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Quote by MQ
I traced my ex hubbys woman back to the place where she worked and sent a thank you card to her!:lol:
I think this is the best one yet! :lol: :lol:
Extracts a bit of revenge whilst not doing anything you'll regret later.
Roger the Dragon
Quote by maidinheaven
If they're living together you wait a while and then you send an open postcard on which you say:
IT'S OVER, PLEASE STOP TELEPH0NING ME
Thats awful, it would affect the other party just as much as the ex and as far as we know she was oblivious to the whole situation. Why hurt someone else who has done nothing?Where is the fun in that?
Yes it is awful. But the point is not to have "fun". The title was "Revenge on a Sleaze Bag". He's not going to stop being a sleaze bag - this sort of thing might well save his new woman heartache in the future. I'd have no bad conscience doing something like this.
Then again its so bitter and twisted it could mess up some other womans life. Spiteful is another word that comes to mind
Sorry, I seem to have touched a nerve there.
I've been in the position, feeling betrayed, the feelings of desperation and loneliness. Spiteful? I can live with that. Bitter and twisted? Why use words like that?
Been the "other woman" have you?
I don't want to start something in public - but if you haven't been through it then you have no right to condemn.
I've been in the position, feeling betrayed, the feelings of desperation and loneliness. Spiteful? I can live with that. Bitter and twisted? Why use words like that?
Been the "other woman" have you?
I don't want to start something in public - but if you haven't been through it then you have no right to condemn.
Quote by maidinheaven
Sorry, I seem to have touched a nerve there.
I've been in the position, feeling betrayed, the feelings of desperation and loneliness. Spiteful? I can live with that. Bitter and twisted? Why use words like that?
Been the "other woman" have you?
I don't want to start something in public - but if you haven't been through it then you have no right to condemn.
Ok , well you asked for this, I have been the"other woman" and no i never, ever considered taking revenge, i was sensible and grown up enough to realise that in the long term it would only cause more hurt and that overall revenge was a pointless waste of energy that could be better used moving forwards.
Have a nice day
xx
Sex God
Quote by maidinheaven
Sorry, I seem to have touched a nerve there.
I've been in the position, feeling betrayed, the feelings of desperation and loneliness. Spiteful? I can live with that. Bitter and twisted? Why use words like that?
Been the "other woman" have you?
I don't want to start something in public - but if you haven't been through it then you have no right to condemn.
I'll admit to having smiled at your original posting maidinheaven. As I said before I'm not one for revenge, but I also see it from the other side. If I was in a serious relationship with someone who'd cheated on me, as much as I'd hate to find out about it, I also think I'd have a right to know that the person I trusted and loved was the kind of person who'd cheat on me. It's a double edged sword, and while I wouldn't take that course of action, I can see why some people might.
Quote by maidinheaven
Sorry, I seem to have touched a nerve there.
I've been in the position, feeling betrayed, the feelings of desperation and loneliness. Spiteful? I can live with that. Bitter and twisted? Why use words like that?
Been the "other woman" have you?
I don't want to start something in public - but if you haven't been through it then you have no right to condemn.
I`ve never been betrayed by a partner, but I have been shat on from a great height, as I`m sure most of us have at some point or another.
As the first person here to use those words, I`m happy to expand a little.
Although I have never enacted revenge on people who have hurt me in my past, I have spend a great deal of time and energy in the past focusing on them, how to `show them` I can do better, being angry that they have been able to act with so much disregard to others etc, etc. I really feel that it promoted the negative feelings within me, and acting in such a manner would have made these feelings more tangable. If I had of enacted revenge, I would have been able to equate an actual action upon my part with all of that negativity, validating it and thus giving it more focus to effect me as a person. It would have left me more bitter and twisted than I was already. Removing myself from that kind of negativity altogether has proven to be much more valuable to me, and as I did nothing wrong in the first place, it`s the leastI deserved. I`m so much more important than the negative people in my life, and not lending those people my energy in any way, shape, or form goes a long way toward emphasising that. I`m a much better person for it, and I believe giving in to the desire to `get even` would have denied me this opportunity. I`d hate to see anyone else deny themselves the same opportunity.
It`s also allowed me to have a broader outlook on life, and recognise that some of the people who have hurt me in the past are emotional retards, and as a result have much bigger personality problems than I ever will. I tend to pity people like that now, as they are denying themselves the fuller life I have access to. I`m not entirely above getting a certain amount of satisfaction from this knowledge however. :mrgreen:
I do try not to let people walk over me in my present, but that`s something else entirely.
For some reason I get more upset when I see it second-hand now, I make more of an effort to immune to first-hand abuse.
Venusxxx (currently sat on her mountain)
Look, I'm sorry about all this.
I have never taken revenge like I suggested and I don't know that I could. It was just my imagination.
If there is a point to my "hurting" an innocent person - the "other woman" - then it's unlikley that she is truly "innocent". She must know at some point that the man is being deceitful - and then allowing it to continue and so she would be equally reponsible.
I'm not going to respond in this thread any more.
Mollie
I have never taken revenge like I suggested and I don't know that I could. It was just my imagination.
If there is a point to my "hurting" an innocent person - the "other woman" - then it's unlikley that she is truly "innocent". She must know at some point that the man is being deceitful - and then allowing it to continue and so she would be equally reponsible.
I'm not going to respond in this thread any more.
Mollie
Quote by maidinheaven
Look, I'm sorry about all this.
I have never taken revenge like I suggested and I don't know that I could. It was just my imagination.
If there is a point to my "hurting" an innocent person - the "other woman" - then it's unlikley that she is truly "innocent". She must know at some point that the man is being deceitful - and then allowing it to continue and so she would be equally reponsible.
I'm not going to respond in this thread any more.
Mollie
I agree there. My ex (before we married) left me and moved in with another woman for 3 months. Broke my heart. I rang her up and asked her to send him home to where he's needed and loved.
Her response?
She loves him too.
I tried pointing out that she was more than likely only infatuated by him, she didn't know him well enough to love him yet, and to send him home before she did.
She didn't send him home.
He came back on his own.
She hurt.
Goes to show, you can't build your happiness on someone elses unhappiness.
On a brighter note. Letting out my frustrations via writing and imagination, can be invaluable:
Feb 10 2004
^^^^^^^^^^^/Venus, when she fell off of her mountain one day
Anyone`s eyeballs bleeding yet?! :mrgreen:
Venusxxx
Feb 10 2004
I am so fucking livid.
WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE?!!!!!! I WAS SCREWED OVER AT WORK BY SOME RAT FUCK BASTARD WHO OWNS HIS OWN COMPANY AND WORKS WITH US FOR A DISCOUNT. HE ALREADY MAKES AN OBSCENE PROFIT BUT THE TIGHT FUCKER SCREWED ME OVER ANYWAY. HE KNOWS I`M NEW, HE KNOWS______ HAS TO TAKE BACK OVER FROM ME AFTER A MAJOR OPERATION WHICH, INCIDENTLY HE KNOWS SHE HAS HAD COMPLICATIONS WITH, AND HE KNOWS SHE WILL INEVITABLY BE CORRECTING SOME OF MY MISTAKES AS IT IS. HE KNOWS I FIND THIS JOB REALLY HARD AND HAVE BEEN TRYING MY DAMN HARDEST AT IT, BUT THATS OK, WE`LL SCREW VENUS OVER JUST TO MAKE ANOTHER FUCKING PROFIT. CUNT.
YET THE FUCKING CUNT HAD THE FUCKING AUDACITY TO PHONE ME AND COMPLAIN BECAUSE ONE OF HIS CUSTOMERS WAS TOLD TO PUT HIS STUFF INTO STORAGE AFTER A HOUSE FIRE, AND THAT CARE IN THE COMMUNITY WOULD PAY FOR IT, AND WHEN THEY LET HIM DOWN, AND HE WAS STIFFED WITH THE BILL, AND HE CAME TO SEE ME, AND WHEN I TRIED TO HELP HIM, THAT I`D GIVEN HIS CUSTOMER THE IMPRESSION THAT HE WAS OVERCHARGING HIM. HE WAS MAKING A FUCKING OBSCENE PROFIT, BUT I DID NOT TELL THE CUSTOMER HE WAS BEING OVERCHARGED, I TOLD HIM TO BEAR IN MIND THAT THIS COMPANY RECEIVES A DISCOUNT, AND THAT REMOVAL CHARGES HAD ALSO BEEN ADDED TO HIS ACCOUNT.
THAT RAT SHIT CUNT KNOWINGLY SCREWS ME OVER, I BEND OVER BACKWARD FOR THE CUNT, LETTING HIM BRING PEOPLE INTO STORAGE AT THE LAST FUCKING MINUTE, AND WHEN I INADVERTANTLY LET HIS CUSTOMER KNOW THAT HE IS MAKING A £600 PROFIT OUT OF HIS MISERY, IS ALL OVER ME LIKE A FUCKING RASH :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:
I HOPE HE DIES, I HOPE HIS WIFE DIES, I HOPE HIS CHILDREN DIE, I HOPE HIS GRANDCHILDREN DIE, AND THEIR LITTLE DOGGIES TOO.
I WISH I HAD FINGERNAILS SO I COULD SCRATCH OUT HIS EYEBALLS AND WATCH HIS EYEBALL JELLY RUN DOWN HIS SORRY FACE.
THE FUCKING BAILIFFS ARE BREAKING THE LAW, IN PRETTY DAMN SURE OF IT. THEY ARE RAT FUCK BASTARDS TOO.
MY FUCKING KIDS MEET ME ON THE WAY HOME AND WANT TO CUDDLE ME WHEN ALL I WANT TO DO IS KILL SOMEONE.
MY FUCKING ELDEST CONFRONTS ME WITH WANTING TO DISCUSS HER `ENGAGEMENT` AS SOON AS I WALK IN.
I DIDNT JUST , I WORKED WITH DEBT COLLECTORS, GOT A JOB, GOT ANOTHER JOB, , WENT TO THE USA, AND HIKED THE TRAIL BY MYSELF.
WHAT THE FUCK MORE DO PEOPLE EXPECT FROM ME?
IF THERE WAS EVER SUCH A THING AS FATE, IT WANTS TO PUSH, AND PUSH, AND PUSH, TIL I DIE.
CEPT ITS GONE TOO FUCKING FAR NOW. ITS BEYOND A CUNTING JOKE. I`M BEYOND CRACKING, I FUCKING LIVID. I`LL SORT THESE FUCKING BAILIFFS, AND WONT ONLY GET THEM TO WORK WITH ME, IF I FIND OUT THEY HAVE BROKEN THE LAW (AGAIN, IT WOULDN`T BE THE FIRST TIME) I`M GOING TO SCREW THE SORRY FUCKERS OVER. AND IF THERE IS EVER SUCH A THING AS FATE, AND I KILL IT, MAYBE THE WHOLE FUCKING WORLD WILL IMPLODE, AND IF IT DOES, IF THE WORLD ENDS TOMORROW, YOU CAN ALL BLAME ME.
IF NO FUCKER LIKES IT, THEN THEY CAN KISS MY ARSE.
PREFERABLY WHEN I AM TAKING A DUMP.
I`m going down the pub.
^^^^^^^^^^^/Venus, when she fell off of her mountain one day
Anyone`s eyeballs bleeding yet?! :mrgreen:
Venusxxx
Quote by maidinheaven
I just can't resist the bait. I have the body of a weak and feeble woman.
But, Chris, I can't start a civil war in your fan club which, if you remember, I was one of the founder members.
What's this got to do with the thread?
Mollie x x x x
I think you have me there, I think you are barking up the wrong tree Mollie. I don't think Foxy has ever expressed any sort of interest in me (not that the 'Marmalaid appreciation society' is anything more than a bit of a laugh or grossly tongue in cheek).
(Misplaced) jealousy has no place here Mollie.
Chris
Sex God
Quote by VenusnMars
I am so fucking livid.
WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE?!!!!!! I WAS SCREWED OVER AT WORK BY SOME RAT FUCK BASTARD WHO OWNS HIS OWN COMPANY AND WORKS WITH US FOR A DISCOUNT. HE ALREADY MAKES AN OBSCENE PROFIT BUT THE TIGHT FUCKER SCREWED ME OVER ANYWAY. HE KNOWS I`M NEW, HE KNOWS______ HAS TO TAKE BACK OVER FROM ME AFTER A MAJOR OPERATION WHICH, INCIDENTLY HE KNOWS SHE HAS HAD COMPLICATIONS WITH, AND HE KNOWS SHE WILL INEVITABLY BE CORRECTING SOME OF MY MISTAKES AS IT IS. HE KNOWS I FIND THIS JOB REALLY HARD AND HAVE BEEN TRYING MY DAMN HARDEST AT IT, BUT THATS OK, WE`LL SCREW VENUS OVER JUST TO MAKE ANOTHER FUCKING PROFIT. CUNT.
YET THE FUCKING CUNT HAD THE FUCKING AUDACITY TO PHONE ME AND COMPLAIN BECAUSE ONE OF HIS CUSTOMERS WAS TOLD TO PUT HIS STUFF INTO STORAGE AFTER A HOUSE FIRE, AND THAT CARE IN THE COMMUNITY WOULD PAY FOR IT, AND WHEN THEY LET HIM DOWN, AND HE WAS STIFFED WITH THE BILL, AND HE CAME TO SEE ME, AND WHEN I TRIED TO HELP HIM, THAT I`D GIVEN HIS CUSTOMER THE IMPRESSION THAT HE WAS OVERCHARGING HIM. HE WAS MAKING A FUCKING OBSCENE PROFIT, BUT I DID NOT TELL THE CUSTOMER HE WAS BEING OVERCHARGED, I TOLD HIM TO BEAR IN MIND THAT THIS COMPANY RECEIVES A DISCOUNT, AND THAT REMOVAL CHARGES HAD ALSO BEEN ADDED TO HIS ACCOUNT.
THAT RAT SHIT CUNT KNOWINGLY SCREWS ME OVER, I BEND OVER BACKWARD FOR THE CUNT, LETTING HIM BRING PEOPLE INTO STORAGE AT THE LAST FUCKING MINUTE, AND WHEN I INADVERTANTLY LET HIS CUSTOMER KNOW THAT HE IS MAKING A £600 PROFIT OUT OF HIS MISERY, IS ALL OVER ME LIKE A FUCKING RASH :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:
I HOPE HE DIES, I HOPE HIS WIFE DIES, I HOPE HIS CHILDREN DIE, I HOPE HIS GRANDCHILDREN DIE, AND THEIR LITTLE DOGGIES TOO.
I WISH I HAD FINGERNAILS SO I COULD SCRATCH OUT HIS EYEBALLS AND WATCH HIS EYEBALL JELLY RUN DOWN HIS SORRY FACE.
THE FUCKING BAILIFFS ARE BREAKING THE LAW, IN PRETTY DAMN SURE OF IT. THEY ARE RAT FUCK BASTARDS TOO.
MY FUCKING KIDS MEET ME ON THE WAY HOME AND WANT TO CUDDLE ME WHEN ALL I WANT TO DO IS KILL SOMEONE.
MY FUCKING ELDEST CONFRONTS ME WITH WANTING TO DISCUSS HER `ENGAGEMENT` AS SOON AS I WALK IN.
I DIDNT JUST , I WORKED WITH DEBT COLLECTORS, GOT A JOB, GOT ANOTHER JOB, , WENT TO THE USA, AND HIKED THE TRAIL BY MYSELF.
WHAT THE FUCK MORE DO PEOPLE EXPECT FROM ME?
IF THERE WAS EVER SUCH A THING AS FATE, IT WANTS TO PUSH, AND PUSH, AND PUSH, TIL I DIE.
CEPT ITS GONE TOO FUCKING FAR NOW. ITS BEYOND A CUNTING JOKE. I`M BEYOND CRACKING, I FUCKING LIVID. I`LL SORT THESE FUCKING BAILIFFS, AND WONT ONLY GET THEM TO WORK WITH ME, IF I FIND OUT THEY HAVE BROKEN THE LAW (AGAIN, IT WOULDN`T BE THE FIRST TIME) I`M GOING TO SCREW THE SORRY FUCKERS OVER. AND IF THERE IS EVER SUCH A THING AS FATE, AND I KILL IT, MAYBE THE WHOLE FUCKING WORLD WILL IMPLODE, AND IF IT DOES, IF THE WORLD ENDS TOMORROW, YOU CAN ALL BLAME ME.
IF NO FUCKER LIKES IT, THEN THEY CAN KISS MY ARSE.
PREFERABLY WHEN I AM TAKING A DUMP.
I`m going down the pub.
eeeeeeeeeeeep :eeek: :scared:
*goes off to hide and wishes he'd never opened this thread*
V was that you hitting puberty again then? :P
:lol: :lol: Quote by Jags
Can you tell me who Soloqi is?? That bloke seems quite close to you!:dunno: :dunno:
Intrigued!
On revenge
we all cope with our lot in different ways When I was younger I went out with a vision of loveliness (and the sexiest legs you ever did see)who crossed me twice. I suffered mixed feelings ranging between betrayal and a feeling of sheer stupidity for not realising what a gullible twat I had been and all this was going on when my sister was dying from a terminal disease , how heartless I thought(in reality I had no right to think this).Those were some of my emotions at the time.I contemplated revenge even to the point of smacking the other guy .
Now I feel completely differently It turned out to be the best thing that happened to me I grew from the experience and did and saw things that I never would have encountered had I remained with my old flame.
The times I pondered on revenge and hurt were wasted times which I should have cast off much sooner than I did. Move on as quickly as you can ..theres a whole new world out there. Carpe diem
Quote by KitKatGot as far as pub... and thought 'That's enough of this bollox, get the beers in''
I never finished puberty. :mrgreen:
Venusxxx
: lhk
Kat
Something along those lines yes :mrgreen:
I just found the post on `payback` day
Feb 17 2004
Hello Mr Let`s Screw over the new girl, what`s that? You want to come in early tomorrow with stuff to put into storage, and want to know if I can be in at am?
I`m sorry, I can`t make it :mrgreen:
Let us ignore the fact that I actually arrive in town at 8am, I still need to pick up the keys from the main office, and thats not open til 9.
It seems to escaped my mind that I can arrange to keep the keys on me, or get the caretaker to open up for you.
Let us assume that is because I am stupid, like you assumed I was stupid when you conned reduced storage out of me before.
What`s that? You`ll have to `shop` around for somewhere else? Somewhere else won`t offer you a discount like we do.
Wattapity
Oh, you also need to bring more stuff in later tomorrow, about 200 cubic feet, and you `happen` to know of a bay on the 4th floor which is available?
Well, after having asked for larger bays which you claim you haven`t filled and had me charge accordingly, but I have since been warned you pull THAT trick frequently, we`ll just get you to stick your 200 cu ft in one of them shall we?
Let`s see how you get on with that! :smug:
That`s not revenge, that`s not letting people walk over me in my present. It didn`t give me smug satisfaction in the slightest :giggle:
Venusxxx<------doing a very good job of `moving on`
Master of Sex
Revenge is a wonderful thing if you can get away with it un-noticed.... yes i agree, it does fuck with your karma, however, karma will come and bite their arese big time.
Patience is a virtue and sometimes its better to leave alone and get on with it than do anything at the time.
Im sure something will appear and you will think "hah! you bastard, take that"
I am still waiting to take my revenge on my step sister, who when i was 17 told me i was a waste of space and i would do nothing with my life... i left it alone and look where it got me...
I have own and run my own business, i have done since i was 24, and doing a damn good job at it, i have a wonderful man and a place to call home... she is sitting there in a dingy little flat in one of the worst areas of scotland with a daughter no-one loves and drives a bus for a living... to me that is the best revenge i can get.. and its purely karma turning round and biting her in the arse!
patience... cool off and watch!
Nic
x
Patience is a virtue and sometimes its better to leave alone and get on with it than do anything at the time.
Im sure something will appear and you will think "hah! you bastard, take that"
I am still waiting to take my revenge on my step sister, who when i was 17 told me i was a waste of space and i would do nothing with my life... i left it alone and look where it got me...
I have own and run my own business, i have done since i was 24, and doing a damn good job at it, i have a wonderful man and a place to call home... she is sitting there in a dingy little flat in one of the worst areas of scotland with a daughter no-one loves and drives a bus for a living... to me that is the best revenge i can get.. and its purely karma turning round and biting her in the arse!
patience... cool off and watch!
Nic
x
when it comes to revenge i always remember a buddhist saying
never throw hot coals at the enermy as you will end up with burnt hands
the best thing ive always found is not to stoop down to their level. rise up and take it as a lesson and climb higher then they can reach so they cannot do it again.
x rache x
never throw hot coals at the enermy as you will end up with burnt hands
the best thing ive always found is not to stoop down to their level. rise up and take it as a lesson and climb higher then they can reach so they cannot do it again.
x rache x
If I dig around for a while, I'm sure I can find the contact details for a mate of mine over in the US (untraceable to you, of course). He has a business that collects dog turds and presents them, nicely gift-wrapped and packaged, with a small flag in the business end of things that reads "Someone, somewhere thinks you're a s**t". Nice touch, that flag - and the service isn't that expensive but you do have to let him know what srt of crap you want to send!!
Warming the Bed
Ah yes - Unless i'm Very Much mistaken - that was in a film called "sex lives of the potato men" One i think everyone on SH should rent at least once - It's hilarious, and i'm sure everyone will be able to relate to it.
It stars Mackenzie Crook and Jonny Vegas
k b
which you can watch tonight on a Sky movies channel
Not sure if i've done quote thingy right as don't know how to work it yet, just thought those who hadn't watched said film might be interested.
Warming the Bed
could a kind soul tell me how to post a quote please 
you seem to be doing alright. ;-)Each post has a quote button at the bottom of it - that can be used to quote the whole post.
Or... you can get clever, copy and paste the text into your post, then higlight the lot, and press the quote button at the top of the 'post a reply' screen.
Or... Choose find a tame mod to follow you round and fix your post.
lhk
Kat
Warming the Bed
Thank You 
