I am fairly new to the swinging scene, though i have been a member of SH for a while now. I am interested to hear how people got their first 'swing' and how you felt before , during and after.
I figured this might be an interesting thread and i need to get some postings going and meet a few more of you guys.
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Remeber first swinging experience and how you felt?
wow, my first swing experience :shock:
Was a long time ago i was only very young and in our local park there wasn't them swings with the bars round that you can sit safely in
Anyway, i was plonked on this big swing and told to hold tight, I was push and that was it i fell on my head and have been affected since :(
afterwards....how did i feel ?
ermmmmm i had a head ache
Hope your first go on a swing is more fun than mine was
Shaz x
Was a long time ago i was only very young and in our local park there wasn't them swings with the bars round that you can sit safely in
Anyway, i was plonked on this big swing and told to hold tight, I was push and that was it i fell on my head and have been affected since :(
afterwards....how did i feel ?
ermmmmm i had a head ache
Hope your first go on a swing is more fun than mine was
Shaz x
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I figured this might be an interesting thread and i need to get some postings going and meet a few more of you guys.
You may be a bit bemused by our replies DJ200777 so let me explain, this topic or one quite similar is asked on a regular basis and the general opion round here is we generaly don't like to talk about what we do in our private lives (some do some don't). Normally people ask questions asking for our views but I never give theirs, I know in this situation you have no view to offer buty people are still wary about who or what they tell
:D :D :D In edit, you've been using the forum since febuary so to be honest I'd have thought you'd have know what I've just said already but fair play you could have been on holiday for a few months
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I figured this might be an interesting thread and i need to get some postings going and meet a few more of you guys.
You may be a bit bemused by our replies DJ200777 so let me explain, this topic or one quite similar is asked on a regular basis and the general opion round here is we generaly don't like to talk about what we do in our private lives (some do some don't). Normally people ask questions asking for our views but I never give theirs, I know in this situation you have no view to offer buty people are still wary about who or what they tell
:D :D :D In edit, you've been using the forum since febuary so to be honest I'd have thought you'd have know what I've just said already but fair play you could have been on holiday for a few months
does that mean you cant remember your first then
:lol: 
Sex God
Quote by DJ200777well when we started it was called wife swap ,the anticapation going to the meet was so much of a buz we got there done the swap i remember feeling really deflated when i ended up with a colour telly for me wife ,my thoughts "shit now i really am going to have to buy a colour license"
I am fairly new to the swinging scene, though i have been a member of SH for a while now. I am interested to hear how people got their first 'swing' and how you felt before , during and after.
I figured this might be an interesting thread and i need to get some postings going and meet a few more of you guys.
Hi i'm new to this too and I would love to hear from people (if they're comfortable with telling me) about their experiences.
I'd especially love to hear from single bi ladies (who r in the same position as me) as i'd love to go one of those private clubs and I@m not sure how a single lady turning up on her own would be perceived.
Thanks for taking the time to read this.
Love Curvy x
I'd especially love to hear from single bi ladies (who r in the same position as me) as i'd love to go one of those private clubs and I@m not sure how a single lady turning up on her own would be perceived.
Thanks for taking the time to read this.
Love Curvy x
Don't go to a club for the first time, if ever; on your own ! !
Someone more sensible will probably come along and explain the whys and wherefores later.
I'm feeling far too frisky and naughty to get into anything as serious right now
. . . . and I'm off out for cakeybun in a bit :bounce:
Someone more sensible will probably come along and explain the whys and wherefores later.
I'm feeling far too frisky and naughty to get into anything as serious right now
. . . . and I'm off out for cakeybun in a bit :bounce:
Sex God
My first swinging experience wasn't really within the scene, it was with my (now ex) boyfriend and a female friend where we all got a bit too drunk. I knew at that point I was bisexual and that I'd never sleep with friends again............
Then I found swinging a year and half later and things got re-assessed.
My first experience was in a club in Copenhagen with my boyfriend and a single bi-fem that he used to play with in his previous relationship. I loved it and knew I'd go back again.
Curvy-Gal... clubbing. Unless you have the proverbial 'balls of steel' enough to tell any unwanted touchers No Thankyou *very* firmly, then I'd suggest you not go clubbing on your own. The first time you go to a club, deffinately make sure you go with another person, it's a very different environment with unwritten rules which no-one will tell you, as it's not easy to describe outside of the environment.
I've been clubbing as a single bifemale on my own and used to love it, but that was after I had been on the scene clubbing with friends, partners and other females for about a year. People still tell me I'm brave now for going to a club on my own, but in my opinion it's the job of the staff to keep me safe, plus my responsibility to speak up there and then if I'm not happy. If you couldn't go to tell someone about another person harrassing you (the staff will ask them to leave), then don't go alone until you're used to it.
I never drink alcohol in a club because it's best to keep wits about you just in case.
I know I make it sound quite dangerous, in reality it's not but it has the potential to make you feel very uncomfortable in your own skin if you've not got your head screwed on the right way for even a minute.
As a single female going into a club, most people want your attention, coping with this is the key. Knowing what you're comfy with and how to say yes and no are the best tools you could have short of someone to look out for you.
If you want to know more, just drop me a PM.
Gem. x
Then I found swinging a year and half later and things got re-assessed.
My first experience was in a club in Copenhagen with my boyfriend and a single bi-fem that he used to play with in his previous relationship. I loved it and knew I'd go back again.
Curvy-Gal... clubbing. Unless you have the proverbial 'balls of steel' enough to tell any unwanted touchers No Thankyou *very* firmly, then I'd suggest you not go clubbing on your own. The first time you go to a club, deffinately make sure you go with another person, it's a very different environment with unwritten rules which no-one will tell you, as it's not easy to describe outside of the environment.
I've been clubbing as a single bifemale on my own and used to love it, but that was after I had been on the scene clubbing with friends, partners and other females for about a year. People still tell me I'm brave now for going to a club on my own, but in my opinion it's the job of the staff to keep me safe, plus my responsibility to speak up there and then if I'm not happy. If you couldn't go to tell someone about another person harrassing you (the staff will ask them to leave), then don't go alone until you're used to it.
I never drink alcohol in a club because it's best to keep wits about you just in case.
I know I make it sound quite dangerous, in reality it's not but it has the potential to make you feel very uncomfortable in your own skin if you've not got your head screwed on the right way for even a minute.
As a single female going into a club, most people want your attention, coping with this is the key. Knowing what you're comfy with and how to say yes and no are the best tools you could have short of someone to look out for you.
If you want to know more, just drop me a PM.
Gem. x
Warming the Bed
seemed a decent question to me
our first was a nightmare. absolute. i was nervous anyway, but after a while it seemed it might be good. took two years for hubby and i to dip our feet again... glad we did tho
our first was a nightmare. absolute. i was nervous anyway, but after a while it seemed it might be good. took two years for hubby and i to dip our feet again... glad we did tho
