense of doing something for other people when in actual fact you're making a profit and most likely having sex into the bargain and from my point of view that goes against everything that swinging is about.
My other ridiculous observation is that you conveniently ignored my question about single females so I can only assume they go free. wink

20 Jul 2010

Quote by Islandcpl1
Steve and a few others interested in spelling and grammer, perhaps you should open a thread of your own?

I was actually defending you not attacking rolleyes

Shan't bother next time...
And in the 6 yrs+ I have been here I have started quite a few threads thankyou very much.....

20 Jul 2010

Quote by Islandcpl1
Dear brucie ,,,,, I'm leavin it there just to anoy you
Dirty ,,,,,, I had this out with a mod who when I tried to advertise our parties wanted to know cost and expenditures etc. Suffice it to say I'm giving the same answer here, we cover our costs.
Powers ,,,,,,, No where did you see me critisise anyone for any comment made to me re the subject of this thread. Nor did you read me state that they did not have the right to comment. And, what makes you think that we do not take note of any comment and try and improve our parties?
Flower411,,,,, In my opinion the naked body does not automaticaly equait to sex and is not the topic of this thread.
Kentswingers777,,,,,, You are of course welcome to your opinion but can you constructivley add to this thread,, re the topic?
Steve and a few others interested in spelling and grammer, perhaps you should open a thread of your own?

Remind me of what the title of the thread is again, are you not ridiculing these people (paying customers) in a thread you started, how do you know these people (paying customers) don't read the forums, I'd be pretty pissed off if i was one of them. It certainly isn't good advertising for your parties!
Totally agree with all of Dirtygirl's last comments...cake and eat it spring to mind!

20 Jul 2010

Quote by Islandcpl1
Not defensive at all. The topic of this thread is Ridiculous observations.

Well in that case... my first ridiculous observation is that you're on the take under the pretense of doing something for other people when in actual fact you're making a profit and most likely having sex into the bargain and from my point of view that goes against everything that swinging is about.
My other ridiculous observation is that you conveniently ignored my question about single females so I can only assume they go free. wink

To your first accusation, we don't make a profit. To your second, please read our profile which explains why we started having parties. To your second accusation it is a rare occassion that myself or Val plays at our parties as we are to busy making sure that our guests/freinds are ok. As to your point of view, you are welcome to it. However I would ask if you had ever been to a club? To your last observation single ladies are free.
Now that I have answered your accusations can we please get back to the topic of the thread?
Do you charge your friends?

20 Jul 2010

Quote by Islandcpl1
Dear brucie ,,,,, I'm leavin it there just to anoy you
Dirty ,,,,,, I had this out with a mod who when I tried to advertise our parties wanted to know cost and expenditures etc. Suffice it to say I'm giving the same answer here, we cover our costs.
Powers ,,,,,,, No where did you see me critisise anyone for any comment made to me re the subject of this thread. Nor did you read me state that they did not have the right to comment. And, what makes you think that we do not take note of any comment and try and improve our parties?
Flower411,,,,, In my opinion the naked body does not automaticaly equait to sex and is not the topic of this thread.
Kentswingers777,,,,,, You are of course welcome to your opinion but can you constructivley add to this thread,, re the topic?
Steve and a few others interested in spelling and grammer, perhaps you should open a thread of your own?

Remind me of what the title of the thread is again, are you not ridiculing these people (paying customers) in a thread you started, how do you know these people (paying customers) don't read the forums, I'd be pretty pissed off if i was one of them. It certainly isn't good advertising for your parties!
Totally agree with all of Dirtygirl's last comments...cake and eat it spring to mind!
Again, if you have nothing to add constructivley to a topic why say anything at all? I can only assume that you get satisaction from pontificating and ruining other people genuine topics. If you insist on blown smoke up Dirtygirls ass please do it somewhere else
Seems i've touched a nerve, your suppose to host parties, and cater for people's needs, its what i would expect if i'd just paid, but instead you've ridiculed comments and remarks given to you by your paying customers. You stated that you started these parties because you had been to, too many seedy clubs(as stated in your profile)...would you mind giving us your definition of "seedy"?

20 Jul 2010

Quote by Islandcpl1
Not defensive at all. The topic of this thread is Ridiculous observations.

Well in that case... my first ridiculous observation is that you're on the take under the pretense of doing something for other people when in actual fact you're making a profit and most likely having sex into the bargain and from my point of view that goes against everything that swinging is about.
My other ridiculous observation is that you conveniently ignored my question about single females so I can only assume they go free. wink

To your first accusation, we don't make a profit. To your second, please read our profile which explains why we started having parties. To your second accusation it is a rare occassion that myself or Val plays at our parties as we are to busy making sure that our guests/freinds are ok. As to your point of view, you are welcome to it. However I would ask if you had ever been to a club? To your last observation single ladies are free.
Now that I have answered your accusations can we please get back to the topic of the thread?
They were not accusations... they were my observationswhich is the topic of the thread you started, or are you pissed off because it's not going in the direction you hoped for? lol

They're your parties and your guests have a choice. It wouldn't be my choice to come to a party in someone's house and have to pay for that. None of my friends have ever asked me to pay to attend a party in their house to cover their overheads, I haven't ever actually heard of something so ridiculous. :lol: I have been to a club... they are commercial industries and that was my choice to go along. Having a party in your home, in my view, should not be a commercial event. However, your house, your party, your choice.
As you say though, that's just my opinion, to which I'm entitled. I'm never likely to go to a house party where there is a charge for entrance! My choice. :mrgreen:
And as for your comments regarding people blowing smoke up my arse... I find that offensive. I am entitled to comment on any topic on the forums as a member here just like you. My position here is a Chat Op, I deal with chat related issues. If you have a problem with me commenting in your thread then feel free to take it up with Admin.

20 Jul 2010

To be fair a lot of other things start off as home based businesses. eg Ann Summers. more so in the USA and the continent. But obviously the idea of discovering a filled durex behind the sofa on a regular basis, has its implications.
But what is important is perhaps seeing how well these home based gigs are being developed. in view of the 'commercial' advertising in the forum.
But I think its time to branch out. open up an S+M cortege. Then you can send all these whingers over to them to get a good thrashing, if they have something to complain about.

20 Jul 2010

Quote by Islandcpl1
Not defensive at all. The topic of this thread is Ridiculous observations.

Well in that case... my first ridiculous observation is that you're on the take under the pretense of doing something for other people when in actual fact you're making a profit and most likely having sex into the bargain and from my point of view that goes against everything that swinging is about.
My other ridiculous observation is that you conveniently ignored my question about single females so I can only assume they go free. wink

To your first accusation, we don't make a profit. To your second, please read our profile which explains why we started having parties. To your second accusation it is a rare occassion that myself or Val plays at our parties as we are to busy making sure that our guests/freinds are ok. As to your point of view, you are welcome to it. However I would ask if you had ever been to a club? To your last observation single ladies are free.
Now that I have answered your accusations can we please get back to the topic of the thread?
They were not accusations... they were my observationswhich is the topic of the thread you started, or are you pissed off because it's not going in the direction you hoped for? lol

They're your parties and your guests have a choice. It wouldn't be my choice to come to a party in someone's house and have to pay for that. None of my friends have ever asked me to pay to attend a party in their house to cover their overheads, I haven't ever actually heard of something so ridiculous. :lol: I have been to a club... they are commercial industries and that was my choice to go along. Having a party in your home, in my view, should not be a commercial event. However, your house, your party, your choice.
As you say though, that's just my opinion, to which I'm entitled. I'm never likely to go to a house party where there is a charge for entrance! My choice. :mrgreen:
And as for your comments regarding people blowing smoke up my arse... I find that offensive. I am entitled to comment on any topic on the forums as a member here just like you. My position here is a Chat Op, I deal with chat related issues. If you have a problem with me commenting in your thread then feel free to take it up with Admin.
Yet again another topic ruined by those who seem to be itent on ruining genuine topic
Really, so whats ridiculous about asking for a bit of porn to watch, or a chillout area away from the all the naked people playing? think about it...not ridiculous comments just valid feedback.

20 Jul 2010

Quote by Islandcpl1
indeed it is our home, our parties and our choice. Our guest do have a choice and they choose to come back over and over again, and given the choice of venues within an hours drive of us I'd say that was recomendadtion enough. As for your "position here is a Chat Op" what has that to do with the origionl topic of the thread? And what do I care? If my comments offend you, grow a thicker skin, thats life.

Twice now you have implied that my comments are connected to your discussion with a Mod about you charging people to have sex in your home. I just wanted to point out that my comments in this thread are from me as a member, just so you're clear.
Clearly you do care what people think or you wouldn't have posted this thread! lol

My apologies for touching such a raw nerve! wink

20 Jul 2010

Quote by Islandcpl1
First, my comment to your question which had nothing to do with the thread re mods was in no way directed at you and I have no idea why you would think that it would be directed at you. The second time I was in effec asking why you felt the need to tell me that you are a mod. Was it to intimidate me? If so, it doesnt. Or was it perhaps to ease a guilty conscience?
Second, your comment "charging people to have sex in your home"suggests that I run a brothel? While I have nothing against brothels I would urge you to modify your language before you semi accuse someone of running an illigal business.
Perhaps you mistake the nerve that you believe to have touched as being with regard your misconceptions or assumptions about our parties? This is not the case. However, the arrogance and ignorance of a few people who hijack forum topics seeming just for fun is anoying.

I'm sorry... I think perhaps you're reading something that isn't there. If you go back to your first response, I think you'll find that you started the sentence with "Dirty" and then went on to advise me of a conversation you had with Mods. I was merely pointing out the difference as you appeared to think it had some relevance to me. As to your suggestion that it was to intimidate you, in what way exactly would it intimidate anyone? I'm a volunteer here. I responded to your posts as a member but you still seem unable to grasp that. You don't know me at all and since I don't know you, I can only respond to comments you have made.
I don't have anything to feel guilty about. Effectively you are running a commercial event in your home involving sex, I didn't refer to it as a brothel, they're your words, not mine so no, no need for me to modify my language. Perhaps the guilty conscience is slightly closer to home. wink

However, in order to return your thread back to whatever it is you wish it to be, I shall leave you to it. I think it's fairly clear to me and to everyone else that we're never going to agree with your choice of parties and your lack of respect to those who attend them.