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Regrets.... Who has a few.... ????

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I agree totally with all that has been said, we sometimes need things to go wrong in order for us to learn & become strong, I have grown stronger in many ways but I perhaps am in the wrong frame of mind tonight & not feeling that way sad
Whoooaaa......... what a response, I didn’t think when I put this thread up that you would all take it so dearly to your hearts, but it seems to have nurtured a real and genuine interest.
Seldom is a thread left alone from hijacking (not that I would have minded, as I am guilty along with the best of doing that). Your contributions are appreciated.
Thank you all for sharing your experiences, I think all who read this thread can gain from it, and become richer in a number of ways.
On a personal note…. I for one, feel closer and have more understanding of the private struggle that Judy has gone through on a day to day basis, Judy I have to hold my hand up and say “I have the utmost respect for you, you have made me understand, realise I have empathy, and look at things in a different light” (don’t get me wrong, I don’t consider myself homophobic or anything, I just didn’t look as deeply as reading your post has made me do).
Judy, I truly look forward to meeting, and talking with you at a munch in the near future! More power to you girl, and total Respect!!!!
In fact, I could write a response to all who have contributed here, as I feel closer to you all. Well done!!
So I suppose it would be rude if I didn’t add to this thread with mine, I have both Regrets and Non Regrets. Funny but some of yours are also some of mine (maybe we can learn from them).
I Regret:-
Not visiting my Grandmother as much as I should have when she was eventually admitted to a “Old Peoples Home” as it was called then. I loved her dearly.
Not being the role model to my son that I wanted my father to be to me.
Not telling the people that were closest to me how much I loved them, before it was to late (I include living and deceased in this).
Never seeing the Beatles “Live” (not being flippant - I was a pro musician for 20+ years and they influenced my music, life and career in mega ways, so this is a biggie for me).
Losing that something you lose when you part from your first love, never to be regained.
I don’t Regret:-
Living my life the way I have or the choices I made along the way.
Hitting a total arsehole who needed it (believe me, he deserved it).
Having my son.
Shagging the women I have (Ok that was a bit flippant, but hey, I’m allowed one) lol
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