Regulars

29 Dec 2004

How often do people get into swinging, try out different people,and then drop out of the scene when they've found a few regulars to play with on an ongoing basis thereby creating a closed shop?
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confused

30 Dec 2004

Quote by cc_7up
How often do people get into swinging, try out different people,and then drop out of the scene when they've found a few regulars to play with on an ongoing basis thereby creating a closed shop?
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Good question cc_7up. I think it depends on what people are after within the "scene". I think most people are looking for different things, so it is a very individual thing. I am VERY new to the scene - so I can only give you my own experience and feelings. I am a single woman who needs some sort of connection and chemistry in any sexual relationship. I also have a very full life outside of the swinging scene. So for me - after meeting a two separate couples that I get on really well with ( :twisted: ), I decided that I would stop there - bar the odd munch or two. That is my PERSONAL preference dunno

30 Dec 2004

Quote by Rainbows
after meeting a two separate couples that I get on really well with ( :twisted: ), I decided that I would stop there

What a shame....

30 Dec 2004

Quote by Rainbows
I decided that I would stop there - bar the odd munch or two. That is my PERSONAL preference

Well Rainbows, let's hope we have plenty of odd munches... rolleyes

Mike.

30 Dec 2004

Quote by MikeNorth
Well Rainbows, let's hope we have plenty of odd munches...
Mike.

Ummm- seem to have signed myself up for most of those I can attend so far :twisted: . May I just say publicly that MikeNorth held my hand through for my very first munch - and I'll never forget that passionkiss

30 Dec 2004

Quote by Rainbows
. May I just say publicly that MikeNorth held my hand through for my very first munch - and I'll never forget that

I'll never forget that either, Rainbows - a lovely hand it was too.... kiss

Mike.

30 Dec 2004

Going back to the original question in this thread, I've made some friends here and find now that, as a result, I don't have as much time to do the "cyber" bit because I'm more involved in other ways.
This explains why I'm not as active in the forum at the moment as I have been in the past.
All that matters for me is that this site, and what it offers, is working for me. It may be the same, similar or different for others here. It really doesn't matter. When all's said and done it's what you make of it and every other area of life that counts.
It's a personal thing for everyone.
Stay cool guys.
biggrin

:D

30 Dec 2004

Quote by Eagerslut9
Going back to the original question in this thread, I've made some friends here and find now that, as a result, I don't have as much time to do the "cyber" bit because I'm more involved in other ways.
This explains why I'm not as active in the forum at the moment as I have been in the past.
All that matters for me is that this site, and what it offers, is working for me. It may be the same, similar or different for others here. It really doesn't matter. When all's said and done it's what you make of it and every other area of life that counts.
It's a personal thing for everyone.
Stay cool guys.
:D

good answer mate!
yep, the site isn't so important as far as yer actual swinging goes . . . .it's kinda achieved that for me . . . . it really is more about posting bollox and joining in the banter and keeping up with friends i've made here.
i use it more for an alternative email than an actual swinging "lets meet" thing these days . . . been very lucky in that regard. :D i suspect the same goes for others.
neil x x x ;)

30 Dec 2004

Quote by cc_7up
How often do people get into swinging, try out different people,and then drop out of the scene when they've found a few regulars to play with on an ongoing basis thereby creating a closed shop?
cc

I would have said all the time - Somebody coming on here to explore swinging is usually dovetailing the time they have between work, family, existing friends, other hobbies, sleeping, eating all the other paraphanalia of life.
When you first arrive, you chat a little to a lot of people. Then after a while you end up chatting to a few people a lot.
There is always someone new walking through the door ready to chat.
lhk
Kat

30 Dec 2004

In four years we have met loads of couples, some we still see from time to time, but we still enjoy the thrill and excitement of having sex with new swingers. The first time with anyone, for us, is the most enjoyable sex of all!
We will always want to enjoy "the company" of new friends...........